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I want to learn how to love myself and carry it out.
i always have problems with myself...
my breasts are not perky but theyre big and im not sure if guys like that. and im scared if my boyfirned doesnt think im too pretty... im in the normal weight range and bmi stuff but i think im still fat... i dont know what to do. i think my eyes are beedy and boring since theyre brown and one eye is like kinda lower at the tip then the other and the one with the higher tip is placed lower by a baby bit. i notice but my friends dont. but they took a reeally good look and they noticed just like i noticed on some of them. but the tips of their eyes are the same. which is sad for me cause one eye is a bit bigger. im just rilly self concious about all of my looks. my calves are not high up like almost every girl i see's is. i hate like all parts of my body now. im not too funny anymore and my family is falling apart. i maek horrible grades and im always jealous... it's the worst thing. it overtakes my mind until i stop worrying. :(
please can someone help me with learning to accept myself but not only accept myself but love myself. im not always depressed, i can be very happy but .. i really would love to not complain about how i look and would like to have a nice dose of confidence. :) thanks
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Basically, see a psychiatrist.
I'm not an expert, but what you're describing sounds like depression. A lot of people think depression is just feeling sad all the time but that's not it. To summarize, your body makes 3 chemicals that control your happiness (dopamine, seratonin, and norepinephrine) (sp?). When you have depression, your body either doesn't make enough of these or gets rid of them too quickly, so you have trouble feeling happy. You still feel happy occasionally but not very often. Seeing a psychiatrist would probably help you, they could prescribe you some medicine that would help your body make more of those chemicals (prozac, zoloft, etc).
Sorry about the long post.
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its not good to put yourself down like that... i know you probably dont want to hear this and it probably wont solve all of your problems but its the truth....everyone is made differently and you should be happy to be alive. the way you see yourself is a whole lot different than other people see you. you see all the little things that are wrong but most people probably dont notice it. its all in your head. people dont look at you and say..what can i see that is wrong with that girl?? thats not how it works......i mean do you do that to people? im sure the girls you tink are beautiful have all these little things that they think are wrong with them. looks arent everyting.
i hope i helped you a little bit!
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