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long distance realashionships
Wow first i want to say that you are great!!! Well the question is about me and the Love of my Life... Well lets see i am in the Navy and i am half way around the world in Japan... Well I am not sure if you have ever had a long distance realashionships But let me tell you being this far is even harder and being in the Navy does not make it easer... It not like i can just call her when ever i want.. Ok Well i want to say this I have been the guy that ever girl is always asking for an in me being over here i have not even though about cheating on her i only want her to only be happy... I love her and i want to spend the rest of my life with her... But it is really getting hard on the both of us and it is like that she is slowing giving up... She tells me she love me but To me it seems let she does not mean it.. I mean that now she does not want me calling her ever day now and i think i am going to lose her what should i do to try and save what i have... I am planning on going home for X-mas but being in the Navy there is a chance that i will not be able to... WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP THIS!!!
jamskateman@yahoo.com
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Aww, how am I great?! THANK YOU. YOU ARE TOO THEN!! =D haha.
Alright, anyways, no I have never had a long distance relationship. But, I'm sure it's hard to deal with not seeing them every single day. But, if you two really do love and care about each other as much as it seems, you two will make it through anything, especially the distance you two have between each other as of right now. It seems like you really do love her and thats great!! But, don't just automatically assume something, like you dont think she means it when she says "I love you." You have to think of the things like, she's gone through this far with you (the long distance), do you really think she would just give up on you now? I honesly don't think she would, but I don't know her and thats just my opinion. It might just seem like she's giving up, but really she's not. She might just be hurt that she can't see nor talk to you as much as she would like to see you and she probably doesnt like to see you hurt (because I'm sure she knows you dont like not seeing or talking to her as much as you would like to).. you know? But, if you really want to know how she feels, you need to communicate with her and ask her things that you would like to know and tell her how you feel. Sometimes, in relationships, you have to remind each other at times how much that person really means to you, especially in times like that (you in the Navy, etc.) Try writting her a note or calling her or something. Whatever you're more comfortable with. Sometimes writting a note, you get more stuff out because you have more time to think of what you want to say, but it means more if you say it to her. Maybe if you write it down first and then read her the note, that would be great and very sweet and mean a lot. But, whatever makes you comfortable. In the note, just basically tell her how you feel about this whole situation and how much she means to you and stuff. If you need help writting the note or whatever, just email me at:
lilbluidblondee@yahoo.com
Or leave a message in my inbox. But, tell me how everything goes please! Good luck sweetie and I hope you come home for Christmas to see her!
♥ Kourtney
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