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13/f
i have two boyfriends.
14 and 15
lets say the 14 yr old name is robert
an dthe 15 year old is deandre
well me and robert been together for 9 months
i really love him alot
but then i met deandre..
i didnt like him but he liked me, and wus trying to spit game to me.
then all of a sudden 4 or 5 months later were boyfriend and girlfriend
robert will never cheat on me, he hasnt so far in our relationship,
but deanre...ireally dont kno about him, he says he wont but at the begging he had sex with another girl. if i dont have sex with deandre he will leave me. and i love this boy soo much, but im torn between him and robert. i like freaky boys, robert might have his times, but deandre is a 24/7 freak. but i really love them both. robert can wait for sex but deandre cant. deandre told me that when we have sex, we are moving our relatioinship forward. but hes 15 && im 13! im not a virgin but still i dont wanna have sex again till after 16. i asked him can he wait till im 16. he said no, we cant be together if he has to wait. but robert said he doesnt mind cause its not about sex, its about two people loving each other. oh yea robert looks better! but who should i choose?!?!
Well, I don't know everything about them, but from what you said, I would say Robert. Here's why:
Sex is really fun. But it's not everything. You shouldn't have sex with someone because that's the only way to stay in a relationship with them. If you're not ready for sex again yet, wait. Robert seems like he's really understanding and while they probably both truly care about you, Robert seems like he cares more about you emotionally, instead of just physically. If you're in love with Robert, and he's not making you have sex with him, then the decision should be obvious.
I'm not sure I understand your relationship though. You're going out with both of them? That's not good in my opinion. I know personally I would not stay if I had to share my girlfriend with another guy. Many people say open relationships can work but not with love involved. I think you should tell Deandre that if he can't wait for you, then he doesn't deserve you.
how do you give someone a handjob
Just a warning to anyone who would want to answer this question...
I was a moderator but I got banned and lost my status because I answered a similar question about a blowjob. Do Not give advice on how to do sexual acts.
i was looking through your questions, and i kept noticing the same false statement.. just because your hymen is popped, doesn't mean you're not a virgin. a virgin is someone who's never had sex. having a tampon popping your cherry doesn't mean you are no longer a virign.. it means you pshed the tampon in too far lol. if you're fingered, you're still a virgin. you lose your virginity when a penis enters your vagina.. that is what it means to lose your virginity
just so you know:)
Thank you, those questions were from 2 years ago when I was not as knowledgeable as I am now.
latley, ive been really bored with life. i havent had any suiciadal thoughts of any kind. im just bored with life...i do the same stuff everyday. and then i got to sleep, wake up, and then do the same stuff. is their something wrong with me?
That doesn't really sound like clinical depression. You could try something new, like taking up a sport or a hobby. Getting more exercise makes your body make endorphins, which make you feel better and less bored. While you probably don't have depression, since it is fall/winter, there's a chance you could have SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder), which basically means you get depressed during the fall/winter because of the lack of sun. One common cure is light therapy, basically for like a half hour every day you look at really bright light and it makes you feel better.
i always have problems with myself...
my breasts are not perky but theyre big and im not sure if guys like that. and im scared if my boyfirned doesnt think im too pretty... im in the normal weight range and bmi stuff but i think im still fat... i dont know what to do. i think my eyes are beedy and boring since theyre brown and one eye is like kinda lower at the tip then the other and the one with the higher tip is placed lower by a baby bit. i notice but my friends dont. but they took a reeally good look and they noticed just like i noticed on some of them. but the tips of their eyes are the same. which is sad for me cause one eye is a bit bigger. im just rilly self concious about all of my looks. my calves are not high up like almost every girl i see's is. i hate like all parts of my body now. im not too funny anymore and my family is falling apart. i maek horrible grades and im always jealous... it's the worst thing. it overtakes my mind until i stop worrying. :(
please can someone help me with learning to accept myself but not only accept myself but love myself. im not always depressed, i can be very happy but .. i really would love to not complain about how i look and would like to have a nice dose of confidence. :) thanks
Basically, see a psychiatrist.
I'm not an expert, but what you're describing sounds like depression. A lot of people think depression is just feeling sad all the time but that's not it. To summarize, your body makes 3 chemicals that control your happiness (dopamine, seratonin, and norepinephrine) (sp?). When you have depression, your body either doesn't make enough of these or gets rid of them too quickly, so you have trouble feeling happy. You still feel happy occasionally but not very often. Seeing a psychiatrist would probably help you, they could prescribe you some medicine that would help your body make more of those chemicals (prozac, zoloft, etc).
Sorry about the long post.
I cant orgasm during sex with my boyfriend..
and i feel bad because i can other ways.
I'm comfortible with him but i cant.
what are ways that will help?
Had to delete answer to avoid being banned
im 16/f. i've been really lonely, and single, for a long time now, and since i'm too shy too go up to guys, i've decided to finally take action, while taking another approach. i recently created an account on espinthebottle.com, but i've been debating on wether or not i should post pictures. since my teachers are young and most of them go on dating sites, i'm scared that they, or anyone else that lives nearby who might know me, will by some chance come across me. i'd be humiliated. will anyone else who has an account, or any expertise at all on the site give me some advice [i have other questions about it]. thanXx in advance.
You don't have to worry about your teachers going on, the youngest you can be to be on the website is 17 - as it is a dating website for TEENS.
EDIT:
Thank you, I meant the OLDEST you can be on the website is 17, the youngest is 13. My bad.
So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we've been messing around lately. He wants to finger me but I'm a virgin and I don't know which hole his fingers would go in and if it would hurt. what does it feel like? how would he do it?
He can finger you in your vagina or your butt but most people prefer the vagina. It might hurt at the beginning but if he was only using one finger it probably wouldn't break your hymen.
hi im 15 years old
i like this guy who is 17 and have liked him since the beginning of the school year. he liked me too and we made out and hungout alot, but then one time i got drunk and hooked up with one of his bestfriends subconsciously. and we kept getting in fights but still liked each other. but the thing is a couple weeks ago i had a party and i walked in on my best friend and him making out (both drunk) she apologized later on and i forgave her but i told her to back off. she now is really good friends with him and they both like each ohter and i will not speak to her bc i think wat she did was really shady. wat should i do? bc im going to a party this weekend with them together and i know it will bother me and i will end up having a horrible night!
No offense, and this probably isn't the answer that you wanted to hear, but all the monogamy of your relationship kind of went out the window when YOU CHEATED ON HIM FIRST. It's good that he forgave you but you can't get mad at him for doing it because it's what you did, and you can't get mad at your friend for doing it because it's the same thing that his friend did.
My grandfather who lives in Portugal is pretty much a big deal there and well rich haha. And he likes to buy expensive gifts. Like last year for Christmas, he bought me and my sister a GameCube, and for my birthday he got me this really nice $500 digital camera. This year, I really want the iPod Touch (not iPhone), so I want him to buy me itt =]. BUT, if he bought it in Portugal, and sent it here, would it work the same here? Or would he have to buy it here?
Just have him buy it through the online apple store (store.apple.com), and have him ship it to your house.
Alright, I'm the one who asked about itunes and a cd with a dvd with it.
Well someone told me since i put the dvd in, and windows media player pops up it means i prob
ably don't have it as my default player.
well how do i set Itunes as my main default player?
and if i can do this, make it play the music videos on itunes instead of windows media player then can i put the music video on my ipod
ofcourse it'd hafe to be a ipod with video well can i?
THanks and sorry if this is long!
If you download a program called handbrake, you can copy the movies off of dvds into mp4 format, which you can put on a video ipod. It is completely free.
http://handbrake.m0k.org/
Has anybody ever watched the movie "Thirteen"?
It's the most amazing movie I have ever seen in my entire life. The only thing is, I've seen it a couple of times, but I don't understand the ending. After her mom finds out she cuts, they do and like sleep for what seems like days. Then, Tracy wakes up, and the next thing you know it's in like a dream - like state, and she's on the spinny thing that she was on in the beginning of the movie. Did she commit suicide? Did she end up going back to the person she was before she met her brunette friend? (I forget her name lol). This was the most amazing movie I've ever watched in my entire life, I just don't understand the ending. Can anyone help me?
P.S. The 'spinny thing' I'm referring to is one of those circular toys at most playgrounds that spin around and around. I don't know what it's called, sorry.
Her friend's name is Evie.
http://imdb.com/title/tt0328538/board/flat/86110204?p=1
That should help.
i have my desktop computer and my laptop. both have itunes but a majority of my songs (about 90%)are on my desktop itunes library but i just downloaded about 5 things onto my laptop through itunes but im worried that when i plug in my ipod its going to erase the songs from my desktop that are on there and only put the songs that are on my laptop on it. its happened once before but i think i clicked the wrong button or something but i dont want to take any chances because at the moment my desktop is on the fritz and not working so if it erased my music....well i would die basically. ok a little exaggerated but if somebody knows what im talking about and can help then please do!
The person below me is completely wrong.
As you plug in the iPod, hold the control and shift keys, this will prevent it from automatically updating. Hold them until the ipod shows up in iTunes, and a minute after.
I need birth control i had sex and i plan on to keep doing it with my boyfriend we've been together 2 years, but i have NO idea how to convince my mom to get it. i can't very well say heyy i had sex get me some birth control cuz she'd freak and probably make me break up with him. i know theres ways around it saying my periods are irregular nd stuff but that won't help ive already tried. anyy tips?!
To go with the person below me, that pill is called Seasonale (www.seasonale.com).
However, your parents do not need to know/approve you going on birth control. If you go into a free clinic (search google maps for free clinics near your area), they are required to honor your requests if you ask them not to talk to your parents. All you need to do is answer some questions and maybe get a physical and you can get a perscription for the pill.
i'm a nineteen male,and i have been experiencing thinning hair and i'm just a teen. Why do you think this is happening?
I eat healthily,work out and don't have much stress/i don't smoke,drink or do drugs. I also don't wear a cap often. The only thing that could be the problem is my snakebites which I pierced on my lips..would that be a cause for my hair fall?
Please help if you have any shampoo or products I could use. I heard using conditioner everyday is bad for your hair.is that true? and I also have VERY dry hair,please help...thanks a lot
It probably has nothing to do with your lip, but everything to do with your dry hair. Using conditioner everyday is not bad for your hair, it is actually recommended for someone with dry hair to use conditioner every time you use shampoo. You should not use shampoo every day, though, because it has a negative effect on the balance of the hair.
My dad has one, and he hasn't played it in ages.. and I've been loving a lot of bands (mostly like indie) (for ex. arctic monkeys and the fratellis i LOVE to death!) and it just got into me that I want to learn how to play the guitar! :P one of my friends takes guitar lessons but its like normal guitar.. or bass guitar. uh idk i'll ask her. and i know a couple of other people who play like drums and stuff. i dont really want to make a band or maybe in the future if i wanna stick with it. i could practice with that friend who takes guitar lessons cause she lives closest to me i guess. i know its quite a big thing.. but like with the arctic monkeys they taught themselves to play so I guess anyone can right? i know it wont take like a week or months to get it right but w/e what are the first things i should know and learn and stuff? i have no clue where to start. i dont know much about the guitar.. except i play guitar hero 2 sometimes haha thats it. and i've been in orchestra for 3 years and played the cello. hm i should have joined band (the drums are hawt but in 5th grade mostly guys did it so i was shy to do it) but idk the cello just sounded nice.. and mellow. and i digress. btw im 13 and a girl........... and yeah thats it and thanks like a bunch if you can help me!
It's great that you want to learn to play the guitar. I'm assuming you don't want to take lessons, you want to teach yourself. I taught myself guitar with the help of the internet, there are many good websites that can help you. First look up the "cage chords" and learn how to play them. (A, Am, C, D, Dm, E, Em, F, G). Then, after you master them, you can advance to barre chords. With barre chords, you can play any chord possible. Learning to pick, hammer, and slide will be harder, but they're important to solos. When learning how to do solos, start with pentatonic scales. Then you can do regular scales. Since you've been in orchestra for a few years, you probably know a little music theory. You can apply what you learned in orchestra to the guitar once you figure out the notes. Basically, don't try too much that you can't handle, or you'll be intimidated and quit. www.e-chords.com for popular songs.
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You can tune the guitar just to itself just make sure the top string isn't too high, or you'll break the strings. Each string should be the same sound as the 5th fret on the string above it. (Except play the 4th fret on the 4th string from the top for the 5th string). That was probably confusing, there are diagrams at www.howtotuneaguitar.org. Any more questions, you can ask directly to my column.
how do you give a guy a hand job or a blow job???
Somebody just asked this very question. Here's what I told them:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519955
I am from india.i am working as an software engineer in chennai.I loved a girl within relation.I proposed her.I didnt get any response from her initially and so i left her.suddenly she called after 3 years and proposed me.I accepted her and i was happy.We started talking each other again 3 months after that i left her bcos problem in family for love.finally i made mind not to cheat her and after 4 months we started talking each other.she was so loving and said was really missed me a lot this days.I found her more affectionate after that seperation.We again started talking each other very lovingly night and day.Suddenly one day his friend proposed him it seems his school friend.Problem arrise between us from there.she slowly started talking with him.she said every thing to me about him and all and she had sympathy on him and caring.We got fight from there.one day i got his number and played with him sending sms like girl.I dont know what happened but suddenly she stopped talking with me.whenever i call her she just hurt by words.I love her a lot.She misunderstood me and not at all accepting my words.She is hurting me a lot.I cant bare that.but still i love her a lot i need her.She is just like child but more audend thats it.what can i do.Help me out.I never sleep in night as i cannot forget her.No problem between our amily now but she itself is not interested in me.whatever i do it looks like mistake to her.what can i do please help me out.
I think the best idea would be just to wait for her. If you love her as much as I think you do, waiting will be hard, but possible. Eventually, either she'll come around, or you'll find someone else. I know you don't want anyone else, but girls can be irrational, and though I don't completely understand the situation why she's mad at you, she probably thinks you did something really bad, and it will be very hard to convince her. Only time can heal the damage that was done.
Ok well me and my girlfriend have been dating over 5 months now. She grew up with her grandparents and they have always been strict. Once she turned 18 and started college we figured things would be better and they were. Now all of a sudden they are trying to control and ruin her life. They are trying to prevent her from seeing me and from going on a trip with me to visit her mom in Florida. Thing is they don't even want her going to see her mother. All the have been doing is calling her and flipping on her about things. Now they even have her father after her who now thinks she is doing drugs which isn't true. My question to you is what else can we do to get them to just let us be? But wait there is a catch. They are paying for all her schooling and they keep money in her account and if she does the wrong thing they may not support her anymore. Please Help!!
My grandma can be the same way sometimes. Basically, since they're paying for school, unless you can find another way to pay for it, you'll have to deal with it for a few more years until she graduates. It sucks to be dependent on someone who you don't want to be, but it's a fact of life, and there's nothing you can do. Especially if they're like my grandma (fixed in her ways, always thinks she is right, never apologizes, etc). I don't think you should be talking to them directly, but your girlfriend can if she wants to.
Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.
ok so I have a nano and it works. the thing is my computer crashed a while ago and I lost ALL my files so now im afraid that if i try to download songs to my ipod Id lose all my songs..Is that possible? would my songs be deleted or not? what should I do?? HELP! plz
As you plug in the iPod, hold the control and shift keys, this will prevent it from automatically updating. Hold them until the ipod shows up in iTunes, and a minute after.