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what are boys thinking?
13/f
i have two boyfriends.
14 and 15
lets say the 14 yr old name is robert
an dthe 15 year old is deandre
well me and robert been together for 9 months
i really love him alot
but then i met deandre..
i didnt like him but he liked me, and wus trying to spit game to me.
then all of a sudden 4 or 5 months later were boyfriend and girlfriend
robert will never cheat on me, he hasnt so far in our relationship,
but deanre...ireally dont kno about him, he says he wont but at the begging he had sex with another girl. if i dont have sex with deandre he will leave me. and i love this boy soo much, but im torn between him and robert. i like freaky boys, robert might have his times, but deandre is a 24/7 freak. but i really love them both. robert can wait for sex but deandre cant. deandre told me that when we have sex, we are moving our relatioinship forward. but hes 15 && im 13! im not a virgin but still i dont wanna have sex again till after 16. i asked him can he wait till im 16. he said no, we cant be together if he has to wait. but robert said he doesnt mind cause its not about sex, its about two people loving each other. oh yea robert looks better! but who should i choose?!?!
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Well, I don't know everything about them, but from what you said, I would say Robert. Here's why:
Sex is really fun. But it's not everything. You shouldn't have sex with someone because that's the only way to stay in a relationship with them. If you're not ready for sex again yet, wait. Robert seems like he's really understanding and while they probably both truly care about you, Robert seems like he cares more about you emotionally, instead of just physically. If you're in love with Robert, and he's not making you have sex with him, then the decision should be obvious.
I'm not sure I understand your relationship though. You're going out with both of them? That's not good in my opinion. I know personally I would not stay if I had to share my girlfriend with another guy. Many people say open relationships can work but not with love involved. I think you should tell Deandre that if he can't wait for you, then he doesn't deserve you.
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