Question Posted Thursday September 15 2005, 11:19 pm
I have this friend who used to like this one guy and went out with him. She broke up with him and then dated him and broke up with him for good. She's not a player because the guy was immature. Anyways, she now likes this other guy and they're going to homecoming. The original guy is really mad now because she didn't tell him but she didn't know that would offend him. He's still hurting, it's soo obvious. I don't know what to tell her because it's hurting her alot. What can i do to help her out???
Your friend just can't be responsible for his feelings. She did what was right for her, and he will get over it in time. She can feel bad for him, but if she shows to much sympathy he will get the wrong idea and not get over it.
Now that they are broke up he has no business getting mad about who she dates and its really no longer any of his business. She owes him no explanations about who she is now dating. He needs to move on. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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