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My confusing situation
Well, the other day I find out that my gf kristin has been cheating on me. So, I broke up with her n' went into my depressin' thing trying to forget about what happend. Then, yesterday I hang out with Maia and her cuz. Maia has had the BIGGET crush on me for the longest time, and as things turned out. We actually made out a cupple times. N' I met her cuz for the frist time that day and I started to really like her too. Maia said that she liked me also, and that she'd be happy if I dated either one of them. So that made me happy because I kinda have my pick ya know? But I get back home n' kristin's friend tells me that she hates the guy she cheated on me with. And before I went to bed she said in this nice calm "everything is going to be alright" type voice that we should talk in person (i dont get to see her that offten because of her parents) if we wanna still be together so... What should I do Advicenators? (Sorry that it's a bit long)
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Well, just because Kristin wants to possibly get back together and she hated the guy she cheated on you with, doesn't mean it's all okay that she cheated on you in the first place. And what if she cheats on you again and winds up liking the other guy? I would just choose either Maria or her cousin, they both sound pretty nice. I would hang out them two more and see who you like better, and choose between those two. You deserve better than Kristin. I hope I helped. <3
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well, i have to tell you, this is a toughie. first of all, don't take kristin back. just because she didn't like the guy she cheated on you with doesn't disregard the fact that she cheated. hello! if she didn't like him, then why did she cheat on you with him! it's quite obvious what you have to do - tell her that it's no excuse and that it doesn't change the fact that she cheated on you. as for the other two girls you like, go for one of them. there's no reason to mope because a girl cheated on you. you deserve better. hope i helped!
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ha ive seen longer. I know its hard and you may think your girlfriend doesnt deserve to explain. However i do think that you should be the bigger person and agree to let her explain then decide if you want to continue the relationship. The two girls maia and her cousin seem to really like you and honestly it wouldnt be fair to lead them on since your hurt and dont know what you want. It would be nice of you to wait a bit (a week) and get you head straight...A week after you decide where kristin and your relationship is going. if your unsure of what you want be upfront and say this to maia and her cousin she will respect you for it. Also when you know you want a relationship (or think you do) you should tell the girl that you have gotten out of a nasty brake up.
HOPE I HELPED! BEST OF LUCK
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Forget about Kristin. She is now your ex for a reason and if you get back with her then you will have to go through that again. Trust me. Once they cheat, they'll cheat in the future. She's not worth you time.
Even though Maia said she'd be happy if you dated either her of her cuz, she still likes and and haveliked you for a long time. Usually when girls like guys, it's only for short periods of time. She seems to really like you and will be faithful and not cheat on you.
On the other hand, you don't know much about her cuz. Why don't you go out with Maia and see how that works out?
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Well who do you like the most. Listen to your heart. And if you can't decide who you like the most, who do you feel the most comfortable around? Who do you trust the most? Which do you know better? Or you could write a list of Pros and Cons for each girl. But you just met Maia's cousin, you don't know her that well and stuff, i bet its just a little crush that will fade over time.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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