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i am in love with my best friends sister who he is very protective of how do i tell him without hurting our friendship or getting them upset with eachother?

Hey sweetie,
Well, that's going to be a difficult one to tell him.
I knew someone who went out with his best friends little sister, and he just talked to him about it and made sure he was cool with it before hand.
Just tell him straight up, I mean it would be better than going behind his back and him finding out.
Just be like "I don't know how to tell you, but I thought I should talk to you first about it, I really like your sister alot..and I was just wondering if I could take her out sometime, I just wanted to know if you were cool with that or not.." Just say something like that. If you still need help with this, just leave another message in my inbox! Good luck hun. And tell me how it goes!!

♥ Kourtney

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okay so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied.

Hey sweetie.
He's already always staring at you =D So, I'm sure he like you..yay. When you talk to him smile alot and giggle. And playfully hit him and stuff (don't hit hard!! haha) Just be like "We should hang out sometime!" or say "Call me later!!" And give him your number of course. And when he says something cute be like "Aww, you're so cute!" Just say stuff like that. You'll get the idea once you start flirting. Just have fun. I hope this helps and good luck ;) Tell me how it goes and if you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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heyy kourtney sry for asking another Q.
ok well i like this really hot guy names trey he lives lyk 45 minutes away from me and i only c him once a year but i know he likes me cause when ever i see him he always looks at me like every chance he get and he flirtted with me like last year LOL and i have his number and this year we didn't talk to each other so i wanna call him but whenever i pik up the phone to call him i hang up cause im in fear of rejection so should i call him and if i do what do i say
thanks you are really nice ----susie

Hey Sweetie.
It's no problem to ask me another question. That's what I'm here for anyways =D

Alright, well if this kid looks at you every chance he can and flirts with you all the time, he must like you or he just thinks you're just so pretty!! He might not of called you because he might feel the same way you do, guys get scared of rejection too. But, hey just call him as if you're calling a friend! It'll be no big deal. I mean, just because you call someone, doesn't mean you like them! You know? So, it won't look too obvious. Just call him and be like "Hey! It's Susie!! How are you?" "I haven't talked to you in so long, so I decided to call you!" And just go from there and catch up on some stuff. I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox! Tell me how it goes!

And you seem really nice too =D

♥ Kourtney

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heyy kourtney
there is this boi at skool that i used to like when he was with my frend and they broke up....now he's with a girl that is realy mean to me and my other frend in his class told he she herd them talking to each other saying that parker (the boi i used lyk) was going to pretend to break up with dani(his current gf) and he's pretending to like me and then when he makes me find out ihe doesn't like me he's gonna make all his frends laugh at me cuz he thought i believed him so im lucky enought to know what he's going to do but how can avoid this or get him back for doing this
-----susie

Hey Susie! AHH boys are so dumb sometimes! Girls are drama lol. Geez lol. Alright, well the best thing you can do to avoid that girl, is to not even pay attention to her, and act like it doesnt even bother you, because if you act like it bothers you, she's going to notice it and keep trying to get under your skin. And as for the boy, when he says he likes you, be like "Too bad I don't like you!" Be snobby about it since he's going to do that to you. I hope this works, and if you need anything else, just post another message in my inbox! Good luck hun!

♥ Kourtney

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Hi! I am Brittany and I am 13 and I was just wondering what I could do to make money. I need money because I want to buy a BUNCH of things from my Alloy magizen ha ha! :) But yeah have any ideas?
P.S You seem really nice and in your picture you look really pretty! Don't stop giving advice! :)


xo Brittany ox

Hey Brittany!! Aww, I love that magazine! They have such cute clothes! lol. Well, you could try to babysit in your neighborhood. I mean, you're old enough to do that now. =) So, try putting up flyers or something asking if anyone needs babysitters. Or, you could try to work with your parents for awhile, or see if you could earn some extra cash doing work around the house! I hope this works and if you need any more ideas, just let me know! I'll try to help you out! I hope you get all those clothes! =)

And thank you for saying I look pretty. You seem nice yourself =D

♥ Kourtney

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Okay i rly like this guys in school and well he flirts a little and i mean a little and were friends but hes RLY hawt! how can i get him to like me? what should i do? **ill rate 55's unless its mean!!! **

You can't make a guy like you. That's the hard part. All you can do is show him your awesome personality. Ask him if he would like to hang out sometime or have him call you sometime. I mean friends do hang out and call each other. And as time passes by, maybe he'll realize he likes you. But, for now, just talk to him and be yourself, don't ever be someone else (not saying you would do that). And when he flirts with you, flirt back! That's all you really can do. I hope this helps and tell me how it goes!! If you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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where can i go to get some good quotes? and do u have any idea were i can go to get some ideas for screen names? thanks so much for ur help!

Hey Sweetie. Go to this website:

http://www.quotemania.2ya.com/

They have like EVERYTHING there and such cute quotes and full of screen names. If that website doesn't work, let me know and I'll find something else!

Otherwise go to this one.. it's the same thing lots of cute quotes and screen name ideas. It says its closed, but go to the link that it says to go to and click on that:

http://hellz-angelz.cjb.net

Hope this helps you out. If you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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where can i get a dooney and bourke purse? thanks xoxo

You can go to there website:

www.dooneyandbourke.com

or go to Dillards

or you can bid on eBay.

Hope this helps!

♥ Kourtney

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What are some good places to find some nice dress,not like to dressie.
But just a nice dress,at a good price.

Just depends on where you live...

Forever 21

If you dont have that store the website is:
www.forever21.com

Charlotte Russe

Dillards

JcPennys

Ross

I hope this helps! Good luck!! And if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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OK my boyfriend wants to die. He says he wants to die young. I don't know how to help him. We're going to see a counselor tomorrow morning. Will that help? What do they do?

Try talking to your boyfriend about it and help him realize that he's too young to die and he's got a lot to live for. And that a lot of people care about him and don't want anything to happen to him. But, a counselor should help him, they'll just talk to him about it and try to change his mind basically. They're professionals, so they know what they're doing and have dealt with situations like this before, so they'll know what to do. So, good luck tomorrow! If you still need help or just need to talk, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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Wow first i want to say that you are great!!! Well the question is about me and the Love of my Life... Well lets see i am in the Navy and i am half way around the world in Japan... Well I am not sure if you have ever had a long distance realashionships But let me tell you being this far is even harder and being in the Navy does not make it easer... It not like i can just call her when ever i want.. Ok Well i want to say this I have been the guy that ever girl is always asking for an in me being over here i have not even though about cheating on her i only want her to only be happy... I love her and i want to spend the rest of my life with her... But it is really getting hard on the both of us and it is like that she is slowing giving up... She tells me she love me but To me it seems let she does not mean it.. I mean that now she does not want me calling her ever day now and i think i am going to lose her what should i do to try and save what i have... I am planning on going home for X-mas but being in the Navy there is a chance that i will not be able to... WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP THIS!!!
jamskateman@yahoo.com

Aww, how am I great?! THANK YOU. YOU ARE TOO THEN!! =D haha.

Alright, anyways, no I have never had a long distance relationship. But, I'm sure it's hard to deal with not seeing them every single day. But, if you two really do love and care about each other as much as it seems, you two will make it through anything, especially the distance you two have between each other as of right now. It seems like you really do love her and thats great!! But, don't just automatically assume something, like you dont think she means it when she says "I love you." You have to think of the things like, she's gone through this far with you (the long distance), do you really think she would just give up on you now? I honesly don't think she would, but I don't know her and thats just my opinion. It might just seem like she's giving up, but really she's not. She might just be hurt that she can't see nor talk to you as much as she would like to see you and she probably doesnt like to see you hurt (because I'm sure she knows you dont like not seeing or talking to her as much as you would like to).. you know? But, if you really want to know how she feels, you need to communicate with her and ask her things that you would like to know and tell her how you feel. Sometimes, in relationships, you have to remind each other at times how much that person really means to you, especially in times like that (you in the Navy, etc.) Try writting her a note or calling her or something. Whatever you're more comfortable with. Sometimes writting a note, you get more stuff out because you have more time to think of what you want to say, but it means more if you say it to her. Maybe if you write it down first and then read her the note, that would be great and very sweet and mean a lot. But, whatever makes you comfortable. In the note, just basically tell her how you feel about this whole situation and how much she means to you and stuff. If you need help writting the note or whatever, just email me at:

lilbluidblondee@yahoo.com

Or leave a message in my inbox. But, tell me how everything goes please! Good luck sweetie and I hope you come home for Christmas to see her!

♥ Kourtney

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hey girl your freakin gorgeous!! but yeah to make a long story short im in love witha guy who barly knows who i am =[ i had a friend tell him that i like him, becuase im pretty shy around him, and just him, otherwise im totally outgoing, but yeah so he knows that i like him and he stares and smiles at me a lot but i left my number in his yearbook last week at the end of the school year, and he still hasnt called =[ i dont know if it means he doesnt like me or if hes tooo shy? but yeah i see him all the time at football games but i dont know what to say i mean i want to just go up to him and be like "your so hott we should go to the movies" but im wayy too shy around him..HELP!!

Hey. THANK YOU!! =)

Aww, well if he smiles at you and stares at you ALL the time, he's gotta like you =)!! He may just be shy to call you, or he might not know if you still like him or not. Since, you do still see him at football games, you should go up to him. It'll be okay, I mean he already knows you like him! So, just go up to him and be like "HEY!! How are you?" and hold a conversation with him. You can always be like "Call me tonight or tomorrow and maybe we can do something" or "What are you doing tomorrow or tonight?" or "Call me tonight or tomorrow.. or do you just want me to call you?" Say something like that when you're done talking to him! I hope this works and good luck. Tell me how it goes and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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okay well this so awkward but here we go..i hate having hair on my vagina, i want it all off! what should i do nare it, wax it?? becuase i think that waxing in some areas might be very painful, any suggestions??

Yea, I know what you mean! I hate it too. Most girls do too. Me and like many other girls shave it. But, don't just use water because that will give you bad razor burn. Make sure you have either LOTS of soap or shaving cream. I hope this works and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Good luck.

xoxo Kourtney

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ok i am 15 and a female and me and my bf have been going out for week now and i really really like him and he really likes me too. and all of sudden my ex, who was also my first love, just starts talking to me and leading me on!! i think i am starting to miss my ex what should i do??

Alright, from experience, Ex's would always do that to me too. I would get over them, find a new person and then BAM they would all of a sudden start liking me again. But, you have to think about a lot of stuff. Be friends with your ex b/f, but don't lead him on nor let him lead you on. Just be friends and see if things would be different between you two. Do like a pro's or cons list and see who you enjoy being with more, who makes you laugh, who makes you smile more, who you think about more often, who you could see yourself with for awhile, and who truely makes you feel so happy! I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox! Good luck hun and tell me how it goes!!

*Follow your heart*

xoxo Kourtney

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will you help me with myspace? i went to www.musicvideocodes.com and you pick colors and stuff and then they give you a code. i pasted the code into my info.. and it didnt work. where do i paste the code? do you even know what im talking about? haha

lol. Yes, I do, I have myspace myself lol. I had so much trouble with it haha. If you want my link, just ask me for it. Alright, once you get the code for the music video that you want.. go to edit your profile and past it either in the About me. Then hit submit once you have that done. Hopefully this helps you out alittle bit more, if not just send me another message.

This is where I got my music video:
http://www.videocodezone.com/

Once you found the song you want, theres the codes, copy the code that says:
Insert This Code Into Your Website

Alright well I hope this helps!!

xoxo Kourtney

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hey its me misery again
my friend told me today that hes going out with this girl now i dont know what to do
hes treating me like shit doesnt even care about my feelings
i love him i dont know what to do nomore
im here crying because of him
this is just so messed up i hate my life
me and him were supposed to be together not her and him
HELP!!

MISERY

Hey sweetie!!

Aww I'm so sorry!! Boys can be so dumb sometimes. But you can't let that get you down and bring you down so much that you hate your life. I know you hurt a lot.. I've been hurt alot by boys. But, you just gotta forget about him and let him go and if he returns then you two were ment to be. You guys just aren't right now. But, you gotta go out and live your life.. you only live once. Go have a girls night out, go to the mall, or go to a party, or meet new people (BOYS), etc. Just go out and get your mind off of things and HIM. You gotta go and give other boys a chance with you. Good luck and if you still need help or just need to talk about this, just leave a message in my inbox. Feel better hun

xoxo Kourtney

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hey its me misery once again
the thing is that he does not want to talk to me i tried but hes just mad at me for some reason
he told my friend he's just gonna say bye to me on the last day of school whats up with that
i try to get over him beleive me i do but i can't
how am i supposed to get through this and what do i do please help
your advice was really good i tried but nothing works
misery

Hey sweetie! Aww I'm sorry he's doing this to you, you don't deserve that =( Guys can be dumb sometimes!! I guess, when he goes up to you and says bye to you just do the same, don't look sad or anything! It'll kill him that you don't care(well you do, but act like you don't care). And, the way to get over him or atleast try, is to don't think about him, get out more, go and have fun, introduce yourself to people, have your friends introduce you to guys they think you would like and the most important thing is. DONT COMPARE THE GUYS TO HIM. because if you do, you won't ever get over him, trust me on that one. I hope this works and if you still need help or to just talk about this, just leave me a message. Good luck hun!! Tell me how it goes

xoxo Kourtney

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My boyfriend and me live right down the street from each other and we spend ALOT of time together. Well all of a sudden thier MOVING 35 to 40 minutes away! OMG im freaking out and i dont know if i should stay with him and see how things go or what?!?!

Aww it's okay sweetie. 35-40 minutes apart from each other isn't that big of a deal. My best friend and her boyfriend live like 20 minutes away from each other and they've been going out for 4 months! So, I think you guys can do it. Just spend as much time as you guys can. Just arrange days on when you two can see each other and when you guys won't be able to see each other. If you two really care about each other as much as it looks like, then you guys can make it through. Good luck with everything!! And if you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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hey its me misery again

i want to talk to him so badly but hes mad at me for something i dont even know i did
he wont talk to me all he does is look at me and thats it
why wont he talk to me
he keeps telling people different things he likes me now he tells them he dont i dont understand him
i dont want to end school thinking on the last day why didnt we talk and stuff like that i just cant i need to know his true feelings towards me but i dont want to be the one that talks first because then he can just walk away or say something mean
please help me what do i do
misery...

Hey!!
Aww boys are so confusing. I'm sorry he's doing that to you. Boys can be mean sometimes. But, no you wouldn't want to go thinking "why didnt he talk to me?" But, you will probably have to be the first person to talk because boys are stubborn when it comes down to how they feel. You're gunna have to do it face to face probably though. Just be like "Hey..I don't know whats wrong, but why don't you talk to me anymore.. you just stare at me.. did I do something to you to make you mad at me?" Just say something like that. I hope this works and tell me how it goes. If you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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i like this kid so much for so long now
well im in 8th grade i guess i could say since we all going of to high school next year im never gonna see the guy again and it just makes me miserble to think about that
he acts differently towards me like everyday i just dont know what to do nomore
sometimes he talks to me sometiems he doesnt whats going on with him?
he knows how i feel about him well atleast he did i dont know about now
what do i do please help me

misery...

Well, maybe he's not sure if you still like him. Guys are weird when it comes down to things like that. Maybe he feels how you feel right now, miserable, you guys are all going to High School and are getting separated. But, no one ever knows what's going on in a guys head til you talk to them about it. So, if you really like him like it sounds like, you should try talking to him. Do it whichever way you want it, phone, face-to-face, email, AIM/AOL, or a note. Just basically say:

"You know how I told you I liked you? Well, I still do. And it seems like we don't talk anymore, some days we do and others we don't. And we're going to High School soon and we won't see each other, but I want us to keep in touch with each other.. I just want to know how you feel about me. Even if you don't like me, I'll accept that, but I want to atleast still be friends and to keep in touch, but if you do like me, then tell me because I've been wanting to know for awhile now..."

Just say something like that. I hope this helps and if you need anything else, post a message in my inbox. Good luck hun! Tell me how it goes.

xoxo Kourtney

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