Ok, I have a friend named Sarah*. Sarah came to my house the other day and we talked and I thought everything was fine (because we wern't best friend a week ago). Then I hear the phone ringing and Sarah picks it up (which is unusual) and I must have picked it up at the same time. Well anyway it was Jamie* A bitch that I hate and is bad news. I herd her wanting Sarah to come up to her house to ride fourwheelers. So after they get off the phone. Sarah calls her mom and goes home! Well then about 15 or 30 minutes later. She isn't home and guess what I found out that she was at Jamies!!! What do I do? Confront her!?
you cant be mad that she has other friends and you cant tell her to stop hanging out with someone else just because you dont like them. but it is really bitchy that she ditched you for jamie. i had a bestfriend who did that same shit to me, now were cool, but we are definately not bestfriends anymore. we havent hung out a single time since the shit started going down. i suppose that sarahs attitude will change being around jamie and you two may grow apart if shes already showing signs of ditching you. you definately need to confront her about how you feel. dont tell her to stop hanging out with jamie, just let her know that your hurt about her ditching you and that, that isnt what a friend does. then you need to decide weather or not you want to be her backup friend for when she has nothing to do. its a tough decision getting rid of what you thought was a friend, so i hope everything works out for you. and if it doesnt things'll get better anyway, you dont need her bringing you down.
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umm.. well first of all. i cut.. second of all.. ppl keep telling me that its really bad and unhealthy but i seriously dont understand why?
*me*
hmm let me take a razor and slice my skin open so that it hurts and bleeds and causes scarring that ill have for years. maybe while im at it ill stick nails in my skin too and burn myself. what could possibly be dangerous about that? i couldnt possibly get any kind of infection or slip and cut a vien. i also couldnt become addicted to it or cause myself mental problems thinking that cutting myself is helping my problems to go away. wow i dont understand why its unhealthy either.
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Ok you see my best friend in the whole world has really REALLY bad breath! Wich I really don't care but when sge smells it (her breath) She always says OMG Brittany you breath smells so so bad! I mean I always brush my teeth and always chew gum and eat ice brackers (I have 0 cavities) So what should I say to her? Uesally I just say "Oh I do?" So what should I start saying?
why dont you tell her that her breath smells bad and that she needs to brush and chew gum. you cant just let her think its someone else. if your the bestfriend you say you are, you'll help her not look like an idiot in front of everyone by smelling like she ate shit for breakfast.
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All of a sudden last night my eyes started to sting and get wicked watery... Theyve been like that all day since last night... Ive tried eye drops and they dont work.. Its irritating me because my eyes rarely water and now i cant even wear my eyeliner because my eyes keep frigin watering.... I just wanted to know what this could mean if anything??...
its most likely just allergies, but it could be that you got ahold of something bad for you, or you have pink eye, or you could be not getting enough sleep. look into pink eye online because i had it once in my right eye, and didnt realize it. well i rubbed both eyes with the same hand and got pink eye in both of my eyes. plus when theres certain things in the air that people are allergic too, theyre eyeys can get poofy and watery. i know that when my eyes get like that though, its because im not getting enough sleep. then it just makes me look like i do a lot of coke. but just try to get some sleep and ask your mom about it, she may know better than any of us. if you live alone then call into your doctors office and see if they have any ideas, then if its not better after a few days of rest or whatever the nurse suggests, you may want to see a doctor. i dont know much more to say than that, i hope you feel better.
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If you're super skinny but A sized bra... would guys still go for that? I know it's personality that counts...but do they like it (you can't always have both, be skinny and have a huge ass/boobs)
well im super skinny and my boobs arent huge..or big. but i wouldnt ask for any different either. ive also had many a past relationship, and im not skanky or anything so im thinking fact wise, that yes guys will like you if your boobs arent ginormous. plus, all guys are different anyway. i have guy friends who make fun of flat chests and guys that thing big boobs are discusting. besides any guy that wants you based on your boobs, isnt someone worth your time anyway.
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Okay, for the past..6 years my sister and I have been trying to get a dog. But all my mom says is no. I don't think my dad would mind just as long as it didnt shed. She Court [[my sister]] and I have found numerous types of dogs that are SO cute AND don't shed. All my mom says is I'll consider it. It's on all of our Christmas/Birthday lists but nothing happens. We want a dog sooo bad. Please help! And by the way, I've tried to say I'll take care of it..that didnt work either =( I RATE HIGH
take her to your closest animal shelter and point out all the homeless dogs. remind her that by morning, half the dogs she sees will be dead, because theres no space. then remind her how much you love her and awsome it would be to have happy little companion. also, just prove to her your responsible. do all of your chores, and then some. do all of your homework, help her out when shes in the yard, and tell her how nice she looks. suck up a lot, but also really mean it when you say youll take care of it. you might not think its a big deal, but animals need a lot of attention and are more trouble than youd think. but its definately worth it. i couldnt imagine life without my dogs. good luck. hey try and talk her into getting a mastiff. thats what ive got and theyre the best dogs you can have.
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how much does a used bmw convertable cost
have you ever heard of google? or maybe yahoo. its called a "search engine." type in what car your looking for and, what do you know, it brings up about 2 million sites for you to choose from. then you can find the official bmw website and pick out a color and a year model, and everything you want on it, and theyll give you an exact price. Sorry if i came off as rude. but i am SO tired of you lazy ass morons who dont even need advice on anything, your just too lazy to look something up. thats really sad.
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hey i was wondering how to lose weight
quit eating so much. fat ass
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Okay, I finally convinced my mom to start letting me wear tampons. But we're going in the afternoon to get them. (And Im on my period) But my dad wanted me to go down on his bike (motorcycle) to a couple places that are hours away, even in another state, and I have to wear pads. Last time I had an overflow. I'm afraid of that happening again. We're going in the morning at like 11:00am. So what can I do to prevent this? Is there anything I can do? And for another question, what about the tampons? Will they hurt, what if I forget about them,or if I can't understand the directions? Please help. Sorry this is so long. But i'll rate high for good answers. Thanks a lot.
you will totally be able to understand the directions, and the first time i used one it didnt hurt. it shouldnt hurt ever, and if it does, youve done it wrong. but that never happens. you say your going today to get tampons, so in the morning just put one in, and also wear a pad. that way if you leak past your tampon then you have backup. then when you make a pit-stop change them both, and everything will be just fine. by the way, your going to love tampons. they are so much more comfortable than pads and they definately dont leak like pads do. so good luck and have fun on your trip
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I was in the kitchen making cookies when I discovered that I had no vanilla extract. The cookie recipie that I'm using calls for only 1/2 teaspoon of the extract, but I'm worried about how they would turn out.
Is it ok to leave out the vanilla extract, or are there any substitutes for vanilla extract?
Thank you very much for your advice!
well you dont NEED the vanilla but it gives the cookies flavor, but its not like they will taste bad, just not like they should. some substitutes are almond extract, framboise, amaretto and rum.
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i've had boobs for five years now and vaginal discharge and hair in all those places but i still haven't gotten "it" yet and two years ago the doctor said it woul be within the month. i know i won't want it once i get it but i just want it so i know i'm normal. oh yeah (14/f)also my mom got hers when she was 15.
kate
wow you had boobs when you were 8? i barely have any now, congradulations. anyway, i think your doctor was an idiot. some girls get their periods when theyre 12, others, when theyre 18. its completely normal, and the fact that your doctor told you when you were 12 that you would get it within the month, makes me cringe at what else he has wrongly told people. if you still go to that doctor, i suggest you find a new one. so dont stress at all, i have a friend who just now got hers and shes 17 and FULLY developed. so dont think your not normal..and pray that god puts it off until your 17 as well. OH yea. also when your very unhealthy your period can be abnormal and somethimes skip a month or come every couple of weeks instead of the same time, once every month. if your so positive that you should have it by now, you might want to look into your daily activities and meals and see if theres somthing your eating or not doing that could be a contribution to you being late. but like i said before, your doctors just an idiot and you may not even get it until your 18, so DONT WORRY.
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what is this song it is a rock song and i noe girls sing ti and it goes, "why cant i breath when ever i think about you, y cant i speak whenever i talk about you..." can someone plz tell me hwo sings it and what it is called.. thanks
the song is by Liz Phair. its called "why can't i?" i LOVE that song.
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Okay I want to be gothic and my mom wont buy me anything gothic ... or let me be who I am !!
I am only 13 so therefore I cant buy anything because I dont have a job .. and me and my parents dont get along so please quit saying the same advice you give to everyone else
"talk to your parents .. hope I helped"
NO YOU DIDNT HELP
so please think about it
maybe talking to your parents about why you dont get along may actually help. you also didnt actually have a question and if you have no way of buying clothes then what the hell do you want us to tell you? and why do you think your so gothic
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okay so tomorow im going to this girls house, we have liked eachother for 3 yrs and are going out, i am gonna get there at like early in the morning while she is still asleep, i was going to make her breakfast in bed but she doesnt realy eat breakfast cuz she has a weak stomach. I really want to do something sweet so she wakes up to a wonderful surprise and realizes how much i care about her, any great suggestions would be nice...thank you!
well i asked around and if your girlfriend has a weak stomache, then most of the replies were to get her a dozen roses and a card. or play some of her favorite mellow songs for when she wakes up and get her some flowers. i figured that if i had a bf who was comming over before i woke up. it would be cute if he crawled in bed with me until i woke up. but then you two would need to be facing eachother to where maybe you could hold her hand or something like that and the bed would have to be big enough. then when i woke up wed share a moment haha and then hed ask me if i wanted breakfast or help me get up and awake and see what i wanted to do. oh but i just had a thought pop into my head where your gf wakes up and completely freaks out at first because your in her bed. but anyway, i doubt i was much help, but at least i made myself laugh. good luck!
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i went out with this guy for 2 days then he broke up with me but today he asked me back out and wanted to hang out with me tomarrow but i told him i cant hang out but i dont really wanna but i want to go out with someone before the summer ends but i dont no if i can trust him he seemed like he changed but i dont want my heart broken again what should i do? ps i dont wanna hang out with him alone but it will seem weird if i bring a friend n he does
ok you have GOT to be in middle school. the only time people pull those two day relationships is in middle school. it sounds to me like you shouldnt trust him, and that he just wants to be able to say "hey i have a gf." if you dont even want to hang out with him alone then why would you want to date him. plus, you say he seemed like he changed? people dont change. in my opinion, you should not date him again. wait for something better. or at least good. having a relationship isnt what life is about, so try not to worry about it too much.
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Why do atheists believe there is no God? I hear a lot of arguments against organized religion but I don’t hear many actual ‘reasons’ that there is not or cannot possibly be a God? So what are thier reasons?
i used to be athiest, i suppose that what i believed was that a "higher" being. was impossible. its just not logical, which is the same reason why theres no such thing as magic or santa, or witches and fairys. i thought that people just believed in god to give them hope, so that they could tell themselves that "when i die, theres something else, so im not really dying." everyone is afraid of death, nonexistance. i believed that somehow some cells formed and then through evolution people evolved, that you lived and shrank, then died. then you were buried to take up space in the ground and became worms meat. people would argue and say "well what/who created the cells you think we come from?" and id say "well how to you think you 'god' has come to be?" and that the bible was written by a bunch of old bored men way back when who had nothing better to do, just like all the movies and books are created like today. but this is definately not something you can entirely discuss on advicenators. i also dont think im the right person to talk to about it because im not entirely sure how to explain how i came to believe. i hope you find what your looking for, im always here for questions
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Okay I've been dating this guy for about 6 months and we just recently broke up last week and I asked him if it was completely over like where we would never go out again and he said no. This is the second time we have broke up....last time we just weren't together a week. We get along really great and we know each other better than anyone else. The thing is I don't know if I should wait on him or just go ahead and start moving on. What should I do? I'm confused cause he tells me its not completely over and I'm not sure what to do now?
hmm ok well what im thinking (not knowing your age) is that if you wait on him he could be holding you back. but if you dont then you could also miss out. BUT hes the one who broke up with you. also, why would you want to be with someone who messes with your emotions like that? i think that what you should do, is try to move on, by dating other guys and what not. but always have a space for him in your life, just in case, you know? still be friends of corse, you wouldnt want to drift apart, but just keep your options open. i hope i made sense. good luck
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im the same person that asked the thing about the appropriate age to wear a thong.. as you know im 13... and i only want them for pants that are tight and you can see my underwear line.. my mom says she doesn't want me to get a thong.. so how can i convince her.. she said they're uncomfortable.. and im like just let me try them.. and she didn't answer.. so i was wondering how i can convice her.. also.. i don't have my period yet... so what happens if im wearing a thong and i get my period for the first time?? thanks
alrighty, well just tell your mom that even though she thinks theyre uncomfortable, that doesnt mean they will be for you. tell her your more uncomfortable with your underwear lines showing and like you said before "just let me try one." also when your on your period always wear tampons because they are easier, not as nasty, and way more comfortable. BUT if you havent gotten your period yet, and your going to wear a thong, its obvious you cant wear a panty liner. they DO make panty liners for thongs though, but that means it has to be a thong, not a g string. then just stick a few tampons in your purse. though you may be more comfortable to just bring en extra pair of pantys to change into and a pad. (just for the record. ive never used the word 'panty' so much in my life) But it might be a little akward if someone was to open your purse and see an extra pair of underwear. another thought..if your mom still says no. then just go behind her back. its not the best advice to give someone, but your a teen and thats what teens do. just go to the mall with your friends one day and pick a couple out. then the next time your mom goes to do laundry put the dirty ones in one of your pant legs (of a pair shes washing) and then when it comes time to put the clothes in the dryer, beat her to it and then when theyre done, beat her to it and take out your clothes before she does. haha i did this when i was 10, so i hope it works out for you too. good luck! oh yea and the store called RAVE always has the best underwear..as in booty shorts, full underwear, thongs, g strings and what not.
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I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas
miniture golf, cosmic bowling, arcade, carnival, or my personal favorite. just dont make plans, get in the car and start driving. head towards downtown and go from there. stop at interesting looking places and check out new things you didnt know where there. that type of things always the best. let me know what yall do, hope you have fun!
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I'm really into anarchy and im a member at anarchystar.com. Its really cool there and for the 1st time i feel like i belong somewhere.
My mom and i are close and i tell her a lot that goes on in my life, i've always had a hidden side to myself that i kept to just me. No one else, but now i feel like im pretending to be someone im not.
I dunno. I guess, should i tell my mom im into anarchy,and am totally against bush? I mean i havent told anyone how into anarchy i am. Is it a bad thing? Like, will people think lowly of me if they know im into anarchy?
I need help.
just because you feel like you need to hide it, doesnt mean your pretending to be someone your not. its not a bad thing at all if your getting your facts straight. some people may think low of you but then those people are blind and theyre opinions dont matter. its always nice to be able to tell your mom things, and im sure you two would be able to discuss it and share your thoughts and what-not. but from experience your mom may just think your crazy and that your watching too much television. i dont know how your mother is though so you need to base telling her or not off of what you know about her. good luck with everything i hope it works out for you.
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