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I've been thinking of starting to cut myself again... Should I? Please help me :(
12/F
Hi so in about May I stopped cutting myself because I got caught. But recently I've been thinking about doing it again.. I realized that everybody hates me, even family.. And I'm ugly and fat, I'm stupid.. I mean I'm just not normal.. I've been thinking of starting to cut myself again... Should I? Please help me :(
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Ok, first off, I've been in your situation. And you don't need to call your self fat. I am a plus size, but I'm not fat. I can understand. And you're right. You're not normal. Your different from everybody else. And thats a good thing. Keep your head up. Work hard, do what you gotta do. You're doing t for yourself.
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dont do that it's not good.You are not ugly every girl in the world has a beauty points ;) and ugly points :( i mean dont look at girls in your school or streets they wear thier mask which is MAKE UP and about fat eat healty and dont eat after 9 and drinks lots of water will make you lose 9 kilo in month
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no you should not.tha isnt the answer- and never will be.I got caught this may too.i started when i was 11 will be 14 next summer.thats a lot of scars. beleive me, this is the deression and your just as good as anyone else.tell the person who caught yopu or some one else you trust about these thoughts.ive gone to so many doctors its sickening.maybe you should viset one too. i only want to help. i bet it felt good when you stopped.its hard, but hold on.i havent stopped, fyi. and i regret every cut.
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First of all I believe what you have written about yourself is depression talking. You are definitely not stupid. If you where you could not have written to us as well have you have.
As for the other two I do not think you could be ugly. Underneath the visual is a beautiful person. I can tell this just from your writing. It does not take a whole lot of words to tell much about who a person is under the visual. This is the person that people really need to get to know but can't because the depression gets in the way.
As for being overweight; here to it is the depression that is causing this problem. This I know for certain as I too once suffered from depression. When one suffers from depression over eating is a comfort one indulges in. Once you get the depression under control you can do something about being overweight.
Depression is a terrible illness. It causes us to feel bad about ourselves. It causes us to do things we think will make us fell better or even feel anything for sometimes we feel nothing at all. This is why you have the desire to cut. Don't cut yourself it only leaves scars that later will cause you to feel worse.
Ask mom or dad to take you to the doctor and ask to be screened for depression. What you may be suffering from is caused more from puberty than anything else. At one time back in the day as we say now. Parents felt this was a phase children went through and they would grow out of. Most did. Today doctors know better and they can help you.
The screening for depression is painless. The doctor will ask you a series of question or even give you a sheet of questions to answer. Many of the questions asked are asked during a routine physical the additional questions help the doctor diagnose whether or not you suffer from some form of depression.
Once diagnosed there are things that can be done to help you. Cutting is dangerous and will not help you. Ask to see the doctor and then be very truthful with the doctor. IF need be ask if you and the doctor can be alone with out mom or dad their while you are being screened.
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