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Hey my names kayla and im 14 years 0ld...i will answer any questi0n y0u ask me because chances are im g0ing/went thr0ugh s0mething similar. i have realized that i am best at giving advice t0 pe0ple 0n what t0 say t0 0thers 0n a given situati0n. If theres ever s0mething urgent y0u need t0 ask me feel free t0 im me 0n xoredskittleox...if y0u have any pr0blems regarding my advice...like s0mething i might have said that 0ffended y0u 0r anything like that. Much0 l0ve
Kayla
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-Im sorry if anyone has been trying t0 email me. My email address is currently n0t w0rking. S0meh0w the pr0gram g0t switched to msn. grr my c0mputer always d0es that. Anyways i am s0 s0rry if any0ne was trying t0 get in c0ntact with me and i didnt resp0nd.
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My eye makeup seems to get all greasy and crappy looking after a while. Is my face oily? What do I do to prevent this?
mine does the same thing. There really isnt much you can do about it. You could use skin care products to cut down on the oilyness of your skin but that doesnt have immediat results. I personally just sneak to the bathroom and reaply my make up whenever i have the chance.
Alright, this is a stupid question, but today I purchased a D.A.R.E. shirt at Hot Topic. Under it, it reads "To Keep Kids Off Drugs." Does this have deeper meaning? Because on the standard D.A.R.E. shirts (like the official ones) they read "To Resist Drugs And Violence." I was wondering if "To Keep Kids Off Drugs" has any deeper meaning? I don't want to go to school with people laughing or something. Thanks.
it means that dare doesnt help to keep kids off drugs...ummm...like " i dare you to try and keep kids off drugs because its not gonna work" if you dont understand what im saying im terribly sorrryy im not very good at getting my thoughts out in writing l0l.
hope i cleared things up
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kayla x0x0
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Ok well I was talking on the phone to my bf last night, and I was on the internet. There was a banner-ads at the top of the page, and because I was bored I read it to him. It said "find out how well you kiss by taking this quiz". And he asked me what I was reading, and I told him it was a banner-ad thing. He then replied "I wonder how well I can kiss". I then just said "um, ok".
My question is- do you think he wants to kiss me? I want to kiss him, but I don't know if the feeling is mutual! We are going on a date tonight, and I want to know if he might kiss me.
Thanks I RATE 5's!!
yea...that whole little comment was him basically screaming "I WANT TO KISS YOU BABY!"
Ok well I was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend got shot and is now in a coma and might die! Well he did die! I slit my wrist one night I cry my self to sleep every night And I hate my life I used to be a prep but now I have gone goth I guess skipping classes and crying! I went to his funerl and saw him in his casket I just broke down right then and there I fell down on the ground and cried I refused to get up for about an hour and I went bye him like you all said and spent his last hours alive with him but it wasnt good enough he still died. I left the funeral and just went to his house (his parents were at the funeral) and went in his room and cried I swear I smelled him and saw him for 2sec then I just cried! What will I do?
hey that is horrible. I know you probably loved him alot but you cant keep yourself in the past. You have to move on. I dont mean totally forget about him...but try to cope with it instead of hurting yourself. If your boyfriend is watching over you he wouldnt want to see you cutting yourself and falling behind over his death. You can go to a phsiciatrist and talk to them about it. Or write how you feel out in a journal or something. I am so so sorry about your loss and i hope you feel better.
Tonight I'm going with a few friends to see a scary movie. My boyfriend is going to try to come behind his parents back to go with me. This one guy that I know who really really likes me is also going, and I kinda like him. What should I do because I'd rather cuddle with my guy friend than my boyfriend. Help!!
dumpin your boyfriend would be the better idea...you dont want to be known for cheating. If you have stronger feelings for your guy friend then you do for your boyfriend then that would be the better choice.
I know about cutting and what cutters do..but i watched tv the other day and it showed a girl who snapped a rubber band on her wrist and needed phyciatric help for it...what does a rubber band do and whats the purpos?
rubber bands are like a form of therapy..everytime they feel the urge to cut the snapp it i dont know exactly how the therapy works but a kid in my school has one for anger management and every time he is angry he snaps it.
Hey! I my classmates make fun of me and talk behind my back cause of my weight limit i mean i am a little over weight and i try to keep in shape. Why is everyone so mean to me? I never do anything mean to them? I dont get it? why do kids have to be so mean.
well plenty of kids make fun of other kids...chances are its cuz they think their better than you..just live your life and let them think that you care about wut they say. Who cares about there oppinion if you are aware that you're over weight and you are trying to fix it its one hell of alot better than being overweight and pigging out all the time.
I was going out with brian but he randomly wouldnt call me and my computer was broken. so i asked him online when i was at my friends and he was like im sorry i forgot. (mostly because he smokes everyday, i hate it) we wopul hangout on sundays and it sucked, i didnt want to hangout with someone once a week when he lives down the street. but hes different, hes the only guy im shy around, i dont know why. but he called me friday and told me he couldnt hangout because he was going to his friends. he called me latr and told me he went to the mall (why couldnt he of asked me?) so he called me saturday morning and said hed call me later to hangout he did but said he couldnt because his parents were out ( why couldnt he ask me over) so i sad my mom culd pick him up and stuff and he didnt seem intrested and was like lets just hangout tomorrow so i was like no, its not working, sorry an he said alright. he goes to my friends school so he was like i really like her i dont know why she dumped me so i talked to him yesteday and h was like ell i cant ay i liked you a wicked lot because we didn really talk alot but i dontknow why im so shy around you but i definetly like you an what i know s far, so i uess we're going back out. what can i say to tell him i dont like how he smokes so muc and we need to hangout more? and how can i not be so shy and what should i say on the phone? thank you
hey, about the smoking. thats his descision...ive had plenty of boyfriends that smoke. we are young...its not like its someone you are marrying dont worry about it. If you tell him you dont like it he will get pretty pissed off believe me. Yea you do need to hangout more. When i went out with this kid steven we hung out alot. Go to the movies or hangout at your house and rent a video. Theres not a remedy to not be shy...just think about it...he likes you so be yourself around him.
Im so sick of this. I have a friend and one weekend we were suppost to go to the mall together, Well I kinda ditched her.. but anyway the thing is one my birthday she ditched me!! Well today my other friend basically ditched me.. its not like I havent felt it before and I told her about it. She said "It sucks right?" So I said "Well duh.. but wouldnt it suck more if it was on your fricking birthday?!?" and I walked away... I feel bad.. but then I dont want to talk to her. What do I do?
that was really rude of her. tell her "i understand you where trying to make a point...but it was my birthday and it meant alot to me. i felt bad" or something
i like someone and i do everything i know to get his attention. i flirt and wear cute outfits and try to stand out in the classes i have with him. what am i doing wrong? what else can i do?
your not doing anything wrong...keep it up he might have already noticed you.
okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?
i totally agree...you did it because you care. Your being A better friend telling someone than you would be to just let her hurt herself
see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky..
hey, i dont think you really understand what bullemia is. You cant just stop. Its more of a mental disorder than a physical one. you cant just stop. Something in her brain keeps telling her shes fat. thats all i hafta say...its hard to get over stuff like that give her time it not as easy as you think.
im boring how can i make myself seem or be more fun?
go wild
Does anyone know any inspirational sayings? I am in need of inspiration.
~Nokomis~
the hardest things to say,
are the words that mean the most.
Okay my b/f like never calls me and when I dont call him on the weekends *which i do but he is never there* he goes off *not really but yeah* and i really REALLy like him but i dont know what to do
On top of all that in one day all i get is one maybe two *but not likly* hugs and i well want more hugs so yeah
HELP!!
talk to him about it...a good relationship means you are willing to talk to eachother about flaws...
What do you do for clammy hands?
i wash my hands under cold water...it helps...
what are some good "truths" and "dares" for "truth or dare"?!
ummm...well the usual truths are:
*how far have you gone with a guy
*whos the grossest guy you have gone out with
and questions like that...some dares would be:
* i dare you to call up _____ and tell him you are in love with him.
*i dare you to makeout with ____
and stuff liek that...or if its a boy girl thing just play spin the bottle...
i just became friends with a girl again and she used to be mean and when we gave her a second chance she started to be mean again.im worried she will be like that again what should i believe?
oo i went through the same thing. apperiently second chances dont really cut it for some people.
okay well my boyfriend is a football star and im really afraid of losing him because he's really popular and i feel like he's gonna find someone else. he tells me he loves me but i dont know im kinda scared. and also all he does is talk about football sometimes, and it annoys me.
i totally understand why you would feel that way. But if you love him you have to be able to trust him. The whole talking about football thing, well all guys have their flaws...if you love him you hafta accept it...even if it means pretending you care about football. If he trusts you its only fair to show the same trust twards him.
i flirt alot with a lot of different guys and i have a boyfriend is that bad?
i wouldnt go so far as to say its bad. but you should try to focus your flirting on ur boyfriend. You can still flirt with other guys but not to the extreme. You wanna be a good girlfriend.