...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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how can you tell when a guy likes you? (link)
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They usually hit you like playing around and they make fun of you. For instance this guy keeps calling me crazy for no reason. Anyways they talk to you more than other girls and they like flirting with you.
-shay :-)
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ok now wht makes popular people so popular i mean what is it about them? i mean theres like a bunch of popular kids at my school and i dont see how they r so great i mean all they do is talk behind eachothjers backi mean im not in the popular group but in like the semi-popular i guess is what its called and we never do that top eachother i mean i cant stand these popular kids and i wann know how they become so popular and why? (link)
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People arent popular because they talk behind eachothers back. They just know many people because they're really outgoing and friendly.
-shay :-)
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okay. one of my best guy firends...yeah...i think im falling for him. ive been thinking about this for the past 3 months. we're really close and i really love spending time with him. my school's semi formal is coming up and id really REALLY like to ask him.
but i have some issues.
a) i dont want to ruin a quality friendship by throwing "love" into the mix
b) I dont know how to "ask" guys out. im just not really "into" the whole guy thing...WHTA THE HELL DO I DO????
c) how do i even know if he likes me? what are some hints that he would drop? because my friends are pretty sure that he feels the same way about me as i do about him. but im just not sure!!
HELP! (link)
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Ask him as a friend. Wile talking casually bring up the subject and ask him if he'd like to go as friends you dont want to go alone.
-shay :-)
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i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is (link)
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No its not wrong. Many people feal that way as well as I do too.
-shay :-)
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if my neighbor came over andh e was on my trampoline and i was in the spa and he kept like talking and showing off and looking at me does that mean he likes me??? shouldi tell him i like him or ask him how he feels about girls or what??? (link)
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Sounds to me like he likes you. Ask him who he likes and if he wont tell you and hes smiling I think he likes you.
-shay :-)
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WOW... I am only 16 and my ex (for now) saying we are getting bak together very soon.. back to point today we had unprotected sex and like he went all the way what the possibilties of me getting pregnant? hes 19 and hes says hes in love with me and he will never leave me (like a permant basis) and like there is this girl thathe asked out and like she sed no but hes saying hell never ask her out again.. what should i do (link)
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You probably shouldnt be having sex with him espesially unprotected. There may be a chance that you could be pregnat. He doesnt seem like the safe type to be around so stay cautioned.
-shay :-)
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Ok. So, I'm sort of interested in an ex of mine. It's been a long time since we dated, and he has a girlfriend now. But, we're starting to talk again. I mean, I don't plan on trying to break him and his girlfriend up or anything. But, I find myself liking him again. And, I want to keep talking to him, and become good friends. And maybe something more will come out of it. Is this a bad idea? Thanks. (link)
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That is not a bad idea at all. I think that he may be someone that you are going to need to talk to about things to. I think what you're finding in him is a good friend.
-shay :-)
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Ok, I'm only 16, and maybe I'm just being stupid. And maybe some of you will think I'm just bitter because I'm single. But, it's not that I'm bitter or jealous. I just don't understand why people my age so immature about relationships? I mean, they post everywhere on the internet about how "hot" their boyfriend/girlfriend's are. And it's like, if they're going to post something about them, then why not post about the things that REALLY matter? Like, for instance, how: funny, brilliant, and/or talented they are. I just don't get it. I mean, one day, they're going to be old and wrinkly, and def. not hot. But, they will be more funny, brilliant, and/or talented. And, I'm not saying a physical attraction isn't needed, because it is. But, why is it that most people are so pathetically consumed with the things that are the least important in relationships? Ahhhh. Some days, I wish I weren't 16. (link)
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so? Whats the problem? If people are proud of their relatonship eith someone and feel that they need to talk about them on the internet that is totally their buisness. Im sure they do have good qualitys too, but some just think that people will be impressed by how hot they are.
-shay :-)
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A good girlfriend of mine from college killed herself on Saturday after a fight she had with her fiance. She was never the kind of girl I would have ever guess to do this sort of thing. So when she called me that night I wasn't in the mood to go party (my boyfriend and I had had a huge fight)I ignored her call and turned off my phone. She called me four times, that night. Monday morning she was found dead. The police called me Monday afternoon, it is thier policy to investigate each death to be sure it is a suicide. They said that my number was the last one on her phone as a listed call.
I am devistated. I cannot face anyone. I resent my boyfriend because of his picking a stupid fight. I feel as though I really screwed up. I was not their for her and she reached out to me.
But my question is why me? Her and I were good friends in college but we had lost touch since she had been engaged we talked maybe every couple of weeks and only briefly. We're always saying that we needed to make plans but it never happened. She was always close to her mom and I am sure she had better friends than me, I know her best firend lived far away. But Mellisa was the kind of girl who always had tons of friends. Why out of all the people she could have called would she call me? I am always going to carry around this responsible feeling and it really is bringing me down. I just feel so powerless.
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:-( Im very soory about your friends death. Maybe she thought that you may have been the most dependable and would listen to what she would say. Look into yourself and the good qualitys that not most people have. Maybe thats what she needed.
-shay :-)
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how can i tell a boy i like him (he is my neighbor)with out anyone finding out like his mom cuz she doesnt liek him having any girlfriends or stuff like that and she doesnt want me ot tel him that i like him cuz she says that we are"good friends right now" (link)
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I nobody couold know there really is no point in telling him. Maybe when his mom allows him to have girlfriends.
-shay :-)
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I am caught in a love triangle I like 2 guys that go to my school they are both my friends but I don't know what to do Who should I choose. THe person my age or the 8th grader?Plese help (link)
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You know you really dont have to know right know at this insrant. Maybe find out who you like best?
-shay :-)
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I want to go out with a guy!I love him but he only wants to be friends with me what should I do! I think he likes my friend and I am really confused? (link)
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You cant push to make a relationship. Thats not the way it works. Im sure you'll find someone just for you.
-shay :-)
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my boi likes me alot and i like him alot but i like someone eles also and he knows what should i do? (link)
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Find out which one you like more.
-shay :-)
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my friend is obsessed with a guy 2 years older than her. i know he's not there for her. What should i tell her? (link)
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Thats really not bad. What are you stressing about? My sisters four years older than her and nothing was wrong.
-shay :-)
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there's this guy at school who's girlfriend just broke up with him. my friend said i should ask him out, but he said he might just rest awhile. (link)
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You should wait a wile. Im sure he doesnt want to be tackled with another relationship after another. Maybe you should even just wait till he askes YOU out.
-shay :-)
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if your boyfreind was wearing a condum could you still get pregnat i mean does the sperm go through the condum? (link)
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Well recentley I was watching a commercial regarding condoms. It said that they go through nine test before they are sold so I would say that there is a pretty low chance of breack threw. Dont worry be happy!
-shay :-)
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Well I think the subject pretty much gives away what I'm going to ask you...what should we do?
We went to see a film (The Last Samurai btw) on Sunday.
I'm 16, he's 18. Clubbing (my friends suggestion) is not really an option).
Any ideas? (link)
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Dont go to movies to much because theres not to much socializing going on there. Maybe go to mini golfing or go to a resturant. Go to a football game etc.
-shay :-)
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I can't sing loudly! Since 6th grade I've tried out for 5 musicals and I haven't made any of them because I can't project my voice. I've tried everything I know of, trying to sing from your diaphram, not your stomach..and NOTHING WORKS! I know I have a good voice, my chorus teacher even told me she couldn't give me a solo because I wasn't loud enough, but she really wanted to. Any tips on singing loudly would be greatly appreciated. (And good songs to practice with, I'm a second Soprano) (link)
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I have a really loud voice, but I cant be quiet! Well I'd say to drink some water and clear your throat. Before you sing do tones with your voice like go up, down, up, down. Then turn the music up loudley and try to reach the level of singing louder than that. Or you could buy "love to sing". Dont worry be happy!
-shay :-)
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Okay, I'm only in the 8th grade but lately I've be thinking about my future and college. Well I've thought about it really hard and decide that I want to go to Yale University. The only problem is I don't know what requirments it takes to get excapted. Like how well do I have to do in grade school? What should my scores be? Any one who can give me any info would be great!
*Future* (link)
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Mostley a bit over average. Check the internet for some idea of what they're looking for.
-shay :-)
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ok i liek this boy buti thin i justl iek him becuase of his looks i mean he is funny and makes me laugh but im always catching myself just wanting him for his looks i really like him and i want ot marrie him but do u think i could only liek him for his looks? (link)
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Heres a good idea for that. Think of a not so attractive guy, but with the cute guys personality. Would you still like him then? Think about it. In the meen time, dont worry, be happy!
-shay :-)
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