Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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Last Update: August 9, 2008
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im going to a new school this yearthis year. i've been in a catholic/private school since i was 3 years old. now i am going into eighth grade and im switching to a public school. i don't know what it will be like. i know a few kids there but i don't know if people will make fun of me since i new or whatever is going on. please help. i am 13 and f. (link)
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I don't think kids will make fun of you. I mean if they're 13 and making fun of you for just being new to the school? That's a little immature there. But, just be confident and friendly. At my school, whenever there's new kids whenever they start talking to kids right away and being friendly towards them, they'll be asked to sit at lunch with a group of people, and before they know it, they're all friends. The only thing different with public schools is that some kids can probably be a little meaner [ i'm not saying in all schools it's just theres a few mean ones in mine ] and of course they don't dress in uniforms and all. But I'm sure you'll have no problem fitting in and all. :] I hope I helped.
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okay so im 13 and im pretty flat chested. KIND OF. is there any type of cream or product that can make make breast bigger like at least 3 or 4 inches bigger? (link)
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Yeah, I've heard of creams and products to use, but I've heard their either just a waste of money and don't work, or they can increase the risk of breast cancer, so I would suggest not to buy any.
You don't need any breasts. You're only 13. You're body's JUST beginnging to grow and develop so give it time. I've seen friends who had flat chests, and then summer came and then whenever they came back to school they weren't so flat anymore. So basically, just give it time and wait it out. I hope I helped. :]
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On Friday my freinds and I are going to the beach. We want to meet hot guys. How can we get guys to notice us and come up to us? We don't want to be like slutty though. Thanks in advanced! (link)
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Whenever me and my friends go to the beach, we don't walk like, we're attached at the hip or something so you guys look like you're friends but you're approachable. And whenever I'm with my friend, I just laugh and look like I'm having fun cause it makes them want to hang out and talk to you more if you look like a fun person and are interesting. Also, sometimes what I've done [ and it's worked not all the time though ] is if you walk and look at a guy, and they look at you, let them walk by you and wait a little and then turn around and they might look back at you and sometimes they wind up coming back to you and talking to you cause that obviously shows you're showing interest. Sometimes, me and my friends just even walk up to them and talk to them. One time these guys asked us if we wanted to toss a football with them and we tossed it and talked and then later they asked us if we wanted to hang out again, and we did. I hope I helped.
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ok, so i am completely in love with this boy for the past 2.5 years. we are on a swim team together and that is the only time we see each other, so everyday. plus meets. these are some of the things he did. what is your opinion, does he like me? (hes really shy)
he stares into my eyes a lot
he layed his head on my lap, of all the girls that were there... but i was the closest cuz i sat next to him
in a game of sharks and minnows he went for me and grabbed me hard by the wrists and kept me underwater instead of forcing me up. then when i pushed off the bottom to get air he asked if i liked his tactics.
he blew on my face when we were lying next to each other at a swim meet
he sometimes "steals" my sunglasses, but not from my face, but he def. know there mine
we went to a dance once, but it was one of those "girls ask the guys". he said well go as friends, but we didnt know each other as well then, and it was a long time ago, but we danced with each other for practicly the whole dance, but he did go dance with this one girl that he went to homecoming with, and who he supposedly used to like... i dont know if he still does but he might
when we were lying next to each other, he moved hand was lying against my forhead on a pillow, then he said sorry i'm punching you in the face, and moved it down towards my nose so it was touching. than he probly felt me breathing on his hand, cuz he asked if his hand smelt good, and i smelled it, and almost kissed it (lol!) and he didnt move it away.
but otherwise we dont talk much, like we never had a conversation, but as i said he is really shy around me. but with other girls he is fine, but with the girl he supposedly might like he talks alot to her, but not as much as he used to. now there just friends. but she doesnt like him.
so ya based everything that i told you, does he like me? and how should i give him hints that i REALLY like him without scaring him?
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I wish I had a guy do that stuff to me, ha anyways.
It sounds to me like he likes you, but he might still like that other girl also. Which is why I think you should flirt around a bit. Not like, heavily flirting, just light flirting. Like And try to get to know eachother better so you're feelings for eachother could grow even more. Like, when you guys are swimming and playing sharks and minnows, you can flick a little water at him and just swim around with him. And if he blows in your face, blow back. Don't like, HUFF. Just do a little blow, ha. And then after awhile or getting to know eachother and flirting and etc., tell him how you're feeling. It's better to get it out there instead of never knowing. I hope I helped!
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Well, the other day I find out that my gf kristin has been cheating on me. So, I broke up with her n' went into my depressin' thing trying to forget about what happend. Then, yesterday I hang out with Maia and her cuz. Maia has had the BIGGET crush on me for the longest time, and as things turned out. We actually made out a cupple times. N' I met her cuz for the frist time that day and I started to really like her too. Maia said that she liked me also, and that she'd be happy if I dated either one of them. So that made me happy because I kinda have my pick ya know? But I get back home n' kristin's friend tells me that she hates the guy she cheated on me with. And before I went to bed she said in this nice calm "everything is going to be alright" type voice that we should talk in person (i dont get to see her that offten because of her parents) if we wanna still be together so... What should I do Advicenators? (Sorry that it's a bit long) (link)
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Well, just because Kristin wants to possibly get back together and she hated the guy she cheated on you with, doesn't mean it's all okay that she cheated on you in the first place. And what if she cheats on you again and winds up liking the other guy? I would just choose either Maria or her cousin, they both sound pretty nice. I would hang out them two more and see who you like better, and choose between those two. You deserve better than Kristin. I hope I helped.
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Hey so I was wondering if anyone knew where to buy this chanel shirt from..?
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=43235096&imageID=405999948&MyToken=96047c88-e1cf-456e-9132-794927c7f00a
Thanks much in advance! (link)
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Well, you can always try going to a Chanel store near you if you have one, or just going onto ebay and trying to find it.
Or just try going to chanel.com or something and looking for the shirt there. I'd try and help you find it, but whenever I entered the picture link for the myspace, it says the pictures invalid, cause the person deleted it so I don't know what it looks like. I hope I helped.
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How can a relationship last if your with a guy that is all about being with his friends and wont give them up for his g/f who he loves even though he has to keep those worlds seperate because his g/f and his friends don't get along? (link)
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[ I'm not sure if you're talking about you or not, so i'm just going to say girlfriend ].
Well, if he wants the relationship to last, he needs to learn how to balance his time between hanging out with his friends, hanging out with girlfriend, and also having alone time. I mean, it's not like all you guys have to hang out together or something. He could just have maybe like, friday to hang out with the girlfriend and saturdays to hang out with the guys or something. But if he's not willing to balance his time between all you guys, then he doesn't sound worth keeping around to me. I hope I helped.
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Ok, this whole problem happened at the beginning of summer but stated like a month before (it's confusing, i'll explain). Well me and my other 5 best freinds have this name in our grade that everybody knows us by. Ok and in this all girl group all of us are best freinds, and we have always been and stuff. And yes, everybody has who their closer with but we ALL still know we're best friends. Well, a couple months back, at the beginning of May, my one friend Kristin started going out with this one boy Tommy. Now Tommy is apart of our group too, but like the other half... the guy half. Kristin really liked him.. but Tommy has never had a serious relationship, and I could honestly say that I felt that he didn't really "love" her (he was always the guy that would hook up with random girls). Well while the two were going out.. I found at that my other best friend, Ashley, was calling Tommy late at night, and talking with him for almost hours on the phone while Kristin and him were going out. Then she admitted to liking him, and he admitted it back. This was when Tommy and Kristin were still going out. Now the two managed to keep this a secret from the whole group. Sooner or late.. around the last week of June, Tommy broke up with Kristin replying that "I'm holding you down". But Then I found out, two days before the break-up Tommy asked Ashley, "Do you want me to break up with Kristin so me and you can hang out" and obviously he meant hook-up. THEN after the break-up, Kristin cried for weeks, every single day I saw that girl cry and I felt crushed. While Kristin still wasn't over Tommy, and still felt crushed... it turns out that Ashley and Tommy hooked up and she gave head to him and then he asked if he could eat her out, and she denied. Now somehow they kept this a secret until the past week when everyone foudn out... Yet they dont' know that everyone knows. You have no clue how mad I am at Ashely, we're all suppose to be best friends and she did this. She's a whore. I'm soo pissed off, and now someone has to break the news to AShley and I'm devistatde that I have to because no one is brave enough to. I dont' know what to say. I feel so bad. I mean it took all summer for her to get over Tommy and it turns out he hooked up with her so called best friend. And also I don't know how to tell Ashley that she is so low adn a backstabbing slut. Alond with Tommy I don't know what to do, I'm so confused?!?! Please Help Me : ( (link)
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Gah, guys.
They suck.
I'm sorry about your friend. :l
Well, I don't think you want to be calling Ashley, because I'm sure that'd break off into more arguments, and that'd just become even more of a problem that it already is. Just let her know what she did was wrong, she's Kristin's best friend and that's no way to treat her, and that what she did was pretty dang low, going after someone's boyfriend, like I said especially her best friends. That'll basically call her out and plus, give her an added guilt trip which I'm sure will be more hurting than just the word "whore".
As for your friend Kristin, I would just calmly and gently explain to her what's going on. I would just start out with,"Kristin.. I have to tell you something. Because if I was you, I would want to know too..." and just explain to her what Ashley did. I wouldn't give out the details about giving Tommy head and all cause that'll make it worse, just let Kristin know that Ashley and Tommy had been talking on the phone and that led to the break-up. And at the end, just be like,"look, tommys a jerk. a huge jerk. he doesn't deserve you. and if ashleys going to do that to you, she's a jerk too."
And as for Tommy? If it was me, I'd cuss at him or something, ha. I would just let him know what a low-life he is to do that to his girlfriend, especially with his girlfriends bestfriend? That's awful. And I'd let him know he doesn't deserve someone like Kristin.
But in the end, if Kristin and Ashley are both willing to, they should talk it out. Not argue, just talk. If they really are best friends, then no guy should be able to come between them. And hopefully, the whole situation will be resolved. I hope I helped.
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I think I may be bi... I never really thought about it before a few days ago, you see my friends and I were playing Truth (it's like truth or dare without dares)and "David" asked what my deepest, darkest secret was. I said that it was that I used to make out and do other things with a girl that used to live by me. Then I realized I do a whole bunch of other things, like look at women's faces and breasts. I never really enjoyed doing things with her, but it felt nice... sorta. I don't really want to be Bi (no offense!!! I'm an activist). Do you think this was just a phase or do I truly have feelings for women? I haven't had any feelings since and I don't intend on doing anything with girls again.
Thanks...
P.S. I have a boyfriend. (link)
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It sounds to be like you're just curious. Lots of teenagers gets curious and experiments, it's perfectly normal. I mean, you always hear girls saying "you look pretty" "you're gorgeous" and so on, but they're not bisexual or anything. If you were bisexual, you'd probably be thinking of doing more with girls and you would have feelings, and like you said, you haven't. So, don't worry. I hope I helped.
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I want to be able to put a song on my myspace from http://www.cdzinc.com, but I don't know how to get it on there. The version of Thomas's myspace editor doesn't have a spot for music, so is there a code I can use? I don't want to use a music video (link)
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To get a song onto your myspace, all you have to do is look towards the top whenever you log in and there should be a little link that says MUSIC. Or you could also just go to the bands myspace and add their song to your myspace. Like, if you wanted to put a song by .. Death Cab For Cutie or something onto your myspace, you just go "www.myspace.com/deathcabforcutie" or whatever their link name is and then there'll be a music player on the side page and you just click on the song you want and hit the little "add" button that's under/next to it. I hope I helped.
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i log my self in on here and it says im logged in but im not..please help!! i really wanna give advice (link)
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Hm, I don't get what the problem could be. Maybe try making another username and try and see if it does the same thing for that account too?
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me and my bf have been dating for 5 months and we usually talk about anything but lately whenever we talk on the phone we dont have much to say. its just alot of silence now and i really dont know what to talk about and neither does he. i really need help on what i should do! (link)
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I've had that happen before. Usually I'll just start off with "how was your day? what did you do?" or something like that and then they'll talk about their day which makes conversation for awhile, and whenever they finish, I start telling them about my day and whatnot. Another thing I usually wind up doing is just saying something random to make conversation. Like, "i saw the funniest thing today", "did you hear whose dating in school?" "did you have to take Mr.So-and-so's test in school today? Wasn't that hard?" and I just start talking. Before you go on the phone with him, just make a list of a few things that both of you can share opinions on and talk about so it's just not like a one-sided conversation. i hope i helped.
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Lately when I wake up from sleep or a small nap.. my mouth tastes all gross. I get bad breathe and it feels like something gross is all over my teeth and the back of my mouth.
What's wrong?
[I do brush my teeth twice a day. I use mouthwash and I floss too.]
So I dont know why I have to have a disgusting mouth everytime I wake up. (link)
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This happens to me all the time. It's because I sleep with my mouth open and so overnight, my mouth gets all dehydrated and all the air and everything makes it that way. So what I do in the morning is I just go to the kitchen and take a few sips of water and I do it too before I fall asleep. That should help. I hope I helped. :]
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Right. This could be a bit long.
For the last few days/weeks, I have been thinking about having a baby. Me and my boyfriend are very happy and it definatly looks like we will be together for a long time. He has mentioned before bout kids and stuff. but I always said to him that I would but not yet. I am only 17 years old and I have got a 2 year course at collage coming up. also i dont know if he would actually want a kid yet.
but I have been thinking and I would really love to have a kid.
Can someone please help me change my mind because I know I'm to young to have a kid and I probly wouldn't be able to cope. Even though I'm pretty sure my mum would help me out if I did have a child.
Please help me change my mind because I really want a kid but I am only 17.
Any advise would be brilliant.
Thanks
xXxXxXx (link)
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Well, if you want a kid real badly, I'm sure you can wait another 2 years. I know it seems like a long time, but if you still want a child with your boyfriend at the end, then have one. Just make sure you finish school first and everything, because my mother didn't go to college and she has me and my brother to take care of, and she's working two jobs because one doesn't pay enough because of course nowadays it's hard getting a good job without a college education. And 17 is young in my opinion. Your age is around the time where you should be out experiencing things, living life, and enjoying yourself whenever you DO have children, you might not have the time to be able to do those things. So wait. I hope I helped.
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What is a good way to get rid of the pain when u get your braces tightend. Help. Im in pain (link)
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Just take some tylenol or advil. What I've done before is just stayed away from really hard food until my teeth stopped hurting and just had some soft food or ice cream or other cold stuff too because that makes your teeth really cold and you feel less pain. Sometimes I also just try not and think about it, I read a book or I watch tv instead. I hope I helped.
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i work with this guy and He came back today. he was on vacation all summer in florida. I have had a thing for him since i started working there in august. He is 8 years older then me & he has a girlfriend But when we work together he flirts i guess you can call it. Like if im standing down one of the isles he'll throw something at me to get my attention just to laugh at me. We have a squirt bottle of water & he'll go up behind me and squirt me with it. He'll grab my side. Or if there are no customers in the store he lifts his shirt up & says noone you know can compete with this.or something like that lol.
Its just a bunch of random things he does. And that all happened tonight.
Is this flirting? Is he leading me on? Im not going to tell him to stop doing this stuff because i love the attention. I just dont want to fall for him.
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Well, I definetely think he's flirting with you. But, some boys tend to be overly friendly and their not realizing it, just like some girls can be too. I wouldn't fall for him, because he's already a taken man, and also even if he broke up with his girlfriend and you two ever winded up together, I'm sure he'd be doing the same stuff to another girl somewhere else, and I'm sure you wouldn't be too happy about that. I'm sure just loves the attention to and showing off his "hot bod" and all that stuff, ha. So basically : don't fall for the kid. I hope I helped.
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I need some makeup products that are waterproof. That includes cover-up, eyeliner, mascara brands. I know that not even the best makeup will stay on me forever in the water/sweat, but if you have tried any products that worked well, please recommend them to me. Also, products that I could possibly buy in a regular drugstore and aren't too expensive! (link)
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Well, the only stuff I've ever bought is NYC waterproof mascara and eyeliner, so I wouldn't know any other brands to recommend, but I've never heard of a waterproof cover-up. But just after you dry off/wipe off the sweat or water or whatever it is, apply cover up again is all I can suggest for that. I got to Eckerds or Giant Eagle. I hope I helped.
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My friend and I are creative people and we want to start our own clothing line (but we don't know how to sew or much of anything)...any advice? I was thinking maybe we could start an accessory line instead but I don't know. Any advice is appreciated. (link)
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Well, yes, you could start an accessory line, but if you really want to have a clothing line, then take some sewing classes, or ask some of your other friends if they know how to sew. Make them part of the line too, cause the more people, the quicker clothes will get made anyways. Or if any of your friend's mom or your mom's know how to sew, ask them to help you learn. And to get it started off, what I've noticed people doing is making a myspace for their clothing line and then they add lots of people , and people wind up ordering and using pay pal and stuff to pay for it and everything. I hope I helped.
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I can't remember this movie. It's been bothering me lately. In the beginning, it shows some girl walking up to this house. This guy lets her in and something happens. I remember something about her nail getting ripped off and she screams, he gets worried and ends up hitting her. I think she was uncosnious (sp?) He puts a bag over her and puts her in this room. She suffocates and dies.
Later.. near the ending.. some people go to the house and find the spot where she was put.
Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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Haha no, it's not the ring.
It no part of the ring does the girl get a bag over her head and her nail comes off.
The girl in the ring gets pushed down a well..
Kevin Bacon's in the movie, it's called "Stir Of Echos".
Very good movie, first time I saw it freaked me out. Hope I helped. :D
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soo, yeah..theres this boy, named jordan. & like everyone tells me he likes me, i posted a thing awhile ago, with the signs.. asking if he liked me. i had like 15 answers saying he did. Hes really shy though. So like.. idno. I'm not one of those people.. who wait forever for someone. & i know alot of other boys who like me. so i wanna just get him to ask me out or something. im basically going to my friendds party well.. its like half makeout party, & half just hang out with your friends... like, were gonna play seven minutes in heaven & stuff.. & so anyway, i basically,want him to like me after this party. i don't really just want to blurt out i like you in the middle of a party. but im also not shy.. so i'm up for anything =)
what should i do?
should i wait for him to come to me?
[hes never had a girlfriend so hes most deff. shy]
should i like make the first move?
ahh help.! (link)
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Well if he's never had a girlfriend and he likes you? Yeah, you'll need to make the first move cause he's going to be very shy and nervous. But don't just blurt out to him right away that you like him, talk to him for a little and flirt a bit and then just mention to him that you like him and have heard he likes you too, and maybe if he'd want to hang out sometime. [ even mention possibly a group hang out for the first cause if he's as shy as he sounds he might feel more comfortable around his friends and people ]. I hope I helped! :D
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