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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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ok i been smokin for like 1 year but i jus started needing a ciggarette like every day and shit and im addicted and i have no way to get my ciggarettes in my house i mean i leave my purse downstairs and if i dont that would b suspicious and i mean i can like put them under my shirt and get them inm y house but i duno where to hide them at where my mom wont look and they wont get crushed... any ideas? HELP!!..
In your shoe, in a shoebox at the top of your shelf, if you have like an empty little box that's pretty you can keep them in there, tampon box, a sock. That's all I can think of. But you really shouldn't smoke. It's bad for your health but hey, it's your life, your body. Do whatever the hell you want =) Hope this helped.
I've lost my voice, and I was wondering if anybody knew any useful remedies to help me to a speedy recovery, as I'm supposed to be singing in a carol concert on Sunday and in the coming week. I've heard honey and lemon is good for throats, and obviously not trying to strain my voice any more. Any additional ideas?
Water, water, water!! Tea is great. Avoid from dairy products (milk, cheese, etc.) Milky products cause this film in your throat that give it a "flemmy" sound when you sing. I find that sucking on a piece of ice works alot too and very cold drinks. Caugh drops work good too. Hope you feel better! Hope this helped.
For Christmas I may get my belly button peirced, I need to know a few things. Does it hurt? How long until you can change the belly ring. How much do belly button rings cost? Thats it... thanks in advance.
If you are a strong girl and nothing really hurts you that much then it shouldn't hurt you. If someone lightly punches you as a joke and it hurts and you scream OW THAT REALLY HURT! Then it's going to hurt like a bitch. I do not have my belly button pierced but I know a thing or two about it. You need to wash it with Dial soap and keep it CLEAN. After about 6-8 weeks you can change the ring. The amount can range depending on where you go. My friends got theirs for under 100 dollars but you can even find places where it is over 100 dollars. You need to look around at differet places and compair prices. Hope this helped.
omg.. i just tried to respond to a question.. and it said.. "Chatspeak detected. Type in english please." and it wont let me answer it! and i did type in english? why?
Because you were probably were using too many of those short cut words such as "u, ur, lyk, omg, lol" Anything like that, the chatspeak detector will not let you use. Hope this helped.
any good colors for braces i am freaking here o yea i am a GIRL thanks xoxoxo
Pink/white, pink, white, light blue/white, light blue, light purple/white, light purple, black/pink, any of your favorite colors works. Hope this helped.
Besides Lids, what are some stores that sell Nike hats?? I like in New England if that helps any
Foot locker, sports athority, Models, Hope this helped.
im a 13f and i just got my first thong. is it slutty to have one at my age? ill rate! thanx
Nope. I had my first thong at like... 12? It's only slutty if you're pulling it out and showing it to people. Just keep it in your pants. Heh. Hope this helped.
What is the best way to break up with a boy if you are going to. Should I call him, write him a note, E-mail him, or IM him?! :-/
-Worried
You should definately do it in person. Even though it's harder that way, it shows him that you weren't scared to tell him that it's over. If not then do it over the phone. You need to have him hear what you're saying. I hope everythign works out for you. Hope this helped.
What's the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone to you guys? I'd appreciate some of your opinions.
JyNxiE
It depends on who it is directed to. If you love your friends it's more like a family love like a brother/sister/aunt/uncle/mom/dad/cousin/elderly relatives. Being in love is having strong feelings for another person (A significant other ie: boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife.) Lots of young kids these days tell their boyfriend or girlfriend that they love them but they aren't really IN love. Telling someone that you love them could just mean that you love them as a person. Being in love with them is so hard to explain what it's like. For me, it's like when you're with that person there is no place you'd rather be than with them, all your problems disappear when they hug you and you get butterflies when you see them and your heart beats fast and slow at the same time. It's the most wonderful feeling in the world to be in love... but love and being in love are two completely different things. Hope this helped.
What color eyeshadow would compliment someone with light blue eyes? (I normally wear pink eyeshadow.) Does eyeliner look good? I have light tan skin and light brown hair with highlights if that helps. THANKS!
Yes eyeliner looks good. Black eyeliner on the top and bottom or just the top or just the bottom (whichever floats your boat) I think green, and earthy colors look great with blue eyes. Pink I think is the best color to use. Hope this helped.
I am 13 years old and my brother is 17 and he hits me allot and it hurts and I would like to know how to deal with it
Tell your parents! He'll get grounded and then you won't have to deal with it. Tell him that if he hits you again you'll tell mom and dad and if he says something stupid like "If you tell them I'll hit you even harder" then tell your parents he said that too! I hate it when people say stupid stuff like Oh if you tell them I'll kill you/hit you/ blah blah blah. They're stupid and have no life. Just tell your parents. Also, tell him to stop and that it hurts. Tell him to stop being a dick and go get a fucking punching bag and stop using you as one. Hope this helped.
I was talkin to my boyfriend last night, and out of no where he said that he needed to tell me somthin in a real serious voice. I got kinda nervous since we've never realy been serious before, we're alwayse lauphing and having a good time. So he said- (remember when we first started talking and you asked me if i'm a virgin and i said yes.... well i'm not. I just said that because i didnt want it to be akward if i told you that soon. Then he said that everything else he has said to me has been true, and he felt bad that he hadnt told me before.) When he told me this i didnt know what to say.I feel really uncomfortable with it. I'm not going to do it with him, since i'm only 15 and i dont believe in that, but i dont want him to go off to some other girl when i say no. What should i do, because i really like this guy. He is one of the nicest people i have every met and i still really like him?!?!?!?!?! Please help
Well you have to think of it this way: He decided to be honest with you and come clean about what he did. If he really likes you (or loves you) then you should trust him enough that he won't go off and do that behind your back. The key to a good and strong relationship is communication. Tell him that you feel uncomfortable. What happened was in the past. It was probably before he met you and liked you so you really have nothing to do with it. Yes, it is good to know the experience that your significant other has in that area but what happened, happened and he nor you can take back what was said and done. Put it in the past and move on. If he cares about you just let him know that you're not ready to do that for a while and if he doesn't give a shit and wants some ass then drop that fucker like a rock! But he should understand and accept your beliefs and praise you for it. Talk to him! Talking is great!!! It really is, come clean with all of your worries and you'll feel so much better. I promise if you talk to him you'll be fine! Hope this helped.
17/f ...im going to a dance soon and im wearing like a small short dress and i have like this pink half tie shirt thing to wear over it like outside cuz of the cold.. well anyways my question is what color shirt and tie do u think my date should wear...and i dont think hell wanna wear pink
Black. It's simple and black and pink are the colors to wear now since everyone from your grandma to your dog is wearing it. Have him wear black or if not black then all white. You could even have him wear a pink shirt... a really light pink. Lots of guys wear pink in my town and no, they're not gay. Real men wear pink. If not the pink then either black or white or even both. Hope this helped.
okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
Wow that sucks. Well this might not help now but you could say this "I didn't want you guys to get mad at me for this but you wanted to know the truth. I was walking down the hallway and some stupid guy that's a senior threw it at me so I just put it in my purse and forgot to throw it away... I'm not having sex I want you to know that because I respect myself and won't do that until marriage" You gotta stretch the truth a little or bend it a little... That has got to be embarassing. That happened to me so I just said that when I went to a concert some guy threw it at me and I forgot to take it out of my purse and throw it away. Next time, tell your boyfriend to keep one in his wallet and keep the wallet with him at all times. Hope this helped. Good luck.
EDIT*** They did buy it because I'm the good girl (so they think) and I'm good at covering things up. You have to be confident in saying it and not act nervous.
how can i stop excess sweating under my arms? Everyday when i go to school, i always have huge wet circles under my arms by first period. I usually have to wear sweatshirts or something thicker than a regular t;shirt or long sleeve shirt.Every deodorant or anti-perspirant I use it doesn't work at all!!! Please help me!?
Certain Dri- not prescribed and it works great. It's in a box and you can get it at the drug store it's about 7-10 dollars depending on where you get it. A bit expensive but worth every penny. Put it on at night and in the morning. Along with Certain Dri, buy Secret Platinum (solid) and put that on after the Certain Dri in the morning. Hope this helped.
i just started the pill about a month ago. do you think if me and my bf do it without a condom and he pulls out we'd be ok?
You could be but just to be completely safe from having minature verions of the two of you, put on a condom. The pill is not 100% on not getting pregnant. Precum contains sperm and once sperm goes near vaginal fluids those suckers can swim mighty fast. You should still use a condom though because you can never be too safe. Hope this helped.
Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.
There is a chance of her getting pregnant. Precum also contais sperm and once that precum is near vaginal fluids those suckers can swim. How did you have no luck getting condoms? Go to a drug store and buy a box. They are like 10-15 dollars. People can't prevent you from having sex, they can just prevent you from having kids. I dont' know why they wouldn't sell you them. But when a girl is about to have her period, the week before is when she is most fertile so the chances of getting pregnant are pretty high. The week/day after she finishes her period is when she is least fertile. Go to the drug store, buy a box and hide it somewhere. Just be careful. Make sure you put the condom on correctly and check to make sure there are no holes/tears in it. No matter what, even if you do pull out early ALWAYS wear a condom. Hope this helped.
ahh i bite my nails!!! its a really bad habit! i do it when im not paying attention anyone have any tips for stopping?
You're going to think I'm crazy for saying this but I used to do the same thing too. Keep a bottle of nail polish remover and dip your fingers in it. It tastes nasty therefore you won't put it in your mouth. Keep doing it until you forget you even bite your nails. Hope this helped.
What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?
Buy her flowers once a week. Be it a bouquet or just a single rose. Tell her she's beautiful and kiss her every chance you get. When you're hanging out with her and kissing or whatever, stop, look at her in the eyes and tell her you love her and that she's beautiful. If you're hanging out with her and she's on her phone kiss her neck while she's talking. Argue with her about who loves who more. When she laughs tell her that she looks so cute when she's laughing. Girls love that stuff. By the way, those ideas aren't really mine. They were allll my boyfriends doing. But I hope this helped anyway.
hey me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks and we really like each other but the other day two girls came up to me and said your boyfriend always hits us I guess flirting I don't know but I trust him not to cheat on me but I always get this werid feeling that he is do u think he is? should I break up with him? do u think he is a big flirt? please help me!
Well, you need to talk to him first before jumping to any conclusions. Those girls could just be lying because they might like him and want you to break up with him. You need to ask him if he is, he might deny it but have one of your close guy friends or girl friends keep an eye on him when you're not around. If they see anything tell them to let you know right away. Also, tell them not to make it obvious because then he won't do it. I've delt with many cheating boyfriends ones that were mine and others that were my friends. You have to be really careful. If you find out that he is flirting talk to him and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and you don't want him to. If he says he won't and then does it anyway or if he says that's stupid I'm not going to listen to you blah blah blah- Dump his ass. I really hope everything works out for you. If you need anything else drop it in my box. Hope this helped.