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ex trouble.


Question Posted Thursday July 20 2006, 6:50 pm


okay i'd say about seven months ago. me and a kid named 'dylan' started talking. & we went out. about two days into the relationship i got online & his away message said i love you 'melanie'. WHILE we were going out & when i asked him about it all he said was that he was sorry. but he liked 'melanie' more than me. it took a while to get over. beause we actually got along really well. after that i stayed single for a while and about four months ago i started dating my guy best friend 'landon'. well 'landon' and i are good. except he gets a bit jealous. & a few weeks ago at a swim meet 'dylan' was flirting with me a bit. now, i dont like him or anything. but he was flirting. & 'landon' got EXTREMELY mad saying how much i flirt with other people. WELLL we both got over it & its been about a month. & last monday 'landon' went on vacation. he came back on friday but he's been busy and i havent seen him in like 10 days. meanwhile, 'dylan' and i were talking on aim. when all of a sudden he starts to tell me how stupid he was & is for letting me go. & how he'd NEVER hurt me again. & how sorry he is. & how wonderful & amazing i am. and everything. and he's really sweet. BUT i have a boyfriend. & i told him how i couldnt leave my boyfriend and how i didnt exactly want to. but the thing is: i have NO idea what to do. because on one hand, i dont want to just leave 'landon' and throw away everything because i REALLLLY like him. but with dylan. it's like couriosity is a huge. because i never really got to hang out with dylan while we were dating & a part of me wants to. IM SO CONFUSED. please. any advice at all would help.


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No_such_thing_as_self answered Friday July 21 2006, 4:34 am:
Well I think Dylan just want to get together and will say anything to get you back. So just tell him no! No means no. As for your Current boy friend, you need to get the truth though his head when you dont do something. He`s only beliving the worst of you, and idk aboot you but i find the disrespectful.

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xo_minela answered Thursday July 20 2006, 8:50 pm:
Wow , well personally i think you should just forget about dylan! Landon seems to care more about you then dylan does. If i were you and i saw dylan`s away message say "i love melanie" while i was going out with him i would probably never want to have anything to do with him, because you never know he could do that again and cheat on you. Stay with landon i think you 2 will work out way better then you and dylan ever would! i hope i helped! good luck! =]

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xXJeSsiCaXx answered Thursday July 20 2006, 8:40 pm:
everyone wonders what it would be like to date someone else while they are dating someone..but i wouldnt give in to this curiosity cuz dylan could end up being the same way he was before and since you dont know if he has changed just stay with landon. it seems like you have somthing good going with him. Good luck and i hope i helped!

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