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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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Hey yall, If anybody could help me, How do ya change the font on your page.. I don't want it to be vernanda anymore =] Thanks a lot!! X0X-Muah jess~
You can't change your font on the page. The only way it will change is if you use a different skin for your column. Sorry. Hope this helped.
What is the difference between thongs and g-strings? I always thought they were the same.
A g-string is hard to explain... I did a little search on google and here is a site that has pictures of it... There are women in G strings but it's just so you know what they look like.http://www.bullz-eye.com/g-string_gallery.htm
A g-string is also known as a "t- string" because in the back where the straps mean the part that goes up your ass, it forms a T.http://www.bullz-eye.com/g-string_gallery.htm Those are all thongs and then there are V strings which look like this:http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/index.cfm?cgnbr=OSBRPVSTZZZ&rfnbr=931
I'm sure you really don't want to be looking at other womens asses, but it's just so that you know what they all look like. Hope this helped!
im 14/f i have a LOT of blackheads all over my nose and they won't go away does anyone know how to get rid of them?? because i have a formal coming up and my pores are pretty big so a lot of people notice the blackness of my nose everyday!!!!
please dont delete this!!!!!
Neutrogena pore clearing astringent. It's this liquid that you put on a cotton ball and put it all over your "problem area". Wash your face with hot water, pop out as many of them as you can, wash your face with hot water again then put cold water on it immediately after. Then put on some of the astringent. Black heads suck ass, I HATE those things. My skin has big pores too so when I get a pimple they are like the size of Jupiter. The black heads are gross too. Go to this site http://www.neutrogena.com/ProductsDetails_43.asp and it has something that might help minimize the size of your pores. Also you can check out the site to find other products that might be useful.I hope this helped!
My boyfriend who is also one of my best friend just called me and accused me of cheating and told me never to talk to him again. I know i didnt cheat on him, what do i tell him?
You have to call him and ask him who told him that you cheated on him. If he won't tell you then ask him "Why would you believe someone else over me? You obviously don't know me well because I'd never cheat on you. If you don't want to believe me, then that's your problem. I know I didn't do anything because I would never do anything like that. Believe what you want to believe, but I know I didn't." Tell him that you're sorry for what he heard but it's stupid that he'd automatically believe someone else without asking you first. I really hope things work out for you. If you need anything else, drop one in my box. Hope this helped.
aight well im going out with this guy who is great. but i hooked up with one of my best guy friends last night and i made out with him accidentally. i dunno what to do. should i tell my boyfriend what happened???
You might risk losing your boyfriend but a relationship is based on trust, love, and honesty. If you want him to **Trust** you and maybe **love** you, then you have to be **honest**. You better tell him before someone else does. You have to tell him that you're really sorry and you don't know what you were thinking and you have to promise never to do it again. If you are good at acting, try to cry because it makes it work better in the forgiving part of it. You just have to be more careful next time. Also, if he does stay with you, you have to watch out for your best guy friend because if your boyfriend really does like you, he'll probably beat the shit out of him. You have to be straight up with him, tell him what happened. If he hears it from someone else he'll get pissed off even more. But for future, be more careful. Hope this helped!
where is a good place is to buy punk clothes? NOT GOTHIC!
Hot Topic, Pacsun, Over the edge. Hope this helped.
what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering
When you cheat on someone, it normally happens when you are in a relationship with another person and then you go behind their back and start fooling around with another person like making out with them or with older people, you hav sex with them. Don't cheat on your loved ones! That's how hearts get broken. Hope this helped.
Hi can anyone help, I'm 26 yr old male and generally my complexion is ok, a few random minor zits but nothing terrible. However I have 2 reoccuring super spots. They flare up about every 2/3 months in exactly the same place (either side of my chin) and always both together. They start off as hard, sore, lumps under the skin and over a few days they become enflamed and red. Unlike other spots they don't eventually get a 'head' they just eventually die off, usually after 7 - 10 days. I wash with an antibacterial wash twice daily and use 'quinoderm' cream which is effective on most of my smaller spots.
Any ideas would be very gratefully received?
Thanks
I've never heard of anything like that but I'd honestly suggest you go see a dermatologist or your doctor so they can really tell you exactly what it is and give you something for it. Dude, this site is filled with 13 year olds who think they know everything... You're going to get the same advice from everyone; go talk to a dermatologist or your doctor. They will actually know what they are talking about. Sorry that wasn't much help. But I hope I helped a little!
13/f
I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal?
Well nothing is wrong, especially since you said that you weren't sexually active. When you are young, your period isn't always on schedule. It takes about 4 years for it to be fully on schedule showing up each month like it's supposed to. Another reason why your period won't come is if you are stressed out about school work/friendships or anything at all. Also, if you are active in a sport or a physical activity: cheerleading, dance, basketball, soccer or anything like that, it will also cause it to be late. My friend was very active in dance, cheerleading and soccer and she'd get her period about every 4 months. You'll be fine. It's normal. But if you keep stressing out about it, it's not gonna come any sooner! Hope this helped.
there is this boy in school that i really like and today my friend told him that i like him but my friend told me that he doesn' like me. how do i get him to like me?
You can't really make a guy like you. Just start out by talking to him for a while and see how things go. Flirt a little. Talk about your interests and stuff. Talk about sports. Guys love it when you talk to them about sports and stuff that they like to do. If in a while you find out he doesn't like you, then just move on. You'll be fine. There are other guys out there who would like you and give you the time of day. I hope this helped.
Ok, Im going to get married in about 6 months to a year. I know most of you guys are like 14 - 18 and some older. But do any of you know any wedding sites? Like for dresses for me and the bridesmaids. Besides davidsbridal. Ive been to there site and store and I dont like anything they have. And like any wedding sites that helps you plan it and ect. If you guys can give me anything that would be much help Thanks.
First off, congradulations. And here are some sites for dresses and brides maides dresses: http://www.pearlsplace.com/ http://www.nationalbridal.com/Tips_BridalDiscounts.htmhttp://www.beautiful-wedding.com/ and For Cakes: http://www.topweddingsites.com/wedding_cakes.html and http://www.superweddings.com/cakegallery.htm
As for the wedding songs, I don't know any but this site: http://www.romantic-lyrics.com has a bunch of romantic songs that would be good for weddings. Hope this helped! Congrats and I hope everything goes well on your big day!
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off, and we've been steady for 2 years and 5 months..december 1st we'll be celebrating our 2 and 1/2 years...I love him more then anything..I was just wondering if anyone has any special ideas that I can do for our 2 and 1/2 year..I'm already taking him out to dinner to applebees which is are alltime favorite place to go, we go there every chance we get for a special occasion, or just to go..but I want to do something more..romantic..I'm only 18 so nothing too dramatic..but you know..something which will make him say "wow I really love her"
thank you..
You could go back to either one your houses, and just sit and talk about old times and look at pictures of eachother (if you have any) if not, then take some of eachother. Sit on the couch and watch your favorite movies and cuddle with him. It's somewhat romantic and cute but it's not too over done. When you get to a good part in the movie, while your cuddling with him look up at him and wait until he looks back at you and says "What" or something like that and just simply respond with "I really love you..." It sounds corny but trust me, even the guys like the cute little romantic things. You can have dessert with eachother and feed eachother before the movie or after. I hope this helped. If you need any different ideas you can visit this site:http://romantic-lyrics.com/romanticideas.shtml Hope this helped!
does any1 know how bad it hurts your hair to permantly straighten it? and what the process is??
Well, from what I know, it burns your ends and they pretty much like fray outwards and it looks bad. After about a week, get it trimmed to get all of the dead ends out. And the process, it depends if you get it professionally done or if you do it yourself. I'd suggest you'd get it done professionally if it's your first time getting it done. Also, it really all depends on what type of hair you have. If you have fine hair, it could damage it alot and if it's medium there might be some damage and if it's thick there could be little damage. I've never had my hair straightened but family memebers of mine have. Talk to your stylist to see what is best for you to do with your hair. Some people have types of hair that is so weak and fine it could make you go bald. I'm not kidding either. Hope this helped.
Does anybody know a website that has really good lyrics?
Thanx!
Well depending on the type of lyrics you are looking for: Punk/rock/ska/emo lyrics: http://www.plyrics.com Gothic/dark lyrics: http://www.darklyrics.com or regular lyrics to like everyday songs on the radio :http://www.azlyrics.com Hope this helped!
So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?!
It's only been a month. You're feelings aren't going to go away that fast. I'm young and I do know what it's like to be and love and then everything you've worked for come crashing down in a split second. You were in love with him and it's hard to forget someone that you were in love with. It's good that you've decided to be friends still and yes, it is awkward being around someone that was once yours and now he isn't. It's going to hurt for a while, and I'm not going to tell you that you'll get over it soon enough because then I'd be lying and I can't lie in this situation. It's going to take some time to get over him. You'll never be completely over him, no one is ever completely over someone they loved. As time goes on, you'll learn to live without their love, it's going to suck major ASS for a while, but you WILL find someone who is going to love you unconditionally and be there for you through everything. You'll find that someone, you just haven't found him yet. Let nature take it's course, be patient. "A watched pot never boils" Just give it time. It's going to hurt, I know it is but all you have to do is think of the friendship you'll have. You can't show him that your hurting though. You don't have to lose him completely, you can still have him there for you as a friend. You WILL find someone, I PROMISE. You won't be able to get the thoughts and feelings out of your head, you can't ever stop loving someone, you just have to learn to live without them loving you. You will be fine, and again, you will find someone for you. I hope you feel better and I hope this has helped.
How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend?
It's honestly hard to tell. If you have strong feelings about another person and want to be with them, then you could be ready. You never really know. Some women are never ready. Some people just prefer to be alone. You won't really know. It's just a feeling that's hard to explain, but you'll know. I'm sorry that wasn't much help, but its the best I could tell you.
I'm 13/f and I got my period about 5 months ago. I heard you start to get breasts after 2 years. is this true?? just wondering. Thanks.
Not necessarily. It varries with all girls. I got my period when I was 11 and when I was around 9-10 I started developing breasts. They are still growing though. But for some women it can be true. My aunt got her period when she was 21 (no joke) and she was like a C cup when she was in highschool. It varries with all girls. Nothing to be worried about. Women normally stop growin between the ages of 14-18. Hope this helped.
any ideas for convo starts for a shy girl wanting to talk to a ghetto popular guy?
Walk up to her and ask her "what's up?" or "hey how are you doing"... small talk. Start asking her questions about her self... what does she like to do, music, movies, books... that kind of stuff. If you'd like to eventually date her, ask her Would you like to go out maybe? On a date. I suggest to a little resturant or a walk in town. I love taking long walks. Most girls do. Try not to get too touchy feely though because alot of girls don't like guys that they hardly know touching them. Just start out with the small talk. Those are always the best conversation starters. But do NOT as her a stupid question like "How far have you gone?". She'll drop you like a damn rock. If you need anything else, just drop one in my box. Hope this helped.
okay...all my friends tell me that i'm turning punk little by little...and most of my friends are punk. i listen to punk and am starting to dress punk too. if i totally change my style over christmas break do u think that the people in my school will call me a poser? i'm 13/f in 8th grade. thx...*changing*
Well, if you start walking around and say "I'm punk" Then yes, they will call you a poser. Let people find out who you really are without you having to tell them throuh lables. You're just being you. I went through that same phase with the whole "punk/gothic" scene. Some people get mad whenever someone tells them that it's just a phase. But to be honest, it really is. I thought I'd be shopping at Hot Topic for the rest of my life and dress my kids in their toddlers clothes. I just grew out of it and I felt like I wasn't being myself. Just be YOU. If someone asks you, "What, are you supposed to be punk or something you poser" Or something stupid like that, just say "No, I'm being myself." Don't try to be someone you aren't and don't listen to people's stupid comments. I got the whole "you're a poser" thing thrown at me for a while, they'll get over it. The best thing I could tell you is to be YOU. Don't change for the sake of anyone else. Hope this helped.
is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!
If you are scared... then don't do it. I am completely against online relationships because you really don't know who the person is. My friend when she was 12 met this guy online and they decided to meet up. He said he was 14 and he wanted to meet her. Turns out he was this 30 something year old man, he raped her and she ended up in the hospital for 6 months recovering from shock and injuries. Don't have an online relationship. For the love of God, please don't. I don't want to hear about another incident like what happened to my friend. Hope this helped.