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Hi!
Im in middle school and I start feeling this feeling since November of last year. I hate my life so bad. I always feel depressed. I feel like I'm ugly, I'm stupid,I'm fat and many other things. Then, my friends, I feel like I don't fit in with them. Then, since lately, my boyfriend has been chatting with this blond haired b*tch after class when everyone was gone one day. I'm afraid my boyfriend and I are going to break up and he's going to kiss her. For some reason, we haven't talked since two weeks ago on the phone (He is moving next year). I'm crying while typing this. (I actually cry a lot) What can I do before I hurt myself badly. I'm sorry if you can't understand with my typing I'm just depressed and sad all the time. (link)
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hey 13f i understand honey...im going through this too.dont hurt yourself.just try not to worry.you caant hange anyone but yourself.hurting yourself wont fix it,beleive me i know.feel free to inbox me i dont want you to cry
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I am 18.. i got horribly stoned.. I got kicked out of my pg ( paying guest ) my parents n bro have grounded me..They keep on accusing me.. I feel like shit !! I am in a relationship but my parents have confiscated my cell and i am not allowed to go out of my home alone.. its hell !! i wanna die.. how can i do that effectively and kinda painlessly ? (link)
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maby dont get stoned at home next time.dont die....what r u expecting us to say?no one ever tells u to kill yourself on here.Ever.So dont 20000 plus users cant be all wrong
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he licks my ass
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Umm good for you!Not really a question though...
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i had a 3 days menstruation period every month..anf after 6 days my period ends, i got unprotected sex w/ my bf..could i get pregnant?? (link)
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yes.
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My friend is obsessed with a guy who isn't interested, like at all. She is really obsessed with him and is always stalking him on fb or counting how many times he blinks in class. She thinks he's in love with her but they font even speak and he has a girl friend. always says how she hates herself and has. Started drinking/taking 5 Panadol at a time and even self harming. I am rely worried about her and I love her to pieces but I have other friends too and I can't spend 24hrs a day telling her she's perfect, that's not fair on them or me. I really want to help her though! I've convinced her to jo to a councillor but it isn't helping...what do I do?!! Age:14 gender:female (link)
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tell her the truth-
u3 desreve better than himm and he is obviuosly distracted with a lot of other things at the moment.self harm isnt cool, i should know.is that all thats bugging her?u can email me any time at letmebe44@gmail.com
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My name is robert I haven't felt any emotions since I can remember and I dont know why. I wish some one will help me understand! (link)
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dfo you have depression?try doing something that would induce emotion
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hey i'm thinking of attaching my ironman arc light merchandise toy to the skin of my chest and i want to know what type of skin glue or skin adhesive that is durable, non-flamable, and sticks for a long time. the reason for this question is that ever since i watched the iron man live action movie in early 2009 I admirer the arc light that is on his chest and i want one on my chest because it looks cool to me. (link)
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sorry man but this might be stupid.just wear an iron man costume.or paint it on your chest.those work.
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M/17
My mom was 16 when she had me. My dad didn't think it was his so he moved and only comes by on occasion. But my mom met a guy 3 years later at a party and has been with him ever since. I was quite a brat when I was younger so he broke up with my mom because of me a few times. But after a while the only way he disciplined me was by beating me. Since I was still young I figured that everyone got beat like I did. So once I started getting older and into school, I started going into school with a new bruise on my face, I had to blame it on this sport...wrestling. This sport has ruined my life. I have no social life, barely any other life than this. My life revolves around this sport. When I was a young wrestler, my mom would video tape the matches. When we got home he would make me watch them, and every bad mistake I made.... Was another blow to the face. This continued for the longest time. I began to hate this sport. Until about my sixth year I finally got good enough to start winning all the time. But now he just punishes me by making me lose weight all the time. He still hits me. I've had so many concussions in my life, idk if it was from wrestling or him. But now he says that all those beating when I was younger made me into a decent man.....I believe he only made me into a man that is afraid of life. It's gotten to the point to when he tries being nice to me and hugging me...I end up flinching instead. He jokes about it all the time. I just can't wait to move out. I'm never allowed out with my friends. He won't let me get a job. He says "wrestling is my job" well I absolutely hate this job. I want to quit, but I'm afraid of him hitting me again. I just have no clue what to do. My mom just sits back and watches and she even knows that he has cheated on her before. But I don't know what to do. I've gone into drugs, cutting myself, thoughts of suicide all the time. I just can't find anything to help me... (link)
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dont do drugs and stop cutting. those are two problems which may fix the other ones. whenever you want to cut snap a rubber band on your wrist and stay srtong and stop doing drugs. tell someone besides this site about him beating and punishing you. tell the authorities or a trusted adult and hell probably get in trouble but mayby he deserves it for messing your life up like this. hope i helped
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Something is wrong with my Fishes eye. It has a whitish grey circle on the outside of the eye ball. I have no idea what it is or what to do. Please help! (link)
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im sorry but he may be blind its okay it is incurable
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I'm in Middle school and all of a sudden from time to time I feel that ai should not live anymore. It's hard for me to though. I like this band Blood On The Dancefloor I got into and I think it is triggering to this. I don't really like my family anymore either. How can I get rid of this feeling forever! Help me! (link)
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Hey honey i love botdf and am in middle school too and i have had suicidal thoughts before but there is no connection. i swear...have you heard you are the
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I'm looking for a website that really helped me with my anxiety... but I forgot the name and I'm freaking out.
It was where anyone with any type of problem could go on and talk to someone one on one anonymously... The people who were giving advice would have to log on, but anyone who needed to talk to someone could just push the button and you'd be talking to someone within a few minutes through a one on one chat room...
I understand that I may not find the exact website, but does anyone know of a website like this? I have an anxiety disorder and it would be nice to just be able to talk to someone when a panic attack wakes me up in the middle of the night...
Not a group chat just... one on one with a person who cares.
Thank you. (link)
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you can talk to me anytime....in my inbox i have anxiety too but can control it better now :)
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hi i need some advice im a female who is 15and i want to try my best on not getting pregnant do you think i should get on birth control or not and if so, how should i convince my parents to get me on birth control (link)
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say- hey im 15 its gonna happen eventually so yo7u may as well be safe and prepared.some kids i know are 12 and on it.just bein safe.
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Me:12/F
Him:14/m
Well my boyfriend fingers me and I wanted to know if its okay since I'm 12 I'm turning 13 in 7 months and it just feels so good and I don't want it to stop but if its not right then I should probably stop him. We haven't had sex yet and I'm still a virgin. I really love him and we've been together for 6 months and he's been fingering me 4 5 months he fingers me every weekend and we see each other everyday at school and I'm at his house most days and my parents don't know about us when I sleep there on the weekends they thing I'm sleeping at my friend(she lives next door to him)please don't judge me
Thanks x (link)
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you already have judged yourself and feel that its wrong so you posted this.so dont continue if you think that its wrong
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I am always being yelled at. Mostly "WHAT THE H*LL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!??", "I HATE YOU!", "WHY CAN'T YOU BE LIKE YOUR SISTER?!??", and "nobody likes fat people. If you are fat nobody will love you and you will die alone."
A few things he calls me are:
Fat
Stupid
Ugly
Lazy
How he makes me feel:
Fat
Stupid
Ugly
Lazy
Untalented
Worthless
Crazy
Like its always my fault
Alone
Unloved
Depressed
Suicidal
Things that have resulted from constant yelling,name calling, and a few beatings:
Him saying he hates me
Him refusing to feed me
Confusion of sexuality
Shyness
Suicidal thoughts
Thoughts of killing him
Plans to run away
Attempted cutting
Attempted purging
Attempts to starve myself. Fantasy coping (only a few hours spent in reality)
Scared of men
Hate being touched
Hate him
Hate relationships with people
Have to sever all relationships with men after 3 months
Loner
Don't trust people
Confusion (mostly of if I'm being abused and if he ever molested me)
Foggy memories of him laying on top of me asleep and I want to get away but can't.
Self hatred
A few things he has done:
Refused to feed me
Compare me to sister
Forced me to lay in bed with him
Forced me to hug him
Forced me to sit in his lap
Forced me to kiss his mouth (long time)
Yells if I don't let him lay with me in bed
Stomped my dogs head in the ground
Threw one of my dogs across the concrete
I don't want to call authorities when I have so much to be happy about. I.e- four friends that sometimes pay attention to me, two dogs and a cat that love me very much, a big yard, and im in the middle class money area. I know some people go through so much more (beatings,rape,neglect, homeless,broke, etc.) so I really don't mean to complain. It's weird that I'm just now thinking that this may be abuse (like how when my older sister was 6 he told her she got to fat and forced her to get on the treadmill everyday even though she was an average weight.) For some reason I just have a strong feeling I was raped or molested and so was my sister but I just don't know....thank you.
I'm a 13yr old female.
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you may not want to but tell someone or maybe you will cut purge and all that stuff. tell the authorities. if their your friends theyll stick by you throught this.
good luck
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12/F
Hi so in about May I stopped cutting myself because I got caught. But recently I've been thinking about doing it again.. I realized that everybody hates me, even family.. And I'm ugly and fat, I'm stupid.. I mean I'm just not normal.. I've been thinking of starting to cut myself again... Should I? Please help me :( (link)
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no you should not.tha isnt the answer- and never will be.I got caught this may too.i started when i was 11 will be 14 next summer.thats a lot of scars. beleive me, this is the deression and your just as good as anyone else.tell the person who caught yopu or some one else you trust about these thoughts.ive gone to so many doctors its sickening.maybe you should viset one too. i only want to help. i bet it felt good when you stopped.its hard, but hold on.i havent stopped, fyi. and i regret every cut.
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Hi I'm Georgia/12/Australia
Lately my best friend beth has been hanging out with these other girls allyssa and connie.
Usually me and beth do everything together and now she's ignoring me and excluding me and the other day i just burst into tears.She;s really hurting me and she has been doing this for a while what do i do? (link)
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find a new friend.people chnqage.so will you,and she is too.Beth is most likley finding as new identity, and growing up.dont cry.youll find someone new. try being freinds with allysa and connie, maybwe youll like them.
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So I'm in seventh grade. I found out recently that a lot of kids in my grade aren't virgins.. And I'm jusrt sickened by this. It's been in my mind all day and I can't get it off my mind. How do I make this leave my mind? I'm just not wanting to go to that school anymore, but my friends are there... (link)
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sigh......im in 7th grade and sad truth-kids are gonna do it no matter how young.some of my friends lost their virvinity years ago, or so they say.some kids might be lying to look grown up.dont worry-but dont feel obligated tpo have sex at such a younge age.you dontt need it.
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Hello :] my hair is very soft and its texture is very smooth,when i was young i had wavy hair and it wasn't frizzy, now im 18 years old, and i stopped taking care of my hair for years, id straighten it all the time, go to the salon and have someone do it and if it got even a bit puffy i would straighten again and again, and i used to hear my hair ripping and it was horrible, i also used to take showers and put my hair up in a bun for days and i never had any hair cuts, and i also used to brush it alot. anyways i am aware that i really messed up my hair but it still happens to be soft so im guessing that my good hair is somewhere in there, ive been taking care of it for 2 weeks now, i shower every other day. i dont use shampoo so much its usually conditioners and hair masks, i comb my hair and dont brush it and as soon as im done doing that i use products such as oil replacement and its been doing wonders so far making my hair alot better. when i stopped taking care of my hair, it got curly and now that im taking care of it i realize that it isnt as curly as it was when i took no care at all, does that mean that my hair is going back to its naturalness? its alot softer and alot less frizzy and the curls arent so much anymore.. like its a bit wavy at the top and then it goes curly at the bottom, is it possible that my hair is becoming the way it used to be ? or does it have to stay curly? cause i want my wavy hair back.
anyways, thanks to whoever took the time to read this and answer. highly appreciated. (link)
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if you want your wavy hair back, dont straighten it and try a leave it conditioner to get shinnyness and stuffs oh and hair cuts can help
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12/F well I have a 18 year old boyfriend and he wanted to have sex and I'm to scared that if I say no he won't love me anyway now he's always expecting me to have sex with him and when I don't want to he asks me if I don't love him anymore and he has naked pictures of me and I don't know how he got them what must I do(my mom doesn't know about our relationship) (link)
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baby this guy is obviusly just a pervert and want to have sex and does not love you.those naked pictures are considered child porn and he can get serius jail time for having those.if you took those pics, and gave them to anyone that is distributing child porn and is also very illegal.where the hell did you meet this freak?tell your mom and i f you really love him(idk why) dont have sex with him becouse that is statiatory rape and you will never see him again because he will be in jail.only here to help.....
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16/f
Hey guys. So I know this is kinda weird but I wanna dress like a cool old-school 60s-70s rock star. Something about the styles really fascinates me. I don't want to be subtle, I want to go loud and proud, I don't care if I get made fun of. Any tips or suggestions? Where can I find good clothes/ accessories?
Thanks :) (link)
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lol sweet go for it.try ebay,vintage shops,thrift stores im emo/steampunk so need a lot of vintage stuff.try getting a 70s hair cut to match..so fun!
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