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I was wondering what kind of shoes people wear to go "clubbin" in, lol. Last time i asked a question i asked what people wear and i was answered jeans + nice tank top/ tube top shirt but noone said what kind of shoes people wear. Me and my friend are both tall so if you say heels, then there will be a problem for us. LOL thanks i'll rate =)

im tall too so i feel wierd wearing heals but i'd go for flipflops or tennies. Or if ur looking for something nice get those new* low heals for teens, their not to high or low and i think they would be perfect!

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

well i totally agree with you because i do like to answer these questions nice and truthfully... but i think if ppl wanna give stupid advice but under one codition... (wich i don't know at the moment..lol)

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In my school should I do lacrosse or track? I like them both but I'm not sure which to try out for. Can someone give me their opionon? Please don't say one is better than the other give me reasons why. Thank you!

I'd go for the one that you think you're better at but i would go for lacrosse because i'm not good at track but their both fun! Lacrosse is probably more intence but way more fun.

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My name is Kayla and I'm 13 years old. I started my period not too long ago. But I have skipped about 3. Is this normal for me? I don't want to be able to not have children or anything? Is it serious? Please help.

Well if its your first time having you period ever then it probably is. It caould also be that you're pregnant, but that's if you've had sex witha guy...

But usually your first few months are irregular.

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Okay, i like these 2 guys. both are really cute, and fun and funny. lets call them A and B. A is really hot, and also really popular. I don't know 2 much about him, and dont have any classes with him, but did awhile ago. B is also really cute, and slightly less popular, but he has a girl friend, who is ditzy, but really pretty. I have one class with him. I can't get over them, even though i dont stand a chance with either. what do i do?!?!?!?!?!?!

Well maybe try to casually talk to them about maybe some school work or jsut say hi to them in the hall. They might notice you more and start talking to you too.

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well how to start... ok so me and my b/f have been experimenting alittle bit more lately, and the other day he started like kissing my boobs and sucking my nipples and stuff like that... well today they're really sore and they kinda sting/hurt... does anybody know why this is?? or what's causing it?

I dont think anything is wrong. Just maybe have him cut down on the sucking... lol If they still hurt tell you mom... she'll understand.

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Is it too early for sex if you've only gone out with the guy for 2 months? and dont tell me i shouldn't do it at all

ok if this is a girl don't listen to the guyz advice, they always wanna have sex anyway. What you should do is... if you both feel comftorbal with doing it go for it! But if one of you wants to wait i would. But i would wait maybe anothe rmonth just to make sure you guys stay together. But like i said go for it if you both feel comftorble.

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i really like this guy but i have nothing to talk to him with on aim... i kno people say intrests but iv tried that!! what can i talk to him about

Well if he likes sports you can talk to him about that or maybe ask him if he can tutor you lol (that would be cute) but just try and think as a boy and what they like , if u have a bro thats alot easyr, but just try to pop questions at him that you think he might wanna talk about.

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ok i have this friend his name is deven swyers and hes always mad at me cuz im better than him at everything and i could beat him up and he better than me at absoulutely nothing what whould i do to make him feel better?

Find something that YOU'RE not good at... then ask him what he likes to do or what HE thinks hes good at. Or purposly act bad... or just say the he's better... but it would be better to find what he's better at.

Ex: Im good with music but my firends better then me with horses... :P

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lately i just feel weak and tired. I get sad often. My moods are up and down and i feel like i have no control. I don't know what to do

Either something could be bothering you and you dont know it or well if you are a girl it could just be mood swings. Maybe you're not getting enough excitment? Have a day out with your friends just to chill out and have fun! Thats what helps me most of the time.

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what is a quick way to earn money? besides ponning, stripping, or prostitution. 15/f i need money quick. I've already done work for my mom and her boyfriend, but they have run outta things for me to do. I have a good bit of money saved up, but i need hell of a lot more.. any suggestions would help. Thanks! (I'll rate high)

Babysitting works good, or maybe ask neighbors (since summers comming up) if you could cut the grass, maybe ask them if they need help in the yard. but id say babysitting works best but that my oppinion.

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what are some really good recipes like desserts? that are good for teenagers to cook and easy for us to make. we need to make alot of things for this lil party deal

um... cookies! those are really easy, or um... make some sugar candy! or ice cream. You can try cake but i'm not sure which one would be easyest.
But cookies are the most popular and easy!

H.i.H.

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im really shy when im around people i dont know very well, how can i get out of that phase?

haha im the exact same way! but what i did was just push my self to not be shy cuz i hate it! but it still happens now and then. I always think to my self that i'll never get anywhere if i act shy. So maybe that will work for you too.
Good Luck!

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everytime i get out of the shower my knees are all red and parts of my legs. why is this and is this bad?

Its probably one of the soaps ur using or it could also be the water.

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I like this kid a lot. My friend is on his bus and they are both friends, she helped us become boyfriend and girlfriend. I think she may like him because she always talks about their inside jokes together. It started to annoy me, but i didn't tell her that. Then her and I started to get into fights for no reason but we always made up. One of the fights my friend michelle told her i was mad because i thought that she liked eric (my boyfriend.) She said she didn't though, so we made up. We haven't been getting into fights lately, but her and eric have recently gotten in a fight where they told each other they weren't going to be friends anymore. My friend was cursing about him behind his back and saying all these bad things about him like how rude he was. That upset me. Then one day on the bus she sat with him and when she came into school she said to me that she wasn't mad at him and then in a very dreamy voice she said "We sat together, we talkedm, and we laughed." I told my boyfriend about this and how i felt like she liked him and he said that he only liked me and i didn't have to worry about him ever liking her. I don't want to talk to my friend about it because we will get into another fight and i can't stand that. Now they are friends again. My friend told me that she had a dream that a really hot guy who looked like eric liked her and then today she told me that in the game sims she made me and eric be married and that i cheated on him and he turned out to be gay. Do you think my friend want likes him and wants him to like her? Do you think my boyfriend likes her? What should I do about this situation? I can't tell my friend how I feel and i won't dump my boyfriend because i like him too much. Please help!

Well it does sound like your friend sorta likes him but maybe you should just try to talk to her about it, even if you do get into a small fight again, but you will feel better talking about it instead of just keeping it to youself.
But if he sais that he likes you and never will like her and you can trust him then thats good.
But trust me it will help talking to you friend about whats bugging you.
Good luck and i hope i helped!

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everytime i leave my hair down if i brush it it gets all staticy. how can i stop ot from getting like that??? (i use conditioner)

Well it's probably the conditioner your useing. Plus its also a winter thing... but try using Herbal Essences Conditioner and Shampoo. I use it and i haven't had stadic hair in ages! i love it!!
Good Luck hun!

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How do you know when your in love? When i see this guy i get the butterflies and my heart starts racing. I get all excited and hyper. I can never take my mind off him and i get depressed when i don't see him. He's my boyfriend now, but i just wanted to know if i am really in love.

Fro what it sounds like you are inlove, but just make sure that he feels the same way about you, not that you got depreassed because he doesn't.

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I got my hair permed but its finally out. But now my hair is all frizzy and puffy what can I do about that? U use garnie frutics milk but it seems like it dont help

Maybe use a good conditioner and that will make the friz go out. I would recomend Herbal Essences Conditioner and Shampoo.
Good Luck!

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I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?

Well you could always get a grl as a friend and talk with her, as long as you dont affair with tha woman friend. Also maybe try to see if you wife still has some tuch and tuff of feeling the way you do about love. But if you need to talk witha woman, look for a friend.
only 14 but H.i.H. :)

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im trying to lose wieght in about 2 weeks. does anyone know anything i can do that can burn up calories really fast and would make me lose alot of wieght. i dont have a tred mill and theres alot of snow outside so i cant run outside. please help!

depending on how old you are (if u can drive or not) go to the gym to work out, eat fruit and healthy stuff. cut down on the junk, and anything with loads of fat and calories.
Good Luck hun!

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