hi im 15 years old
i like this guy who is 17 and have liked him since the beginning of the school year. he liked me too and we made out and hungout alot, but then one time i got drunk and hooked up with one of his bestfriends subconsciously. and we kept getting in fights but still liked each other. but the thing is a couple weeks ago i had a party and i walked in on my best friend and him making out (both drunk) she apologized later on and i forgave her but i told her to back off. she now is really good friends with him and they both like each ohter and i will not speak to her bc i think wat she did was really shady. wat should i do? bc im going to a party this weekend with them together and i know it will bother me and i will end up having a horrible night!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? triquetra answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 8:38 am: If you hooked up with one for his bestfriends and then he hooks up with your bestfreind, is sounds a bit like pay back to me. You were both drunk and they were both druck doesn't sound like a concidence at all. If it is just alittle bit of pay back, fine. But if it isn't, ask him who he wants to choose otherwise, you or your friend could have you heart broken because you both want the same guy, yet you can't both have him, he has to choose.
the_unexpected answered Wednesday December 5 2007, 12:57 am: No offense, and this probably isn't the answer that you wanted to hear, but all the monogamy of your relationship kind of went out the window when YOU CHEATED ON HIM FIRST. It's good that he forgave you but you can't get mad at him for doing it because it's what you did, and you can't get mad at your friend for doing it because it's the same thing that his friend did. [ the_unexpected's advice column | Ask the_unexpected A Question ]
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