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i dont know if i should believe....
yesterday a peson i no... kinda a friend more of just some 1 i get along with.. told me that my boyfirend is cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. but i dont know if i should believe him because my boyfriend is always telling me that he loves me and thhat he doesnt want me to ever leave him.
my boyfriend and his ex are still good mates and hang around with eachother quite alot. and they are both very flirty people. i know i should talk to him about it but im scared that im gona get the reply i dont want.
later today me and my boyfriend are goin on holiday with my family (only camping) for the weekend. when should i speak to him about everything. becase i want to be able to talk to him when no one else is around. also what do i say?
some one please help me figure out what to do. i dont want to lose him because i love him so much and im very happy with him.
any advise would be brilliant.
thank you.
xXxXx
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Tell him you heard some rumors but you didn't really believe them. Tell him you wanted to be sure that they were just rumors and that he should be totally honest. Then tell him what you have heard. You could also find out who told your friend that he was cheating on you. Make sure it isn't from somebody that lies, makes up stories a lot, or even hates you. No matter what always be on your toes and make sure nothing he says conflicts with anything else he does or says. I hope what your friend was just a rumor and that y'all continue to have a good relationship.
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Dont plan when you will do it before hand. Your spendin a weeekend there. There is bound to be a time when you two will be alone then do it. i dont no how to make this basic so ill just tell you how i would say it and you can take what you like from it :)
"I trust you and i love you very much so whatever answer you give i would rateher hear the truth then have you hide anything from me. I have heard from someone i know and dont ask his name because i really dont want drama over this. He said that you were cheating on me. I feel akward about asking you if its true or not but i know you can understand that i do need to ask."
IF he said yes id ask if it was one time thing and if he regrets it...If he said it happended numerous times i would tell him that id like to go back with everyone else and from now on be friendsand thats at the most. If he says it has happend once and he regrets it id tell him im very hurt and im not sure where i want this relationship heading anymore so i will need time to think. If he says he doesnt regret it say you understand that obviously the relationship is over but youd rather he had told you this before he went and did anything.
If he said No..Then say im sorry baby but i had to ask i no you undertsand
ANY OUTCOME MAKE SURE YOU TELL HIM FOR THE REMAINDER OF THE VACTION YOU INTEND ON ACTING FRIENDLY AT THE LEAST SO THAT YOU AVOID ANY AKWARD SITUATIONS WITH TEH RENTS
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You HAVE to ask him and find out truth,he might deny it though.You might not hear something you want to hear but its better than finding out later on that his ex girlfreind is PREGNANT!!!Somethings can be fixed early but if you ignore this now,youll regret it later on.
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You should deffinatley talk to him this weekend. Tell him you love him, and then say somebody told you that you were seeing his ex girlfriend. Just don't start yelling at him or accusing him of anything because that will just make the matter worse.
good luck
hope i helped =]
Jess
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