Hey y'all. I started this whole advice thing cuz i absolutely luv people and giving advice. I'll try to help the best I can with whatever problem you have. I've been through a little of everything so ask away and don't be shy!
E-mail: e.sherhart@comcast.net Gender: Female Location: TEXAS!!! Occupation: Violinist Age: 16 AIM: rikatree2375 Member Since: July 29, 2005 Answers: 255 Last Update: September 12, 2006 Visitors: 16335
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well...i am not gonna put down all the details....but...my best friend sarah and me were like in a fight wit our otha friend and so then sarahs sisters got involed (big mistake) and so then it became this big "thing" and so it went on for a month..and then they tried to put me in the middle!! and me and the otha friend have been friends like foreva!!! me and sarah have only been friends for just one year.....so then i go well i don't kno kaliegh (sarahs sister) i don't want to choose!! so now her daily duty is to make me feel miserable!!!! i don't get it!!
SO neways...now i think sarah is lyin to me to be all cool infront of her sisters and i am loosing everyone!!! anyways!!!! i feel now i should be like "sarah..maybii we should...just stop being friends...i feel like soon your sisters are gonna make u hate me/..." thats just how i feel. WHAT DO I DO?
signed,
hated for a lil repsone (link)
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If you feel like breaking off the friendship then maybe you should. If i were you, i would let her cool off for a couple days and try calling her. Be nice and really try to talk about things. If she still hates you, then the friendship is probably over for good and you really don't have to say much of anything else. Just give her some time and be patient with her!!! Hope i helped!!!
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theres this guy. and i think i like him but im not sure.. i mean i think about him all the time and i cant wait to see him. do i like him? i dont think i do.. but i dont know.. do you think i like him? (link)
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I think you like him but are just afraid to admit it to yourself. You wouldn't be asking this question on here if you seriously didn't think you liked him anywaz. But for now if you seriously have some doubts, dont try to convince yourself one way or the other. It doesn't hurt to take some time to see how things work out with each other. My opinion, i think you like him.
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hey, i was wondring about something.
well i hav ea problem. ok first things. iwe play tennis and i always have tournaments and stuff you knnwo? well anyways i'm dedicated and like i always need to practice and workout and condition and all but i always waste too much time. on the computer like on silly websites that waste my time you know? (this happens to be one of them. =P );) anyawys how do i stop? cause i really need to get out there and practice a lot during the days1 thanks
xoxo (link)
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It's great you're actually acknowledging the fact you're wasting some of your time. That's like step one. Step two, make it happen!!! Since you know you have that problem, tell yourself to get out there and practice!!! Put a note on your computer saying ,"practice before comp." or something like that. Just use discipline with yourself and you'll be able to get it done. And tell yourself to practice during the day and get on at night. That's a great method at least for me when i have stuff i need to do. If you get it done during the day you'll feel better so you can relax infront of your luvely computer all night long!!! Hope i helped!!!
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okay, well heres how it goes..i really like this guy and hes super gorgous and he always makes me laugh. I mean he seems so perfect and i can be myself around him.I feel safe when i'm with him. Well the problem is i like him and i'm pretty sure he likes me but i guess he shy to ask me out. I mean hes not shy when he's flirting with me. well my question is how do i get our relationship to move further .. !!PLEAZE HELP ME!!
Thnks XOXO oh and i will rate for good advice**
oh and i want him to ask me out im not really the type of girl that will ask the guy out. (link)
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Sounds like a great guy. The hard part is getting him to ask YOU out. Try flirting like crazy and get him to open up with you!!! And it doesn't hurt to wait a little for a relationship. Usually, waiting makes it better. By then you've developed love,trust,and honesty with each other that usually guarantees a successful relationship. Since you're a classy gurl, and you want him to make the first move, you have to be patient. I know, sounds hard!!! But really get him to open up and be patient. Sometimes if you rush things, the guy might get blown off. So take things as they come and be patient. I'm sure he'll ask you out soon!!! Hope i helped!!!
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Ok, I'm trying to lose weight but I get bored often and I've found that I eat when I get bored, even if I'm not hungry at all. What are some things to do when I get bored?? I mean, I live in a place where you have to drive 15 minutes to the nearest mall or movie place so shopping isnt an option. And I'm only 13 so I can't drive...What are some fun, random things to do around the house? (link)
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Try talking to people on the phone or aim. You could read a book...stuff like that. Try to stay away from the kitchen and wherever food is so you aren't tempted!!! Hang out with friends who live close by. There's a lot of stuff to do instead of eating all day. Hope i helped!!!
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hey.. Im samantha.. and well
I went to a new school this year.. because the school i was in last year and the years before closed down. And it was a small school, one class for each grade. And so i came up into this huge jr. high. and my old friends.. well we arnt friends anymore...and i met these new people and we are like best best best friends.. and we alllwayyys hung out. And well i met this new set of people. who are cheerleaders like me. and we are alike.. and well i dont know who to hang out with because they are both the best!... and every time i hang out with them .. the other people get mad at me .. or if i hang out with them.. then those people get mad at me. And my friend hayley .. who i met this year ( not the cheerleader) well she hangs out with my friend sara more then me. And i think they like hate me now because im hanging with the cheerleaders.. but they are awsome..
What can i do.. How do i hang out with both settsss offf people??
help.. i rate high!!!!
Sam! (link)
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Just manage your time. Balance it between the two groups. I know it sounds hard like you have to juggle your friendship all the time. But if it's worth it to you, then just be careful. You might have to chose some day so just be prepared. But for now, balance your energies and attention between them both and it should be fine!!!
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Ok, so i went camping with my boyfriend this weekend and we had an amazing time. When we got back, i had made plans with my friends to hang out with them on monday night. Well he got home from a really bad day of work and called me and i only had like 3 minutes to talk to him so i asked him how his day was and shared mine, then i told him i had to go. He acted kind of mad and i was just like whatever, we've hung out every day this summer and all weekend. So i went and hung out with my friends and when i got home he was really mad at me and told me that i blew him off. He said that he really needed me when he got home from work and that i shoudl ahve made time to talk to him because he was having a miserable day. The thing was i didn't realize he needed me so bad. We are all made up now and stuff cause we talked about it and got over it. Am i at fault here?
16/f with 19/m b/f of 9 1/2 months (link)
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If you didn't realize then i dont think you're in the wrong. People's feelings do get hurt tho if you have to rush off without letting them talk. It didn't sound like you did it on purpose so relax. Y'all made up so that's all that matters. Just use it for next time when you can try to make more time for him. You don't want him rushing off when you need to talk.lol So i don't think you're at fault. Just be careful next time!!
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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird? (link)
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Yeah, it's definitely normal. I know a ton of people who say the same thing and claim not to be bi. If the feelings get stronger and last for like a few more years then i'd think about it a little more. But for now, don't be worried!!! It's natural!!!
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okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
laycee (link)
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Sounds like this guy can't make his mind at all and he likes to mess with you. If i were you, i would have nothing to do with him. You deserve better instead of this guy who's willing to say all that crap over and over again. Then he'll apologize?? Usually when people mess up and apologize, they try to get BETTER. But this guy keeps doing the same crap to you. I know this is hard, but try to get over this guy and go out with anybody else!!! He doesn't deserve you and you could get soo much better. Hope i helped!!!
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well this might be long but i need some help..this girl and me hated each other because of a boy,(wont get into it itd be to long haha) but found out he was playing both of us and we became really good friends because we started talking to each other and found out we were a lot alike. over the summer id find myself being ditched a lot. like the last day of school, we were going to hang out but i found out she was hanging out with one of her best friends that hates me for no reason and i have no problem with her, but i forgave her.. and then over and over we would make plans and then she would ditch me again for this girl! it really pissed me off and i confronted her about it and she would make up these excuses that ohh she just came over because they live by each other.
she got a new boyfriend and said she didnt like the guy any more.. and the guy and i ended up hanging out at the same place and ended up doing stuff, a couple days after i found out she still liked him and was only going out with the guy to make him jealous.. so i felt bad and all but i told her and she was glad i told her and didnt act all that mad because i mean she was the one who said she didnt like him any more.. but we were going to hang out the next day and she didnt pick up her phone, and was super pissed but i understood why she would have been mad.. ANYWAYS i wrote her a sorry note and everything we were good and then she does it AGAIN she was just like oh i have a friend over sorry even though we planned the time and everyhting that i would have came over. it was bitch so i didnt talk to her after a while she apologized and said she just wanted to get back at me but she shouldnt have said she was fine when she really wasnt. she promised shed make it up to me somehow and she did because we hung out a lot after that. and everything was fine. her and her friend got in a big fight.. so wed hang out a lot more becuase her other friend wasnt there. then, i would call her because we were going to hang out but she ended up having to take care of her brothers so i was stuck again for the night... and that day i was the only one to call her and she wouldnt call me back and tell me what was going on... so for about a week i didnt talk to her, but then i called her and left a message wanting to talk to her and see wat her deal is.. and she didnt return my call at all... so i called her a couple days later and she picked up and i was straight up asking why she didnt return my calls and wouldnt call me and she was like i didnt get the message or any of your calls and i didnt call you because i thought you were mad at me.. so we talked and she had to go and told me to call her that night so i did and she said her mom was up and shed call me back but she never did and didnt today either! its like after all that youd think she would at least call..i dont know if i should believe her or not and still be her friend, when were together we have so much fun and stuff but its just im always getting ditched and not treated right.. its like shes taking advantage of me. sorry again it was so long but thanks to all if you read it :-(
p.s her and her friend are now cool again, so im thinking i was just used sortof cuz her other friend wasnt there
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Doesn't sound like much of a friend. If you feel like you're being ditched continuously then u probably are!!! It sounds like you have a lot of fun when you're with her, but is it worth it to feel like you're always in the way and being ditched??? I don't think it would be. Just let her cool off ya know??? Don't call for maybe a week then try calling when you know she'll be home. Be nice and just act like nothing happened and see how it goes. If her friendship is worth it to you, then be patient and it'll work itself out.
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ohhk so i ahve known this gurl for like my whole life we are best friends and like we seem so distint from each other like i dont kno what is going on....im so confused...were going to different schools next year. all my friends are going to a different school and im loseing two of my best friends im still very close to my other friends cuz we do the same sports but the one i want to stay friends with doe snothing with me sports wise and i dont kno what to say to her .......please give some advise to keep us together and not fade away like all the others... (link)
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There are tons of ways of keeping close. Talk on aim/phone/thro email. Or hang out at the mall or movies. If you're willing to keep the friendship going then that's what it takes. Just hang out once in a while and don't worry. I'm sure it'll work out!!!
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ok so here is the deal. so my friend pala well she has been ignorin me lateley. see since it is summer and all for us. she and i agreed that we would write to eachother through e-mail. but i have written her more then she has written me she has sent me fwds and that is it i mean i will write tellin how my summer is goin how i can't wait to see her cause she is a really close friend to me. or so i think. see we have this joke marco polo if we loose eachother we either yell polo when i want to find her or marco when she wants to fine me. silly i know but still it was our thing. now since i have written to her she just well she hasn't written i mean i understand she might be havin tuns of fun but u would think that after like 15 hundred e-mails sent i would at least get somthin sayin that she is havin a blast i mean somthing as little as that shows me that she still knows i exist on this planet. i dunno it may jus tbe me. but i have sent her e-mails askin her to respond when she can then i said please write back and i still havn^t gotten an answer. and i dunno do u think that she has forgotten our friendship. i mean things like this don^t just happen like it does or do they??. i dunno i am just worried that i may have lost one of the very few friends i have. i pray about her almost everynight and i pray for what friends i have also askin god to protect them and what not. and i know he is but still i dunno what to do.
anything would help
thnx
monn (link)
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First of all, i congratulate your great spirit when you pray for your friends!!! That's awesome and it does work so rest in Him. Try seeing your friend in person so she can't reject you. Tell her how she's making you feel and that you really want this friendship to work. If she's anything of a good friend, then i'm sure she'll atleast listen and try to understand. Sometimes people get caught up in what they're doing in the summer and they kinda forget about the whole email thing. So don't go off and accuse her which i'm sure you arent!!! lol If things still dont work out after everything, just try to meet some new people because its always great to make new friends. Just be patient and all with time!!!
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my parents are WAYYYYYYY over protective.. i mean if i go out the house in front of my door they come after me.. i tryed talking to them and explaining to them that i am not a baby anymore and i need to learn to make my own mistakes and etc.. but all the said was were not over protective we just care a lot about you.. i cant have a boyfriend until i am 16 and when i get one at that age my dad and my uncle have to be wit me the whole date with guns and if he trys makin a move on me he will basically be died.. my dad said he would hire a body gaurd but he doesnt want to spend so much money on one.. for prom the plain on gettin me a lemo but i CANT have a prom date and my parents will be chaperoniing the dance.. i swear i think i dont have a life.. when ever i get a boyfriend i NEVER tell them.. i only tell them who ever it is is only a friend but i cant go one like this for ever can someone plz help me out!!! i am dieing to get some freedom.. o yea i am a 14/f.. (link)
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Try just really talking to them. They'll atleast have to listen. Tell them that they're getting over protective and that it's really damaging your relationship with friends. They probably don't realize what they're doing. You know they care for you but you have to understand where they're coming from. See their point of view. There might be a reason they're acting that way. Try asking them and they'll be impressed that you're willing to see both sides of an argument. Just be patient with them because they might just be scared you're growing up. Hope i helped!!!
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ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...
ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.
please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
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If you're working to get what u want then gurl you aint spoiled!!! He's probably jealous cuz you're getting things and he's too lazy to do the same. So don't worry about him and keep up the good work!!!
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i have like horrible sleeping problems...like sometimes i dont even fall asleep till almost 3 in the morning. does anyone have any like tips or something to help me fall asleep?
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Try listening to relaxing music. That usually really helps me!!!
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Ok well ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years. We really love each other and we live with each other. Hes been telling me latley that i dont act like i care about him. I really do and i tried telling him this and he says i dont act it and i dont show him that i care and love him..What do i do to show him that i really do wanna be in a relationship an i do love and care about him..ive tried talkin to him..an it doesnt seem to work..is there certain stuff that needs to be said? what i dont wanna loose him an i wanna be with him..but i need to know he knows i love him
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Keep trying to tell him. He might just be saying that so you'll have sex with him so just take that as a warning. If he doesn't believe you then that's his problem. All you can do is keep telling him and he should come around eventually. Just be patient and it'll work out!!!
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Hey, NeWaYs my friend told me about your SITE thingy!!! and i was wOnDeRiNg abOut colleGGGGGEEE! I'll b going sooon and i don't know if i shuld go to a uNiVersiTy or a ConseRVAtory! i wuz thinkin about going 2 a Uni for undergrad and conServatoRy for grad. yeah thanx a bunCH! (link)
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It depends on who you really want to study with and if you're really sure of what you're going into. If you want more of a typical college experience, try a university. There'll be tons of different people and a lot of stuff to do on campus. A conservatory is if you're definitely headed in the fine arts direction. You'll be around a lot of people who have the same goals and direction and i'm pretty sure it'll help you concentrate more. You could go with your original plan though because that's great too. I'm going to conservatory like Juilliard because i want the special attention that you get there for just being in fine arts. But go where the good teachers are and you can't go wrong!!!!
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my friend likes me a lot.. and he told me he did and he told my friends he did.. and sometimes all he does is tell me how much he cares about me.. but then out of nowhere he stops calling me and ignores me and then a few days later hell call me again.. why does he do this? (link)
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Maybe you're just overreacting. Give him his space for a couple of days and if you're stil uncomfortable with it, try talking to him about it. If he really does like you, then i'm sure he's not purposefully ignoring you. So just be patient, try talking to him and take it slow!!!
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AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)
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I've been there!!! I started public school last year and was totally creeped out. I didn't know anybody either. I made friends by just opening up to a lot of people and really trying to get to know them. If you don't know where your classes are, get a map at the office. That'll definitely help. And with the teachers, make a good impression so they'll like you for the whole year. Be polite and smile a lot because they don't get that much at public skool. If you do all that, you'll be set so don't worry!!!
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i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!
What should i do!
signed,
brittany (link)
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Try really talking to her. Sometimes as friends, you have to get them talking and open up or else they're gonna stay depressed. If that doesn't work, try informing her parents or police. What happened was absolutely wrong!! And i firmly believe in justice being done with that kind of stuff. You NEED to get her to open up with you. That's the first thing you gotta do. If she holes everything up, it'll only get worse!!! Hope i helped!!!
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