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I'm 13 years old and I really want to have a BF. However, I know that most BF/GF relationships usually begin by being friends 1st. How can I become friends with boys?

Well , it`s really not that hard. All you have to do is just go up to a boy that you think seems cool/nice & then be like hey whats up? & just talk & then do that to other boys that you want to be friends with! & before you know it you`ll have a boyfriend! =] Hope i heped! Good Luck!

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kk so heres the thing.. like when i get my period its just like brownish discharge.. is that normalll?

Yeah , thats usually normal. it just means the blood has dryed. hope i helped!=]

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ok...this is stupid but i'm becoming anorexic. i know it too and i don't seem to care i think it's because i've gained a few pounds i used to feel sooo comfortable like in clothes now i just want to wear baggy clothes because i think i look fat. Last night my mom said she's gonna bring me to and Eating Disorder place if i don't stop worrying about my weight all the time. I don't know what to do, because it's working i'm 5'8 and down to 125 i was 128 but i just wish i could stop worrying about my weight all the time and just have fun you know.

okay , well you`re 5`8 and you weigh 125 wow thats way too skinny! you need to just stop worrying about your weight , just eat healthy things and maybe once in a while go to mcdonalds or jack in the box of a fast food place and eat like fries and a hamburger! and if you feel fat after that then just look in the mirror and you`ll see how skinny you are and jus ttell your self you`re not fat! if that dosent work maybe you should get some proffessional help! i think that would be best! i hope i helped! Good luck! i hope everything works out! =] xo!

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my hair is a a few inches longer than sholder length and its kinda wavey so i always have to starighten it but does any1 have any good ideas for hair styles?

You should keep your hair wavy and add some products to it like curling gel and then straighten the front for example - your bangs! i think thats totally cute! hope i helped! =]

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okay i'd say about seven months ago. me and a kid named 'dylan' started talking. & we went out. about two days into the relationship i got online & his away message said i love you 'melanie'. WHILE we were going out & when i asked him about it all he said was that he was sorry. but he liked 'melanie' more than me. it took a while to get over. beause we actually got along really well. after that i stayed single for a while and about four months ago i started dating my guy best friend 'landon'. well 'landon' and i are good. except he gets a bit jealous. & a few weeks ago at a swim meet 'dylan' was flirting with me a bit. now, i dont like him or anything. but he was flirting. & 'landon' got EXTREMELY mad saying how much i flirt with other people. WELLL we both got over it & its been about a month. & last monday 'landon' went on vacation. he came back on friday but he's been busy and i havent seen him in like 10 days. meanwhile, 'dylan' and i were talking on aim. when all of a sudden he starts to tell me how stupid he was & is for letting me go. & how he'd NEVER hurt me again. & how sorry he is. & how wonderful & amazing i am. and everything. and he's really sweet. BUT i have a boyfriend. & i told him how i couldnt leave my boyfriend and how i didnt exactly want to. but the thing is: i have NO idea what to do. because on one hand, i dont want to just leave 'landon' and throw away everything because i REALLLLY like him. but with dylan. it's like couriosity is a huge. because i never really got to hang out with dylan while we were dating & a part of me wants to. IM SO CONFUSED. please. any advice at all would help.

Wow , well personally i think you should just forget about dylan! Landon seems to care more about you then dylan does. If i were you and i saw dylan`s away message say "i love melanie" while i was going out with him i would probably never want to have anything to do with him, because you never know he could do that again and cheat on you. Stay with landon i think you 2 will work out way better then you and dylan ever would! i hope i helped! good luck! =]

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im 15, and i am a size d bra, i was wondering if i have any growth left, cause i have a lump in each of my breast, what are they?

Well , my friend said her doctor said if you are starting to have lumps by you`re breasts that could be a sign of cancer! So you should tell a doctor or you`re parents as soon as you can! Good Luck!

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