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I was reading a question on here and this might sound really really stupid but when people are talking about sex what do they mean when they say about the guy when he is "pulling out" or when he "cums". What do they mean? And anything else you think would be helpful to understand all this more. I'll rate. (link)
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cumming is pretty self explanatory its what happens when a guy orgasms, and the cum comes out. pulling out refers to an extremely ineffective form of birth control when the guy pulls out his penis so he doesnt cum inside of the girl
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I have a problem on my homework & its 
 factor 20f + 12g - 8h. 
I have test tomorrow & this will be on it. I dont even know how to do this! I dont need answers. Just maybe how to do it & any websiotes that explains this. Ill give you a 5! thanks!  (link)
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20 12 and 8 are all divisible by four, so it becomes 4*(5f + 3g -2h)  problem solved
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i love my boyfriend sooo much and i wanna show him how much i love him, id do anything so please tell me what i could do 
 
 
i rates 5's for any answers (link)
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nothing says i love you like putting out.
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Ok, i have these three friends who treat me like conmplete shit!  I mean i do everything for them, yet its not good enough.  I dont know what to do anymore, i dont wana stop being there friend, but i cant deal with it.  What should i do?? (link)
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unless the definition of friends has changed recently im pretty sure reall friends dont treat friends like shit.
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when fingering a girl, is it a "bad" thing to pop her cherry and if so, how can it be preveted. (link)
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depends if the girl wants it popped or not. it can be prevented by not pushing too hard on it when fingering
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Actually, Jews and Christians DO have the same God. 
 
The Jewish god had a son too, Adam. (link)
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according to the jewish religion we are all GODs children, not just jesus.
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I have this friend who used to like this one guy and went out with him. She broke up with him and then dated him and broke up with him for good. She's not a player because the guy was immature. Anyways, she now likes this other guy and they're going to homecoming. The original guy is really mad now because she didn't tell him but she didn't know that would offend him. He's still hurting, it's soo obvious. I don't know what to tell her because it's hurting her alot. What can i do to help her out??? (link)
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wel you could go to the dance with him to make feel better? other than that not much, people get hurt, its part of love, and its part of life
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hey heres my story: 
im 18 yrs old and in love with a 24 yr old man! my story starts like this, hes my manager at my job and iimediatly had an instant crush on him but me i dont have that much confidence in myself so when he satrted to show intrest in me i panicked and backed way and brought in a freind to go for him, but the only thing is that the friend is actualy me! the real me that i would like to be but dont have the confidence to be! i made up her name and a whloe life for her(me).and called him pretending to be this person! everything was going so well and my emotions got stronger and the more we talked the more we had in common! i ended up fallin totaly head over heels in love with him and decided id tell him and low and behold he felt the same way! and of course he wanted to meet! i didnt know wat to do! i thought for days and days as to wat i should do and finaly decided i should tell him the truth! that the women he was in love with was me!.... well when i told him over the phone he seemed fine and didnt wanna talk about it just wanted to put it behind us and  told me that he could never trust me agian! and im the type of person that trust is important to me and it broke my heart to hear that! so anyway the next three weeks passed by and evything was fine he was nice and called me to talk like friends he invited me to places with him and stil comnfided stuff with me! we were all cool then he hit me with a song he had wrote! he had origianly wanted me to hear it  but my comp didnt have speakers so he sent me the lyrics! it was amazing lyrics it touched my heart  but he didnt say that i was for me! so i read it he imed me like 20 times asking me if i had recived it and wanted my reaction! once again i panicked and retracted my emotions and played it as if i didnt understand the message he was trying to convey! like i liked the song and wanted to know who the artist was (knowing that he wrote it). he immediatly signed off! then greated me at work with a big smile the next day and asked me once again if i had recived the email! again i backed away! and now so di he! he wont talk to me as much anymore and insist on makeing me jelouse with the other female employees! meanwhile im standing hear with all these feelings and dont know wat to do! im in love with him so much it hurts i cant take it anymore he keeps telling me that my apolagies just arnt enough!can u pls tell me wat i should do! it hurts to have these strong feeling twords someone and not be sure that they feel the same way! i want to go back to when i was the real me!( wich he named lola) 
sincerly, 
lola( the real me) (link)
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well the best thing you can do is work up the confidence and just tell him how much you like him. i mean its very obvious he likes you, he wrote you a freaking song, this is as little risk as you will ever see in the relationship game. of course he got hurt when you pretended not to get the song, he poured his soul into it. he really likes you so just ask him out for cofee after work or something like that and work from there
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So, My friend, lets call her Key, and her boyfriend, lets call him Dylan, we're together at this week-long trip we went on. Well it's been about 7 months since the trip and theres been this rumor that they had sex on this feild trip ( it was chaperoned too ) and I'm kinda wondering how to tell if she is, without getting to personal. 
 
*~Alexia~* (link)
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shes your friend, you could just ask her
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i know the first times you have sex it hurts girls but does it hurt guys too? (link)
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no, however most guys on their first time cum after about 30 seconds so be prepared to *ahem* "finish" the job some other way
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It all started at a friends party. We didn't really have anything to do so we decided to dance. We went on top of a pool table and started dancing, a friend was video taping us on her camera just for fun. The next day the person who video taped us put it in her profile, which another friend that was they're put it in her xanga. wow, so now it's to where ANYONE can see it. Well a parent was looking though it and saw this video, oh and let me tell you we were GRINDING, big deal? its out of school. Well this stupid parent went and wrote a letter to the school AND to the super intendent, and PUTS this persons xanga so THEY can see this video too. oh my god so now the school knows about it and all the teachers are looking though the whole schools xangas and takes people out of class to talk to them about it. This frustrates me because this is OUT of school stuff. So then today the NEWS CAME TO OUR SCHOOL TO INTERVIEW PEOPLE ABOUT THIS XANGA THING. i dont know what to do. I'm like screwed major, i just NEED advice. ALL our parents know about this video and watched it and pretty much all of us are grounded. and it sucks but I can understand why they're mad. But im just confused. please someone who has been in a situation like this please tell me what happened and if it ever blew over. I just need advice. so please...thanks for your advice before hand.  
 
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well unless things have changed, they cant do anything to you since it happened off school grounds and not at a school event. as for the parents well that should blow over soon enough
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i was making out with this kid and he put his finger "somewhere" but i told him to stop did that mean he was trying to finger me? (link)
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somewhere? where? your nose? honestly if you arent mature enough to talk about it you arent mature to be doing it.
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hey plzzzzz help me i wil give 5's 
 
my bf is making fun of me and when its just me and him alone he doesnt he is the sweetest guy i could ever meet but lately he has been making rally mean jokes about me and laughing about them too! And the weird thing is is that he only makes fun of me in front of his friends i dont kno if he is trying to show off or act cool but i am confused HELP ME!!! 
 
should he stay or should he go?!!:( (link)
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yeah hes trying to act cool, alot of guys are (stupidly) like that in front of friends
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okay you awnsered my question about the "being loose" thing and thats so much it made me feel better but still i don't know i can definetly tell that mine looks different and uglier than other girls and i'm afraid that he will know that too if he does finger me. then he won't like me anymore or something are all girls different down there? and if so then do you think that him being 15 would know that? and would it feel any different if ur loose or if i was i guess you should say "tight" when a guy fingers you? (link)
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no i doubt he would know the difference, and yes all girls are different down there, its almost as unique as your face.
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okay well my boyfriend wants to finger me and i want him to also but. i used to masturbate and i think i'm loose i guess down there and i told him that i have never been fingered before or anything and so i'm afraid if he does he will like freak out cause i know other girls aren't supposed to be loose if they have never done anything down there and i feel like mine looks different from other girls cause mine looks all loose and stuff and i hate it.is there anyway that i could get it to like "tighten up" or make it go away so i'm not so unconfortable about it (link)
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no you cannot tighten up but i dont think you have anything to worry about. first off i dont think you are as loose as you think, unless youve been fisting yourself it should be fine. second all girls masterbate, as do all guys, i think he knows that so you shouldnt be worried. i also think hell be too happy to be touching you down there to be worried about you being a little too loose. how many fingers have you been masterbating with? because if its two or three like most girls you dont need to worry, just have him use the same amount.
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hey i was just woundering what tea baging means i think i spelled it right but like alot of people talk about it and i have no clue what they are saying! thanks! (link)
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tea bagging is when a guy puts his balls on someones face.
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okay these kids in my class ((boys)) were talking about moutain due sp? and they were talking that boys should not drink that or something but i dont know why why can they? 
or was it like a joke or something i dn im so confused thanks XoXo (link)
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supposedly mountain dew lowers sperm count, im not sure how much truth there is to that
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My friends are always saying that when you go to heaven your always happy....but am i the only person who thinks that would suck?  I mean think about it. There would be no excitment, no enthusiasim, no love, there wouldn't even be hate or sorrow...which i think we all need a little bit of.  Am i the only one who thinks this way?   
 
I'll rate fives for your thoughts! 
 
~Melissa~ (link)
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Heaven, like GOD is something our feeble human minds cannot fully comprehend one "theory" is that when you are in heaven, you are happy, so if what you need to be happy is occasional sadness then you will have it.
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do you know how to do the new thing on myspace where the words over lap eachother? (link)
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nope no idea
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do you think online relationships could ever work out? why or why not? (link)
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yes, in fact ins ome ways an online relationship can be even more fullfilling than an IRL one, becasue there is no bullshit, no looks/sex to pervert it. its a genuine person to person connection, so yes it can work. however be warry of meeting in peson because tehre are perverts out there.
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