You need to see her as soon as possible and talk to her! Really sit down and talk about your relationship. I don't know what you did to upset her so much that she wouldn't talk to you for a month, but you should apologise. The ball is definitely in your court, so you need to take initiative and find out where you stand with her.
I can't really tell you how you should handle the situation since you didn't give us much to go by, but if you need more advice feel free to drop something in my inbox.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Saturday December 8 2007, 9:06 pm: a month is pretty crazy. you should ask her if she still wants to be with you and tell her if she does you guys need to talk things out the right way other wise id call it quits. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
oceancityx answered Saturday December 8 2007, 7:43 pm: over a month is a little extreme. maybe its time to end things. if she doesn't want to see you, then you shouldn't make the effort and shes really not worth your time.
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teardrops7 answered Saturday December 8 2007, 7:11 pm: Ok if she dont talk to you or see you, then why do you still want her to stick around? Depending on the girl you should either talk to her or give her time. Some girls want guys to take control, but others feel suffacated. I dont know what happened. But if she has not talked to you for a month, you need to tell her, that either she can make up with you or you guys can just take some time apart.
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thelaura answered Saturday December 8 2007, 6:59 pm: A question for you:
Why would you want a girlfriend who doesn't want to talk to/see you?
I don't know what you've done to make her so angry, but you need to speak to her asap. If you can't resolve your problems, there's no point in your relationship. Unless you are on a break?... then just give her the time she needs.
You could also try telling her you have some serious making up to do. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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