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Hey I'm just an average girl who wants to give people advice to help them! You can rate me 1-5 (5 being the best) and tell me what you think of my advice column and give feedback but dont be rude or anything, so I hope my advice helps =)!
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Heyy! Right now I'm 16 and I'll get my license in a couple months (I was lazy and didnt get my permit until I was 16... bad idea!) anyways, I'm getting a silver kia spectra and I cant stand the silver color! especially with the grey interior.... yuck! Does anyone know how much it would cost to get my car professionally painted another color? Or does anyone have any other ideas of how to spice my car up. I'm already going to put my poms in the back window and something around the rearview mirror. I want to get seat covers too but I need good websites that I can buy cute ones on!
Any Ideas?
-Aria
Ok if you didnt get the car yet, just get it in a different color =) Hope I helped!
my boyfriends sister is tryin to kill herself bc her used to be boyfriend cheated on her and used her for sex and in the end she found otu he is engaged to one of her friends and she has been wit him 4 about 5 months and noe since it is over she has been puttin neddles in herself and takin pills i have tryed talkin to her and told her to stop and that she is hurtin all the people around her but she still wont stop she says it is makin her happy. someone please help me stop her.. i dont know what to do anymore. i ran out of advice to give her so i need ur guys help.
Find someone that has had something like that happen to them and have them talk to her this is very serious and over soemthing that happens to a lot of people, teach her the many worse things that could happen to people like dying or being seriously beat up by someone u cared about or being raped Hope I helped you and her!
Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!!
DEFINATELY break up with your boyfriend! I mean who wants a boyfriend that doesnt care about them AND cheated on them. Who cares how he kisses? Its whats inside that really matters and this other guy sounds great but heres a tip for you dont go out with him right away after u break up with ur bf (and do you know if her likes you or not?) bc even if that guy was a jerk no one likes to see that Hope I helped!
how do i get my advice column known and have people ask me questions?
Ok this is what you do, on the top where it says give advice, click on it and answer as many questions as you can, the people that asked the questions will know that you answered it for them and maybe commment you and stuff so then they will see ur column. ok? Hope I helped!
er... well. here goes.
theres a guy I like. He goes to my school. Is in my grade, two of my classes, ect. ect.
I talk to him on AIM, we kinda talk at school, and best of all, he doesn't think I'm fat. (long story. Let's just say I wasn't eating anything and my friends are odd)
But, he knows I like him, and doesn't like me back. He's told me multiple times. (again, my friends are odd) But lately, he's been acting like I'm okay. Usually he acts like he hates me. He even IMed me first on AIM (I know its odd, but hey, I guess I blend in with my friends) which is like, a first. Ever. We've been able to talk more, and we're getting along pretty well.
The bad side is, well, I've liked him for so long, now that he's finally maybe liking me, I don't feel exactly the same. I'm in this odd stage where, I do and don't like him. I mean, he's hurt me so much, but I feel like I love him. I can't control my feelings.
So what I want to know is:
Do you think he likes me?
What should I do if he asks me out?
and
Should I take action?(ME asking him out)
I have NO idea what to do.
(13/f)
I dont really think he likes you and i dont think you like him back so if he does ask you out say no bc you are losing interest in him and can have a better time with another guy, so don't ask him out either, I think you should just forget this whole thing and pretend it never happend Hope I helped!
So theres this guy... he lives down the street from me. We're basically good for each other, I hear that a lot. He's a football player, I'm on the dance team, we always do the same things accidently, he's cute, I'm cute lol jk. Anyways he's come over a few nights, snuck out on a couple of them and we've kissed and cuddled and I loved it. We've never gone farther than that because I'm scared of getting attatched and hurt. He knows I like him, but I'm not sure he's feels the same. I don't want to be used.. It has happened too much to me (my boobs are big... naturally! and guys like them.. but i hate em). Once I start trusting him, it seems like he kind of pulls away. Ive talked to him about it but he never really says exactly he likes me or he doesnt. I think which him being popular he doesnt want to be a really sweet guy or anything around his friends.. I understand that though. It's fine. But it seems like he's only "with me" when it's good for him. When he's at a party with me or when he's at his house and calls me. But if I want to hang out.. its a bit different. He's not as into me as I'm into him. But I dont want to be into him. I dont want to get hurt :( I'm a hopeless romantic tho. If he did something sweet to show that he really liked me, i'd be his, no questions asked. I'm confused! please help
Ok here is what i say stay where you are with him in your relationship and dont move foward, wait for him for a while i mean he does like u, he snuck out for you and kissed you and cuddled with you! Like him but dont fall into love with him bc ur not sure if he likes you ok? Hope I helped!
I want to get this girls attention, but i dont want it to seem like i am really trying to flirt, whats the best way for her to notice me and see me for a good thing, i really like this girl and i want to know how i should get her attention. So how do i get her attention in a good way?
Just be urself and its ok to flirt girls love to flirt! Perk up your talents around her and have fun, dont be shy and say hi to her! Hope I helped!
Hey adviceanators whats up. Well School is starting up agian and I really wont to be known this year last year I was but I want to be the girl thats guys turn twice to look at. I am tan blonde hair green eyes and kind of tall like 5'5 amd 14 what kind of make up and outfits would yall think of think you so much. lutz of luv
A lot of girls want to do the same thing that you do so you can't try too hard. You have to dress flirty and trendy, dont wear too much make up make it look like your wearing none at all thatt is the key, show your natural beauty and wear things like mini skirts that are colorful and fun because that will make a guy look twice! Hope I helped!
Well my boyfriend that I am in very much love with has left for a year and half. Though he's coming home I've been really sad and crying ever nite and not getting alot of sleep, because I miss him so much. Does anyone have any advice on how to pass the time or ease the pain of him not being here right now? I rate good!
ok if he is very far away send him as many letters as you can to show him that you love him, call him all of the time and email or IM him if he can, he will be back one day and although a year and a half seems like a lifetime it will be over a lot sooner if you have some fun, stop stressing over him not being here and have some fun! Hang out with friends, go to the movies he'll be back and the more you try to stay in touch the more closer he will seem
Hope I helped!
* okay soo.. i want a new sn. heres some info about me. im a girly girl. im a brunette. i like makeup (eyeliner, lipgloss, mascara, etc). im short,lol. i like pink. i love the movie THE NOTEBOOK. and also i love the store aeropostale!!! so include any of those in a sn if ya can or want. thanks so much =)! please help! *
Here are some sns:
Glossy x Brunette
The xXx NoteBook
Aero x chica
Pink shortay
Hottinpink xX
Lipgloss inc
prettyinpink
Girly chic
Piink x Lady
pink note books
J adore (makeup, pink, notebook, aero)
Piink Sunsets
Obsessed with aero
I x33 (makeup, pink, notebook, aero)
Well thats all i could think of, you could add numbers or x's or stuff if they r already taken! Hope I helped!
what do i tell to adoctor who wants to look down there? even females make me feel self consious. I will not let them touch me or look me down there or take my shirt off. Please help me i want to tell them not to but how. Is there any other way that they can see if im healthy! Im scared out of my mind.
Im sooooooooo scared that i feel dizzy. I cant go through this. I will rate really high to any 1!!
thanks 8 (
Doctors arent pervs like what it says up top ok? They are just there to help you and your not alone they have to do that to anyone and there isnt another way to see if your healthy in those areas, its really nothing to be worried about, you can go through with it, and see if your mom or dad or whoever can come in the room if your that nervous bc then they really can't do anything ok? Hope I helped!
OK my best friend ashley is comming to visit me from CO on sunday and i dont want her to be bored or anything while she is here! Does anyone have any ideas of what we can do?? Thx a bunch!
Ok here is a list of ideas :-D
1)The movies are always great
2)Walk around your neighborhood
3)Rent a movie
4)Go to the park
5)Go to a fair if there are any
6)Amusment/water parks!
7)truth or dare?
8)make up a dance
Well thats all i can think of! Hope I helped!
I am 115 lbs and 5'5'' i would like to loose 10 lbs as soon as possible without anorexia or bulimia. i hardly have anytime to go to the gym. please give me advice on how to accomplish my goal.
115 pounds at 5'5" is awesome! You really dont want to loose 10 pounds because then people will think that you aren't eating or something (even if you are) and you dont want to look like a stick you want to look healthy truse me 115 pounds is perfect and if you think ur fat than ur crazy! I know thats not what you want to hear but thats my opinion, AND its really hard to loose 10 lbs in a really quick period of time b ecause i did trace for like 3 months in school and i only lost 5! I hope I helped!
I'm kind of a shy type, so I don't really sing in front of people, but when I do I make it sound, like not my best. But when I sing by myself, I think that I may be talented. I also like to dance, and I like to draw and I'm good at that too, and same with writing. At my school there is Drama Club and I froze up and forgot all my lines and absolutely refused to sing. I dont know what to do. I want to be found out, but part of me doesn't. I'm a very split person.
I'm like that too I hate to do anything in front of people even my own class, here's the thing...you have to start out small like singing in front of your friends or your neighbors, after a while you will start to get used to the feeling of singing or acting in front of people, don't pay any attention to them while you are on stage, you have to overcome your stage fright! You can do it though! Hope I helped!
my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
HELP
You may not think so but this is really really serious, You HAVE TO HAVE TO tell someone pronto! Raping people is against the law! Tell your parents or an adult or anyone! If you tell the police they can arrest him and he can't do anything about it even after he threatened you and if they catch him how is he going to do it again. That guy belongs in jail you are deffinately not aloud to rape someone, your boyfriend might be mad if he finds out and you didnt tell him, but I would tell him after his friend is out of the way. You really need to do something here! I hope I helped!
i have this rly good friend. but now....shes different?? she always blackmails me. 'if you dont tell me this i'll tell everyone ....' and now shes like best friends with my worst enemy!! she always talks about my enemy behind her back even though shes friends with her. and i have a feeling she talks behind my back too. i dont really wanna loose a friend, but if i talk to her about it she woould just make up excuses or say something rude. 'oh? so what i blackmail u? at least im not ___ like u' shes also a spoiled brat! she wanted an ipod , a laptop, a flat screen tv, and she got it all. and she tells me every single day 'did you know i own 6 other houses?'
what should i do?
Wow you have no idea how many stories i've heard about these things happening, Well I know you dont want to loose a friend but think about it, what kind of friend is she!? I mean she really has some attitude problems to work out, Maybe one of the reasons she acts like this is because she is spoiled and she's used to always getting what she wants and used to having the world revolve around her, If I were you I'd just stop being her friend and stop talking to her and one day she will regret not being friends with you and leaving you for some other weirdo that you hate, ok I hope i helped!
I absolutely hate my hair. I have thick light brown hair with blonde highlights. When i say thick.. i mean really thick. I have anywhere from 5-10 minutes in the morning to do my hair. Besides the everyday ponytail... what can i do to my hair? I am taking coloring, cutting, and styling ideas.
Wow join the club! I have the same problem!
Here are some ideas for curly hair:
1)Stick some gel in it and scrunch it!
2)Half up half down is always cute
3)Messy bun =)
4)Staighten it! It gives you a whole new look!
Straight hair:
1)Add a slight curl to it bounce it up a bit!
2)Scrunch it
3)leave it down!
Coloring & cuts:
1)Brown with blond highlights already sound pretty but if your going for something different some times a dark natural red looks good (it really depends on what color brown hair you have)
2)Angle or layer your hair make it nice and different
Well thats all I could think of hope i helped!
would you continue to hook up with someone when they just want to have fun and not settle down but your getting real feelings for them?
do you think you would try to continue to have fun (because the guy and i had a lot of fun kissing) and try to keep the mindset of no emotions..just friends? what would you do?
I wouldnt hook up with them anymore because even if i had feelings for them they dont like me back and they are probably a player and who wants someone that doesnt care about them? Hope I helped!
my brother is 17 and he just came out. i mean he told us he was gay. im shocked and i dont know what to do because me and him are close but i feel okward now. im having a hard time accepting this. what do i do?
Ok your right that must be pretty weird for you. Here's what I say. If he was gay before he told all of you and you didnt know you loved him and didnt feel weird right, well now that he told you what difference does it make I mean he is the same guy he was before he told you. Look at it that way, hope i helped!
Right very soon i am going to meet my girlfriend for the first time. And I don't know what to wear!! Disaster!! Should i go smart and casuall.. Or should i go formal dressed (trosuers and dress shoes) I dont know any ideas??
All help appreciated
anthony
I think that you should just be yourself and dress like you usually do. Only if it a casual place, If you are meeting her at some fancy retaurant than wear a nice outfit and be formal, but if your not be yourself because its better to be dressed normal than look like a fool in ur best cloths while she is there in jeans and a tee-shirt, just make sure that they are nice casual cloths nothing with stains or anything ok? Hope I helped!