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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

Much love, Teza

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Ok, so one night I was alone at my house. My parent, (my dad, my mom divorced my dad at age 4), he came home drunk with his "girlfriend." Shes a damn bitch. So, I pretended I was asleep, and I heard them going into the bedroom,( mine, because I was in my living room)and fucking...HARDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was grossed outttttt.........the bitch was moaning and the bed sqeacking, I was terriffied. I thought I was going to faint. I was still laying in the living room, peeking through the pillow which was over my head. I watched them come out and eat. NAKED! And then she gave him head, and then he fucking sucked her pus! Yeah, my dad! He's 34 though. For some reason, I'm mortally scared of my dad now. Also, they went back into the bedroom, and continued their....I was freaked the hell out. Should I tell my dad I saw them? Or should I just shut the fuck up? I'm grossed out, and I'm 18!

If that happened to me, I would never be able to look at my dad the same way. I'm sorry that you saw that though. =/ You should tell your dad that you saw and tell him that next time he does anything like that EVER again, to make sure you're not home. He needs to be careful about what he's doing though.

.. could you tell me where i can get ringtones for my Cellular One - VK 530 cell phone? ive googled over and over again but i cant get any that work. thanks

I really don't know. If I do, I'll get back to you on it. I'm sorry. =(

k well here it goes, this guy, i met, he likes me.he wants me to call him and have fone sex with him. but i dontk now how to do it. how do you> plzzz helpp i rate 5's

I personaly think that cybering is the most pathetic thing that anyone can do. Anyways, it's basiclly having sex over the phone. You say the things that you want to do to each other and what you would do if you were in the same room at that moment.

ok. im the same girl 14 yeah pain. well you give good advice so heres another question. my friend, when i first met her, was about a size 3. im really tiny, 5'1" and i wear like double zeros and xs and stuff. well shes starting to loose wieght and its bothering me, cuz shes like my sizes now. and shes got larger hips and stuff. i talked to her and she said she doesnt want me to care, but i dont want her mad at me, but i really want to help her. im not sure if shes anerexic of belimic (she was before) but if she is she wont admit she is now. how do you think i could approach her? should i do it in person?

People with an eating disorder or with any problem with food don't want to admit what they're going through. They deny having food issues and of course they get mad for someone telling them or asking about it. I don't think there is any way that you can really approach her nicely and just ask her about it. I mean, you already tried but try again. Just let her know that you really want to help her out and tell her about all the negatives about having an eating disorder. I also don't think she even stoped purging or not eating right. If she doesn't want you to help her or if she doesn't want to admit anything, you need to tell an adult. Someone that you trust and that might be able to help. If she finds out, she will be mad but later she will realize that it was only for the best and it was to help her. You would be a good friend and it's nice of you to try to help her.

soo can you get checked for aids w/o your parents going w/ you and w/o them knowing?!?

I don't think you really can. You have to be at least 18 yearss old. I'm not positive though.

What would you wear with a white babydoll topthat flares out a lot at the butt/hips area? There is a seam under the bust area with a little bow on the side. Its SO cute and I want to wear something that compilments it!!

Jean capris or a denim skirt. Wear white flip flops or flats & it would look really cute.

My former best friend moved to a different town several months back and her parents have abused her verbally and physically since then. She can't live at home anymore and since she is 16 she's legally allowed to move out in our state. The problem is that her parents have made up so many lies and fed them to newspapers and everyone around, some saying that she's "brainwashed" or "mentally ill" just so she has to stay at home. They obviously do not care about her to make up such stories and she's deffinatly moving out. She doesn't really have anywhere to go for a month or so and I've been talking to my mom about it. Do you know ways to convince my parents that it will be safest if they just let her stay at our house for a little while?

Tell them exactly what your friend is going through and I'm sure they will want to help her out. She doesn't need to be treated so badly and just make your parents picture if that was you in her position. You would want someone to help you out. Just talk to them and let them know what's been going on.

ok so there is this girl and we used to be bestfriends and we grew apart and i didnt want to be her friend anymore and not becaise shes mean but just because it wasnt fun anymore anyway so i was trying to just seperate myself from her and so i moved lunch tables didnt invite her over but she moved to my lunch shes been inviting me over a lot and i just dont no what to do i refuse to tell her that we grew apart so dont put thatttt hope you can help

It's kind of rude of you how you just pushed her away and just stoped talking to her. She doesn't even have an explanation on what's going on and you're being mean about it. If you don't want to sit with her or be her friend you need to tell her. If you're not going to then don't complain when she keeps asking you to sit with her. I know this isn't the answer you wanted to hear but I don't care. You need to stop being selfish and be nice because she doesn't deserve to be treated bad.

EDIT-Sorry that you can't really handle the truth. =)

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well me & my boyfriend talk on the phone when we are not together. I love it. He is so amazing dont get me wrong. If we are on the phone and his friend calls to hang he wont because he is on the phone with me. I love it that he is so into me but i feel bad. I always tell him to go but he says no, and one time he friend said that I take up to much of my boyfriends time. What do I do?

Another thing is my boyfriend is touchy.. like hunging all over me, and like holding on to me. I dont care at all I like a lot, but at school he does it. The 8th grade had a talk in school not to long ago that we can't be like that. He also does it around my mom. I dont feel right being like taht around my mom. What should I do?

If he doesn't want to spend time with his friends that's his decision. I know you're being a good girl friend and all, but if he doesn't want to be away from you, you can't make him. Talk to him about the whole touchy touchy situation. He shouldn't be doing that infront of your mom and if you just talk to him and tell him to stop, I think he would listen.

Ok well Im in 8th grade(F)and at my school we always have an 8th grade mystery trip. A guy in my class told us one of the places we are going on a Monday. That day after school we took my friend,Kathie, home,and I asked my mom if it was true. My mom smiled and said no. Kathie and I knew she was lieing, and we laughed. The next day my friend asked me about it,and we talked about it. There was a girl,Nichole, I dont care for sitting right there. She didnt care that she knew 1 of the 10 places we were going. Well they told my other friend, Beth, and they blamed me all of a sudden. They told a teacher? They said they didnt know about it.The part what really makes me mad is that Beth told some girls Monday where we were going, and they said they didnt know untill I said something Tuseday. The only reason I said something is because they already knew. I know this is a long post but I dont know what to do. Please help. Thank you.

That is the stupidest thing to start drama over. Who cares about what she says? It's really pathetic that they would act like little kids about the whole situation. Just don't care and let her say what she wants to. It's just lame drama.

teza i have always loved your tits they are so juicy and lucious would you like for me to play with them and twirl my fingers on you nipples

I would like it if you got a life. You're friggin crazy.

I want to have sex....I mean rough like make me scream his name kind of thing. How though?
Should I dress up in kinky clothes?

Dude, if have to ask me on how to have rough sex, don't do it at all. Wtf?

yeah. well. im 14 and i dont have a very large chest. for the past few days, its really been hurting, alot. and i also dont have my period yet, so i was wondering like ? idk. am i growing, am i gunna have my period?

please help.

You are still defenetly growing and you should be getting your period pretty soon. You're going to develop so don't worry about it much.

should you masturbate when you have your period?
would it be bad to?
andd would you recommend it?

It's not that someone should or shouldn't. It doesn't really matter if you do and it's not bad. If you feel like it, then go for it. =)

do you think its weird to have a boyfriend.. and never see him & only talk to him on the phone and on the computer. and you guys know everything about eacother. and love eachother. is that weird?

I don't think it's weird but for me it would be hard to keep a relationship that good without seeing the person. If it works for you guys then that's great and hope everything is still good for you guys. =)

Ok, this is emmbarassing....my boyfriend came over my house, and we were fooling around. I was on top of him, and I felt him get a boner. He started touching me, (up and down my back), which gave me chills and made me horny. So, we weren't sure of what would happen next, but I told him to put a condom on. I was giving him head while we were watching porn. And then he got down on me, and I began to moan. I don't know what the hell happened next, but I was on top of him like a animal. We were finally naked. He penetrated me each time for about 5 minutes, and then out and then in again. It lasted about 8 hours, and we were doing vaginal/oral sex. I have a question though, I did give him my virginty...how come it didn't hurt? I just felt pleasure......? x0x

Was this your first time? It could eather be that he was being really gentle or that he just didn't break your hymen. Sometimes it hurts girls because they're really tight down there and the guy might of been rough but it's good that you only felt pleasure.

*really girls only*

ok well this is kinda health thing but yah i wanted to ask about this acne prob. i have.. ok its a lil weird.. but uh ok i have a lil acne in between my "chest" and i hate wearing bathing suits b.c of it and i was wondering do i use regular acne soap for it or is there something special for it?? i know its weird but please help. thank you. ill rate!!

That's so normal & it can be treated. =) Anyways, you don't really have to go out and order any special thing but there is a Nuetrogena body wash for acne. It's for acne on the back, shoulders and chest and it works because I use it.

A boy is going to ask me to a school dance. I dont want to go with him. what should i tell him to let him down gently?

I'll rate 5's.

Be honest with him and just tell him you want to have fun with your friends and that you want to go with him but as friends. Don't use any lines or make up excuses because that would hurt him even more. At the dance, talk with him and just have a good time. =)

hey i have a question. the same person keeps leaving things in my inbox about my eyebrows. is that weird er what?? i'm not offened because obviously i don't know them so i don't really care what they think, but it's kind've creepy because everytime i get a new picture they say something. do you think this should be something said to DangerNerd er can i do something about it other than rejecting the question?? it's juss weird that everytime i get a new picture, a rude comment is left in my inbox about my eyebrows, from the same person. no one ever said anything before so its obviously them.

thanks!!

Don't worry about what that person says. They're lame anyways. Make an abuse report and explain what you've been getting in your inbox and that person can eather be suspended or banned from this site. http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php

Hi Tezaaa!I'm 19 years old. I've been having sex since I was 13 years old. I do it with anybody, whereever they want me to, and whenever they need me. I do anal/oral/vaginal anything. I don't care really. I've fucked over 200 guys, no this isn't fake it's just I like the pleasure, and besides they are all my friends. I don't have AIDS or Herpes or anything, because I've fucked all clean ones. Now, here's the problem. I want MORE sex. I haven't done anybody in about 2 weeks. I've masterbated, sucked on my best friends balls, and all that, but it wasn't like the feelings I had before. Now when somebody eats me out, it's not as good anymore...I feel like I'm getting less sexual. And I need and love sex. My friend and me were fingering eachother, and I did her really goooooodd, and I don't know I just don't recieve as much pleasure anymore. My friend, Josh, whos dick is about 15 inches long AND 4 inches thick, stuck it up in me for about 30 minutes, (he's things fake, he had surgery.) I still didn't feel anything. Is something wrong with me? Moans - Falicia

I don't really know what to tell you .. I can't really relate to your problem but I guess you're not getting any pleasure because the people you're doing it with aren't pleasing you well enough. Stop for a while and then see what happnens. But wow..

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