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Q: this is kinda a dumb ?..but i have a 5 month old shihtzu..and when i sit him up..he has this red stuff that comes out if his "penis" but when i stand him back up..it goes away..what is that and why does it happen..lol..sorry if you dont understand my question..i tryed

The dog is getting horny. My dog does the same thing. He needs female dog. Or at least somem to Ride for his joyride. Let him go to town. He'll stop when hes through

Q: Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong?

hey there... heres what i think about your sitch. If you like him kissing your neck alot.. then thats one step to going and having sex. But if he took your shirt off. then hes way too obsessed with having sex. Talk to him about it. That may be all he wants from you..

Q: ok my friend jessica has a HORRIBLE problem! she never stops sweating. even shes sitting down shes sweating. People usually sweat when there hot or doing physical activity but she sweats when shes sitting on the couch and watching tv. she was too embarased to ask this question online so i told her that i would do it for her (ima good friend lol) shes tried ALL diff deoderants and NOTHING can stop it. its only under arm sweating and its gotten so bad. please help her! thanks!

signed..
trying to help a friend!

hey ill help you and your friend. she probably has a sweating disorder. She needs to see a doctor. Does her parents know? If not they need to take her to the doctors and get it checked out. Tell your friend if she has any other problems write to me and ill help... You too... Good luck

Q: okay this is the typical boy problem that i'm sure you here every singal day, but i still need some help. I'm 13 and im a girl... okay... last school year i had a great boyfriend and he was the best, and then after awhile i started to like another guy and i felt guilty going out with the guy, while liking somebody else too. so i broke up with my boyfriend. the other guy that i liked i didnt have any chance with, and he was just my friend. so all summer long i was talking to the guy i liked(who i had broken up with my boyfriend for)and at times it felt like he liked me but then other times he was just my friend. so after a while i just gave up. i still had some feelings for my old boyfriend even when i broke up with him. so now my old boyfriend wont go out with me because he thinks that i break up with people so i can go out with somebody else. I dont do that though, I have a lot of reasons. But I always end up going back and forth between the two guys, i mean i cant deside who i like best. I just don't know what to do about it all and its confusing the heck outta me!! please help mee!!!
signed,
confused

Okay i had this same problem with 2 guys last year. If you have a boyfriend.. its okay to look at the guys but you just cant touch them. I do it all the time. You can have feelings for more than 1 guy ya know. Just keep it to yourself and youll be fine. O and another thing... Dont let ur bf see u seekin other guys.. thatll just ruin for ya

Q: Um, like my period started today and it usually lasts 5 days which means its last day wil be on Tuesday... the first day of school!... so like I was wondering if you all knew anything that could shorten it by like just a day... for example things I could do n such. Thanks

theres nothing you can do to shorten your period. if it wants to end it will. Good luck with your period. Oh and i forgot to tell you... It may last more than 5 days.

Q: well.. i wrote the other day and i told yall that there was this guy on my bus.. and he asked me out.. and i said no.. hahaha.. cuz i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt.. and yea.. so.. me and him are cool again.. but there is this one little girl who likes him.. and everytime he is with me.. she starts talking mess about me to all her little friends.. so.. i didnt want that.. so today.. he went up to talk to me.. and he was like.. " hey.. so you gunna holla at me or wut? " and i was like.. oh.. nope.. srry.. jessie might get mad.. and he was like what?? so.. i told him she was talking mess.. and now hes mad at her.. and shes even more mad at me.. so.. i dont know what to do.. should i stop talking to him?? or what?? ill rate ya if you give good advice :)

Dont stop talkin to him for another girl if she gets mad at you. That happened to me many of times. If she gets mad... screw her.. live your life the way you want. Not the way other people want you to.

Q: I wanna b the student concil rep. for my class in seventh grade...how can i win soo peeps will vote for me.....(and i am shy around the popular kids)

Well heres what i can tell you. I tryed to get people to vote for me becuase i ran for Treasurer and Secretary my 7th and 8th grade year. Im in 9th now in Mt. Pleasant Sr. High. I tryed to get all kinds of people to vote for me. But unfortunately popular kids ran against me and i lost. Dont be shy around popular people. It never works. Be open minded. Dont let the popular kids push u out of running. Everyone is popular in their own way. Good luck.

Q: Hello. Here is the situtation (sorry if its long)

Im a freshman in high scool, and I have 2 really good friends. One of them, let's call her Jacki, is really close to me, weve been friends for a long time. My other good friend is Kelsey, I havent known her as long as Jacki and we arent as close as Jacki and I are. So, unfortunetely Jacki went to a different high school then me, but me and Kelsey are at the same school. So, me and Kelsey have been hanging out at school, but the past two days she hasn't been talking to me that much. She sits at the opposite side of the lunch table, she hardly talks to me, and she talks to other people. I have other friends at the table and everything, but it really makes me feel bad because I feel like I have no REALLY good friend to talk to :-( I miss being with Jacki... please help. Thanks if you take the time to read it all! =)

hi. I can help you. My name is Kelsey too. i just put on here that my name is Christine becuase thats my Frech name. Well n e ways... make new friends and hope that kelsey talks to you. Whats Kelsey's last name? Do you go to Mt. Pleasant? If not what school. Talk to me if you need more advice.

Q: If your belly button peircing is infected and bleeding because you messed with it too much as in taking it out and putting it back too much, can you put peroxide on it?! If not what can I put on it?! Thanks

hi im really good with peircings. i can help you. i have my belly button and my tongue peirced. My belly button was infected when i kept on messing with it too. Yes you can put peroxide on it. If that dont work try putting contact solution on it. Clean it really well and dont play with it as much. Leve it in for 1 month. Clean it with antibacterial soap. good luck

Q: Hi i think your a GREAT advice columnist and you give great advice! I have a question for you. My boyfriend and i were here making out and doing our think and then he tryed to take my pants off! I stoped him and said no. I am 14 and I think i might be ready to have sex do you think that is a bad thing and i am too young? What should i do about me not wanting to have him take my pants off?

Signed
Confused!

Well thank you. Well here's what i think... If you think you are ready then go for it. How does he make you feel when youre around him? If you have weird feelings in your stomach like i do when im around my boyfriend then youre definately ready. Any one can be too young to have sex. But if you think you are ready go ahead.

Q: okay well see im going to the movies with my 2 bestfriends and they are bringing their boyfriends!! see i dont have one so i feel left out what is a good way to get someone to like you?

act yourself around guys. One will come along sometime. Go to the movies and have fun. You'll meet someone along the way.

Q: Hi, i'm 13 years old and i'm a girl. I like this boy but he is taken already, By one of my friends. I really like him and i want to tell him but how can i without my friend not finding out?

things will change soon. Believe in your soul. If you tell this boy too soon your friend will find out. Give it time. The time will come when it does tell him how you really feel about him

Q: I NEED HELP!!!!!...Ive Been Goin Out With My Bf For Like 2 Weeeks But we Knew Each Other Like 1-2 Weeks Before He Asked Me Out...Well I Talk To His Cuz A Lot(Ive Known Him For Like 6 Months) And He Told Me That His Cuz Has Another Gf Besides Me...So Last Night I Called Him And Ask Him If That Was True And He Said, "Yes , But I Didnt Kno"...(How Can You Dont Kno If Your Goin Out With Sum1????)...Well I Asked Him If He Likes Her And He Was Like, "Not As Much As I Like You....Once I Get Here From Camp ill Cut Her"...All My Friends Are Telling Me To Cut Him....But I Love Him Soooo Much To Let Him Go....What Should I Do???...Should I Cut Him???... Dont Wanna Get Hurt!..Can sum1 PLEASE Gimmie Advice...Thanx...

this one is up to you. Do u think you are too much in love with him or could you let him go and try to get over him. Dont get obsessed with him too much. Its hard once a guy cheats on you. Dont believe your friends. They can lie a lot do what you think you need to do. Make yourself happy. Not everyone else

Q: okay..my best friend i love her and everything, but she has this level of flirting that is like wayy over the line. and when ever she goes out wtih someone she like flirts wtih other guys and i tell her that she has a bf and she is like..so he cheated on me! and omg! and whenever she isn't going out with anyone she flirts bigggg time with other guys like she is a slut! and we actyally have some sluts at our school (like gurls gogot "fingerd" or w/e) and she also got fingerd but i am one of the only people who knows about it and i just dont know what to do! please help me!?

~*~*Dazed and Confused*~*~

i think you need to tell your bf that she needs to settle down on the guys. Getting fingered is dirty. She may even become a slut. But if your a true friend... your should help her by getting her to leave the guys alone and concentrate on school work instead. Or else you and her shouldnt be friends... try to help her

Q: I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?

This one is up to you. I had a boyfriend who cheated on me and i never went out with him again. Never trust a guy that says he'll cheat on a woman. In fact oyu could do way better than that kid. Try to find one that's nice enough not to cheat on a woman

Q: i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

Im sorry there is no way of getting a free abortion without your parents knowing. In fact your parents kind of have to know. Something may go wrong and you may need a parent's advice.

Q: im having a sleepover and i need a theme.there will be 3 girls there and we r 14 so plz help wiv sum good themes i rate well

WEll... it all depends on what everyone likes to do. Try having some contests... like, holding a spoon in your mouth with a liquid on it. While wearing high heels. Maybe even have other things. Talk about boys and paint finger nails and toe nails. Have a good time.

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