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Q:
I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend had sex over a month ago, we used a condom and everything but my period HASN'T COME...and I've never panicked this much about this before. Usually when it's late it's about a week late and everything but this is just too long.

We probably had sex the VERY end of june... and then all month july with no period. Now it's august 10th and I STILL havent gotten it.

We used protection and everything though, so I don't know if something happened, like the condom didn't break open or anything.

IT;s not even like the sex lasted THAT LONG ya know? so I don't understand... like I don't get why its so late.

Could I be pregnant?
I'm extremely worried.
What signs would I be getting if I were a month pregnant?

Please help me... I'm so scared.

because you are worried so much and stressing out about it that can cause irregualar periods. Sex can sometimes as well. Ive had it were ive had sex and got my period the following day. Anything can happen. give it a few more weeks no period try a pregnancy test. if neg. calm down relax. go out with the girls or something.. if pos. dont believe it yet go to the doctors and take one of there pregnancy tests.

Q: sorry i didnt know under what category to put this.

so i bought nair today. and when i apply the way and pull it off with the strip the hair still doesnt come out!!?
what am i doing wrong?
i pull it off right away. should i wait or smth???

This may not be to much help. i would wait a few minutes. than pull it off. I used nair a few times. it didn't work for me but maybe for you.

Q: hi i have a question about shaving down there. i'm f/18 about to have sex for the first time. i usually shave my bikini line, but i was wondering what you think i should do. should i shave it more? i don't want to shave it off completely, since it always grows back thicker and coarser. but i need help w/ what to do and what guys like.

i wouldn't know to much because i shave it all the time. and i shave all of it.

Q: i have always been known as the school slut. but the truth is... ive only kissed two guys, and i had real feelings for both of them. its because i have a very flirty personality... but i am NOT slutty.

how can i get people to stop thinking of me this way...? please dont tell me to tone down my fliring because it is who i am. and i cant

you shouldn't care what people think of you. maybe if your dress that way than tone that down a little but be your self and if people dont like you for that then dont accoicate them with in your life. i am assuming you are in school. those kids will grow up to relize how wrong they were i have been throw all of that. and it sucks it just takes time getting used to the drama.

Q: I'm 17f. Last weekend I was sleeping over my best friend's house. We're really close and she knows everything about me. But since we're both religious Jews and our families are too, we're very modest. We never change in front of one another or anything like that. One of us goes to the bathroom and other changes in the bedroom. Anyway, On Saturday I woke up at like 7;30 because I heard a noise. I looked around and saw my friend in her hed. She was on top of the blankets and her p.j. pants and panties were off. She was playing with herself. She must have thought I wouldn't wake up. Anyway I didn't move at all, and sort of squitned so it would look like my eyes were closed but really I could see her. Since her beds are in a L shape design, I saw everything.

I was never sure if she did that, but since I know I do, I figured she must do it too. But it's not something we would EVER discuss. Now I kinda feel guilty for watching her, but at the same time I'm kind of interested in talking to her about it since I don't have anyone I can talk to about that stuff. But I'm afraid she'll be totally embarassed and I might lose my best friend. At the same time, I'm scared because seeing her like that . . .get me VERY turned on. I keep thinking about how she looked and then I have to relieve myself. What do I do? How do I start a conversation about it? Remember in our religious community, sex is NOT and I repeat NOT ever talked about except before marriage.

i believe she wanted you to see what she was doing or else she wouldnt have done it right in front of you. you should just confront her about it just be like that one night i slept over your house i had woken up and seen you doing that. and let her no you do it to so she isnt embarssed. i dont think you will lose a friend over it.

Q: Im a 13 year old girl and i like a guy who is also 13. I like him even though he can be a jerk!
but i dont think he likes me. we have been friends for a few months. how do i get him to like me? or find out if he does like me????

ask him. your best possible answer is to just go up to him and confront him and if you are shy write it down and give it to him or an email tell him you think he is cute and you like him and ask him if he feels the same.

Q: My hair is naturally dark brown, almost black, and over the summer last year, I dyed it to a light brown. When fall came, I dyed it back to dark brown and i kept it that way until it started to get hotter outside. I like making my hair lighter when the sun comes out. But when spring came, I tried to dye it lighter again and it stayed the same. Just last week, I tried another time and still no change. if anything, it got darker. I used the right color hair dye and everything but nothing is working.

i'm really good with dying hair so i don't want to spend a bunch of money at hair salons for them to do it but why isn't it changing? is there any way I can dye it light without having to bleach it?

you might be able to get a blonde BRIGHT blonde and dye it two or 3 times then try putting the light brown it. thats what i had to do since my skin is to sensitive for the bleach

Q: my hair is dirty blonde/light brown right now and its basically all of the same length (except my side bangs) i want to get alot of blonde highlights so my hair looks more blonde and i want to make it so my hair is a few different layers. as for my bangs, they kind of just sit there, they're all the same length and they don't look good. i want then to be short then kind of gradually get longer til they reach the rest of my hair. (i think its called side swept bangs) but i don't want them to start off too short cause i don't like them touching the middle of my forehead, just kind of my face is kind of oval. do you think it would look good?

yes i think it would look good. when you go to get your hair cut. tell the woman (or man) how the girls dye their hair like a dark color on the bottom and the top of their is blonde. the whole bottom in a long length the top half of your hair is a choppy layered. it turned out cute... i have my hair like that...

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Q: honestly people,
i hate everything. my family. my friends. my school. my cheerleading team. i cant take anything anymore..someone please help me.

i know how you feel once i got pregnant i lost all my friends and a year and like 8 months later im still alone with barly any friends. i mean if your old enough get a job you can make alot friends that way. if you need to talk i have an aim screen name jsexymama216 good luck

Q: i never really loved my wife/mother of my two kids i dont know why i married her now i wanna know how long we are gonna stay married?male 27yrs

Dont stay in a marriage unless you know you cant make work itll hurt her more. you should end it if you cant make it work

Q: What is the best face wash to get rid of acne that isn't a set? Nothing like proactive...just a regular facewash I could get at a grocery store.

i know this isnt from the grocery store but i use something my doctor gave me it starts with a T. you should try with your doctor give it two months.

Q: My best friend and I are thinking of starting a babysitting business, since we're both certified in CPR and First Aid, and have taken a bunch of babysitting courses, too.

We were wondering how we could go about this.

Like what should we charge, should we baby-sit together, or on our own, how should we advertise, .etc.

Thank You :)

-Mariah-

Answer ratings will be given

you could advertise by making flyers and passing them out hang them round. once you baby sit for someone and you do a good job that person will tell someone else. baby sit alone unless there are alot of kids. once in awhile itd be fun for you and the kids for the two of you to baby sit together. pricing should go about the parents it depends on how many kids they have.

Q: I was wondering anybody know a site.. or books on like stuff deal with working with kids and all. I have exprineces but only with family memeber becouse they my cousins i know it different working with kids who they don't know you or not a related or anything. i know kinda the same but alot different..

its easy have an imagination. like coloring books and crayons. dancing. reading. movies. crafts. etc.

Q: ok i babysit this little girl shes 3 and when its close for her to go to bed she starts crying because she misses her mom what do i do.

i agree with jessica. my 1 year old cries when i leave him with a baby sitter put in a movie lay with her until she falls asleep

Q: my parents dont trust me. i do good things but they dont think im a good person no matter what i do because of who i am and am not friends with. how can i gain their trust and show them that i pick my friends wisely?

you could get a job if you old enough. get great grades. introduce them to your friends.

Q: Im a 17 and i have a really abusive brother. How can i deal with him without callin the cops? should i tell my bf and gf or Friends?

its easier to deal with if you talk about it to a close friend and come up with a good solution to deal with it maybe talking to your brother or parents to put him into counsling or something to see what is triggering his anger. hes letting something build up inside of him.

Q: female. Where girls urinate from, that little region right there, there is like a little bit of white stuff coming out sometimes. No i am not sexually active, but i dont know what it is and it is scaring me. Part of me says though that it could just be toilet paper or something. Sorry that this is kinda into detail, but i dont want to talk to my mom about it because i am afraid she will freak out. So can you help me? Please and thank you!

well it could be that you not sexually active with a guy but your hormones are going. and its like called pre cum. like you dont cum but its gets that way when you think about a guy or you get excited. or of course it could be toliet paper.

Q: 16/f.
Hi, I've had my period for three years.

Yesterday I just started it, and I felt really nauseous with bad cramps, and I threw up. Anyways, I'm just wondering why I threw up and if there is a way to relieve the pain.

Thanks.

there are many things that could of triggered it. did you eat? if your still in pain talk to a doctor. i agree with the other people said. they pretty much cleared in up.

Q: I plan on being a virgin until I'm married. I am currently a fifteen year old female. I've been confused lately about whether or not I should be dating and in relationships. Can I be in relationships and still manage to stay true to the no sex thing?
[By no sex, it includes everything, not just intercourse. No oral, fingering, touching someone below the waist, nudity, cybersex, phone sex, etc.
]

And no, these aren't rules set by my parents or anybody else. My parents have set no boundaries on me or even talked about it. This is something I decided on my own.

sex isnt part of a relationship. if the guy you are with cant accept the fact that you dont want to have sex or anything until your married that he isnt right for you. becareful on who you choice.

Q: what should I do my girlfriend is so mad at me that doesn't want to talk to me or see me I haven't seen her over a month?

a month is pretty crazy. you should ask her if she still wants to be with you and tell her if she does you guys need to talk things out the right way other wise id call it quits.

bio

My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.