Hey, I'm Kelli, better known as fabulous ;)
after a very long break from this site, I'm back and ready to help out anyone who needs it.
A little bit about me:
I'm fourteen and in eighth grade.
I'm a crazy girl, and I always have a smile on my face.
I love to sing and dance, I spend most of my time doing one or the other.
I am nice to everyone, until they give me a reason not to be.
I have the best friends in the world, and without their love and support, I wouldn't be who I am today.
Ask me anything, I'm told I'm good at advice so don't be afraid to ask my opinion. I'll do the best I can to help you out! ♥
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Does anyone have some good snack recipes?
Thanx
-Jaime (link)
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Hey. I just found this recipe recentely and I haven't tried it but it looks really good. The final product will be apple cinnamon marshmallow squares. what you need :
1/4 cup margarine or butter
35 large marshmallows or 3 1/2 cups mini marshmallows
2 table spoons cinnamon candies
7 cups of apple dapples or apple jacks cereal
Stove top directions: Butter 13x9x2 inch baking pan. Melt margarine in large saucepan over low heat. Add marshmallows and cinnamon candies, stirring constantly until marshmallows are melted ( cinnamon candies will not completely melt). Remove from heat. Quickly add cereal, stirring until peices are evenly coated. Press into prepared pan with back of buttered spoon.Cool. Cut into squares.
Microwave directions: Butter 13x9x2 inch baking pan.Melt margarine, marshmallows, and cinnamon candies in large microwave safe bowl on High 2 minutes. stirring every minute ( cinnamon candies will not completely melt ). Quickly add cereal, stirring until all peices are evenly coated. Press into prepared pan with back of buttered spoon.Cool. Cut into squares.
If recipe is followed correctly you should have 24 squares. Hope I helped enjoy your treat!
♥ Kelli
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ok i need help i cant decide between 2 parties, both are this saturday & i know its my decision & all but i just need input
ok so Party A:: the girls whos throwin it i mean we both know each other but weve never talked to each other but shes 2 of my other friend's friend too. i kno a buncha people that are going to this, its gonna be like one of those big blow out my-super-sweet-16 kinda deals. i got invited to this one first. the down side is i need a semi-formal dress haha
Party B:: one of my friends from last semester is havin it. its a pool party and i only kno like 3 people that are goin. i wasnt invited to this one till i had pretty much already decided i was goin to the 1st one [although i hadnt RSVP'd or told anyone i was goin]. but the thing is this girl is actually one of my friends from last yr although i havent seen her at all this yr. i dont wanna upset them by goin to the 1st party esp. since a lotta ppl dont like the girl whos havin the 1st party [personally i dont have anything against her i dont see why a lotta ppl are like 'dont go to hers' and stuff]
so basically id kinda rather go to the 1st party but the thing is i dont wanna let my friends down, + id have to go buy a dress anyway.
what should i do? (link)
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Hey. I would say go to the first party for two reasons. The first reason is that you want to go to the first party more and you have to be happy with your choice. Second thing is that this girl invited you first and it wouldn't be very fair to blow her off. If the partys are at different times maybe you could work around it and go to both? Hope I helped ♥ Kelli
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I want him to notice me more. How do you get a guy to like you more or even notice you??? (link)
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Hey. You can't exactly make a guy like you. But you can do little things to make him notice you. You can change / add things to your appearance ( makeup, clothes, hairstyles, etc) you can talk to him more online and on the phone and when you see him you can flirt. But just be yourself. If hes worth it time will tell. Good luck. ♥Kelli
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So there is this boy and he came to see my friend that was in a play with me. He was later telling her that he needed a girl friend and asked if i was available. After we hung out a few times I got really interested in him. That was in may now its august and nothing has happend yet. I know he is a shy guy but how can i make him feel more comfortable around me?.
thanks in advance!
ps- I don't like asking guys out. It's weird to me although when him and his best friend (and my really good friend) were talking he said girls should just say this to ask people out... I my name is (your name) I am unemployed, and I live with my parents... wanna go out? lol but that is kinda weird to me (link)
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Hey. He seems like a nice guy and it really seems like he is into you. There are a couple of things you can do. you can have your friend do it for you by straight up asking or dropping hints. You could work up the nerve to do it yourself ( this guy doesn't seem like the one that'll tease you for that ) or you could email him or something so it is less awkward. Since he is in to you but hasn't asked you out yet, I'm thinking that he is probably shy about asking you out as well. Good luck ♥ Kelli
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About 4 months ago, I noticed that my teenage daughter was losing some weight, but only a little. As time progressed, she wouldn't stop losing weight, and she was a size 2. I started to worry about her and made sure that she ate dinner every day. However, she constantly made excuses for not eating, so we saw a therapist (this is about a month ago from now). In our second session, she admitted that she was anorexic. She now refuses to go back to the therapist. My question is this. I'm very worried about my daughter and her weight. Forcing her to eat would cause her to possibly develop bulimia and she would start to hate me, so how do I make sure that she eats? (link)
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Hey. I am really sorry about your daughter. Anyways not to insult you but I don't think it's in your power to make your daughter eat. You need to call a specialist or an anorexia clinic so she can get real help. If your daughter keeps up anorexia she could get very sick so even if it is hard, taking her for help is the right thing to do. Good luck and I hope your daughter is ok. ♥kelli
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ok so, there are theese girls at my school and they are deffiniatly wannabees. me and my friends are the popular group and you can tell ttry to act like us, like in a lunch room they flip there hair and stuff like that, and they are like '' omg he is soo cute'' and they just are annoying! what should i do about themm? (link)
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Hey. You just gotta live and let live. If they are trying to be like you take it as a compliment because immitation is the most sincerest form of flatery. As for the annoying part? Be polite to them but try your hardest not to sit near them at lunch or in class because you do not want to start a fight. I'm sorry if this advice isn't the best. If you need anything else just drop one in my inbox :-). ♥ Kelli
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what are some good eye shadow colors for brown eyes that make them like really pop? kthanks in advance (link)
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Hey. Off the top of my head I would say gold white or pink. But if you go to CVS and look in the makeup section they will have things of eye shadow and there will be palattes for you eye color. Hope I helped ♥ Kelli
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Does anyone know how to figure out your bra size at home? I hate going into the stores and having the people measure you. (link)
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Hey. I never got measured or anything. Just try to determine how big you are. For example if you are an A pick a size somewhere in the middle and work your way up or down depending on how it fits ( do this with A B C or D) good luck! ♥ Kelli
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For Homecoming, do you get a long dress or a shorter dress? Is it really fancy, like should I buy a facy dress? (link)
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Hey. I am not 100% sure but my brother went to homecoming and I know that everyone dresses up but I don't think its extremely formal like the prom for example. I would reccomend a knee length dress but wear what makes you feel comfortable and pretty. Have fun to! ♥ kelli
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are there any stores that sell hollister and abercrombie for less cuzi im on a tight budget! please help if you know any stores! =] (link)
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Hey! Eblens sells everything. Thats the point of their store. They inport name brand items and sell them for less money. You can get all sorts of clothes, shoes and accessories there for cheap. ♥ Kelli
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hey all,
school is starting soon and i really want to improve my make-up. most girls wear eyeliner in my school and i want to, too. but the thing is, i dont know how to put eyeliner on. i only have pencil eyeliner. some say you lift your bottom eye lid down and then put it righ above the bottom lashes, but when i do that some eyeliner actually goes into my eye!!! so is there anybody that can help me?? where do i put it? above the bottom lashes? or under the bottom lashes? please help!! oh and also... maybe some really cool ideas? add some links if possible! i have brown eyes and brown hair. i dont like the colors green or purple. i like red, blue and pink. thanks! (link)
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Hey. Here is what I would do. Apply eyeliner to your lower lids ( To do this pull your eye down gently and then carefully drag the pencil across the pink inside. Repeat this until you are happy with the result.) Then put on gold eye shadow and then put white on top. Then take a pale pink and put it over the white. I know its a lot but those shades will look good with your eyes and hair. Then top it off with upper lashes mascara then your good to go! Hope I helped ♥ Kelli
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will aloe hurt my sunburn that i already peeled? also, i peeled a part off, and it now has a little cut there, not bleeding or anything, just a little cut, is that normal? THANKS! (link)
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Hey. I don't think its going to hurt you. I barely ever get sunburned but when I do I use aloe and it feels amazing. It really makes it cool off and stop itching/ hurting. But everyone is different so put a little on and if it doesn't hurt apply more. If it doesn't work take a cool cloth and wipe it off. ♥ kelli
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i'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much! (link)
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Hey. I know how it feels.. I have been there and done that. What you have to do is find confidence in your self. Walk tall and be happy to be you. I know this sounds really dumb but just be yourself. Theres a perfect guy for everyone out there you just have to be patient. As for dating? Don't worry about it. Your thirteen you have plenty of time. I'm sorry you feel left out of the picture but chances are theres a guy out there crushin on you and he is too scared or un sure of himself to fess up. Just be happy and time will tell when mr. right comes along. ♥ kelli
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i work with this girl that is leaving for college in about 2 weeks. Shes been working in this store for a year and a half. She doesnt do anything that actually helps the store out because she leaves it for everyone else to.
Im a senior and im staying at my job. Shes telling me and everyone else that after college lets out for the summer next year she is coming back and they are hiring her back and shes going to be gettting a promotion.
Now i really dont think she deserves to come back and get a job right away nor a promotion.
What can i do to make sure this girl does not get her job back? Or should i should let it go? (link)
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Hey. Whether you are in school, work, sports, or any group activity there will always be somebody that is lazy or leaves work to other people. All I can really say is work your hardest and don't let her get to you. If you do well and you like your job maybe you could get promoted to. If she gets a promotion you think you deserve talk to the manager, possibly in advanced, and just tell him that you have worked hard and want to know if you could possibly be a candidate for a promotion. As for the girl, live and let live. Someday she'll figure out that things aren't always going to come so easily to her. Good luck
♥ Kelli
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In 6th grade, I fell in love with this kid named kevin. We went out for about a month but it ended up not working out and we broke up. After that we were still best friends but it was always akward seeing eachother because I never really got over him. Well, he's gone out with many ppl since then and i have gone out with a few people too. (We are now going into 8th grade) Last night Kevin told me how he has always loved me and how he never really got over me and I completely fell in love with him again the only problem is at the moment I have a boyfriend who I love but I know I really have always loved Kevin. Kevin says he'll wait for me but I don't know what to do. And I don't know if I can dump my boyfriend because I don't want to hurt him ANY ADVICE? Thanks so much in advance (link)
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Hey. What your going through must be really tough. Kevin sounds like a great guy and you seem to really like your boyfriend to. I know this is such a cheesy one liner but follow your heart. Whenever I need to make a choice thats really tough I lock my self in my room, turn on my, and just lay on my bed and think. Think about both guys' good qualities and bad. Think of times you have had with them and who you could see yourself with in the future. Just give it time. If Kevin says he will wait for you, you don't need to make the choice right now. Take your time and think about it and make sure you do what makes you happy. Good luck ♥ Kelli
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i'm 15/f, and opinions are very much apprectiated on this even though it's long. here's the sitch:
i'm going into the 10th grade in a month. my mom lives in one town, and my dad in another, about 10 minutes apart.
so i live with my mom now, but i'm thinking of maybe moving to my dad's house, but i need your help in making the decision. all of my friends are near my mom's house, that go to the high school in her town, but if i were to move with my dad, he would take me to see them and let me have them over and everything that i would normally do with them--but i don't know anyone that would go to the high school in my dad's town. my mom is supposed to give me allowance for the chores i do, but she never does, and i can't get a job yet, so i have no money. if i were to move with my dad, i have 4 cousins that live near him that i could babysit and make some money and then later get a job, and he also said that he would give me allowance. i sometimes get along with my mom, but she puts her boyfriend before me and is always asking me to do stuff for her and she's always on my case. i get along with my dad most of the time, and his girlfriend is like a mom to me. my room at my mom's house is small and cramped, i have no closet doors, a broken fan, no bed frame and my mom says she can't make renovations bc she doesnt have the money, but she spends her money(including the child support money from my dad) on my little sister(has a diff. dad), tanning, and diet everything. i'm so frustrated, and i'm so nervous about making this decision and i've no clue what to do. so a huge thank you goes out to anyone who answers this.
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It sounds like you really want to live with your dad. And I know the choice is tough but you have to do what makes you most comfortable. It seems like your dad would do anything to have you live with him so I'd do what feels right. Your mom sounds preoccupied with her boyfriend so I'd talk to her and let her know what's going on. Maybe she'll agree that you'd be better off living with your dad for a while even if its a trial thing for only a year or 6 months. As for not knowing anyone at your highschool, you'll make friends. I can pretty much promise you that you will make friends and adjust. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I know a lot of people with divorced parents so I know its really tough. Good luck. ♥ Kelli
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I tried to dye it back to my natural hair color and the people who did it made it red and it was supposed to be brown. How long will it take for my all of my hair to grow back with my normal color? (link)
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Hey. Chances are its going to take a while. I'd reccomend getting it re dyed to your natural color because once your hair grows out half is going to be red and half brown. If you re dye it your natural color it will match once your hair grows out. Good luck ♥
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Does anyone know where i can go to a website and put in my height weight and age so i can find out if i am overweight? (link)
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If you go to www.am-i-fat.com and once its loaded there will be a side bar with all sorts of sub pages. Click on am i fat? i believe it is the third one down. hope i helped.
♥ kelli
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I (13) share a master bedroom with my sister(17). I want to decorate the room. It's diffcult for us to agree on ant thing since we're so diffrent. How should I decorate if she can't agree on any thing? (link)
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Hey! I am going to give you an idea like my room because I think that its easy for two people to agree on. When we painted my room we divided each wall into two halves ( we did top and bottom but you can split it anyway you want) then I painted the top half one color and the bottom another. Then this way you each get to pick one color you like. After that you take off the tape and you will be left with a white strip or a strip from whatever color your wall was before since the tape covered it. From there you could do a few things - paint it a third color, put a border around the strip, or do what I am going to have done and put in crown molding. It will look pretty and then both of you get your way. Good luck
♥ Kelli
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ok. so my mom is going to iraq and my dad is moving me from west bloomfield, were my boyfriend lives to clarkston where my dad wants to live. we are moving next week. should i keep going out with him and do that whole long distance thing or should i break it off and explain?
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Hey I'm real sorry. Anyway you should start by thinking if you want the long distance relationship think of what would be good about it and what would be bad. Also think about how much you care for your boyfriend. If you love him or care about him a lot then I don't think that distance will bring you apart. Good luck
♥ Kelli
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