adviceman49 answered Sunday December 23 2012, 10:16 am: If you are asking if this is okay the answer would be yes. PROVIDED you find it pleasing or at least something you can tolerate if he enjoys doing it.
The firsts golden rule when it comes to sex and sex play or foreplay is: BOTH PARTNERS MUST BE CONSETING OR IT IS A NO GO. This means if you or your partner dislike something, do not wish to try something all that needs to be said is NO. No is final. It is not maybe, it does not mean I'll try and maybe they will allow or learn to like it. It means it is not done.
The second golden rule is: Communication. You need to talk to each other and teach each other about your likes and dislikes, especially for the female. Most males believe all females like to be fingered. This is not true. There are many females that are more clitoral in nature. The problem is the male does not know this and needs the female to show them how to touch them and stroke them. The same goes for the male. All males like to have their penis stroked but there are different ways to do this. He needs to show her how he likes to be touched. The same goes for all types of sexual intercourse and oral sex. You need to learn from each other.
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