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im a 17 year old female .. anyways my question is .. me and my boyfriends been going out about 4 weeks .. and we have had sex about 5 - 6 times and he wants me to give him head .. i aint never done it and ill try anything once .. what are some tips or anything i need to know .. please tell me EVERYTHING thanks alot

well its not really that bad!! only do it if you want to though!! dont swallow the first time...unless you really think you want to lol...good luck!

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i don't know what to give my boyfriend for christmas. the only thing i know he's interested in is video games and i don't have money like that. what could i get him with about $20 or $30??

his favorite cologne?...maybe his favorite brand name t-shirts....maybe a gift card to a video game store!! good luck!!
xOx --> bRyTt

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okay...well thier is this guy i that i really like. alot of people like him too! should i go for it or just forget about it?

id go for it becuz who cares!! alot of people liked my ex b.f's too but they decided to go out wit me? lol so just go for it cuz u never know!!
good luck!
xOx --> bRyTt

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Well, there is this guy i like and his bday is in a few days and i dont know what to say/do for him. Any ideas? (and im pretty good friends with him)

I rate high!!!

hmmm....just say happy birthday and maybe give him some candy!! that way your dont go all out and he still gets a hint u care for him!

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Hey does anyone know any good songs I can download?I can't think of any!Thanks!!

well if your into rap or r&B
NELLY ---OVER AND OVER
JKWON---YOU AND ME
NELLY---LUVEN ME
CIARA--1 2 STEP
LIL JON---ROLL CALL

COUNTRY:
TIM MIGRAW---DONT TAKE THE GIRL

SORRY IDN I DOTN LISTEN TO COUNTRY

POP:
BRITNEY SPEARS---MR PREROGATIVE
BRITNEY SPEARS---EVERYTIME
CHRISTINA AGUILERA---WALK AWAY
JOJO---NOT THAT KINDA GIRL
JOJO---WEAK

hope i helped!!
xOx-->bRyTtNiI

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okay, i dont like my friend that much any more and she is really sensitive... i dont want to be friends with her any more and she ALWAYS hangs around me. What do i do? Signed rebekah.

tell her you have other planz...try avoiding her calls or seeing her...
good lucc

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I like this guy from a different church.. i see him once a month and i really like him. what should i do?
please help me

next time you see him ask him for his number or screen name! then start talkin to him and ask him if he wants to "hang out" lol become good friends with him!! good luck huN!

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Does anyone know of a good eyeliner that stays on all day and doesnt smear?!?! I can't seem to find a good one!!

hmm urban decay or any avon liquid eyeliner!!

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Has anyone tried the Curious perfume by Britney...if so, did you like it??

OMG I LOVE IT ITS THE BEST PURFUME SMELL!

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ok first of all im not going to amifat.com or any website like that bcuz i dont trust them, i'd rather get advice from real people my age etc. so don't tell me to go to any website.

I've always been really skinny. People always think im anorexic and all my friends are like where do u put ur food? But i dont get my period every month probably because of it so i don't know how healthy my weight is. I'm about 5'6 and weigh about 103. Do YOU think thats healthy. Some of those crazy sites have told me it's not, and i wanna no what u think. thanx

lol if ur in good shape its fine!! but if u want to gain a little weight CHOCOLATE lol best way! good lucc! id rather be too skinny than too fat lol!

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ok so there is this one guy who i went out with last year but only for like 3 days cus what happened is he only asked me out cus he thought i was pretty and we had just met so we decided to jsut be friends, so this year we just seemed like friends, then suddenly he started like getting all over me and everything for like 2 weeks, now he is like ignoring me, what is he doing?

hmm maybe he likes u but he thynks u dont like him ...? if u liek him tell him...that always works things out!! good lucc

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Well heres the thing at school i am not popular and im not dorky either im right in te middle. but see i dress preppy to get the popular kids to like me but yet i wanna be diffrent. like a part of me wants me to dress a little bit punkish.and i could pull that off. iwant to be punk but the more i think of it i still wanna be popular but i never will be. theres this guy i like andi kno w he likes punk girls but i dont want people at school calling me a poser and my friend is a cheer leader and i dont want her to not like me cus im a punk. what shud i do?

just be what u want who cares if they call u a poser...i wear preppy clothes and ghetto clothes it dont matter lol and dont change yourself to impress a guy!! just be what you want hun! good luck sweetie!

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i get horrible back pains, and all i can do is crack it, but sometimes it gets so stiff that it wont crack, any advice on how to crack it?

well when that happens to me i make my brother walk on my back and it normally helps or you can use a heating pad and just lay down for a while with that on it! good luck hun back pains hurt i no :-(

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well see in my religion its a sin to pluck or wax eyebrows but the thing is everyone i no who are also muslims pluck/wax their eyebrows except my mom and sister.. im almost 14 years old and i think its my choice wheater i touch my eyebrows ... and tonight my dad is goin to get his hair cut and i want to go w. him to get my eyebrows done wut cud i say to my mom to get her to say okay?

tnxs..ill rate u high

just say that all the other people with your religion does it and it IS your choice! and if she wont let you then have a friend pluck them for you!! then she cant say anything lol! good luck sweetie!

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hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
x x x

aww well the best thing to do is just tell him u still have feleings for him and if he has any for you...and if he is really serious about not 2 timing you then he probably is telling the truth! good luck hun!

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Ok there are these boys in the back of the bus SO anoying!They always make fun of the girls in cluding me, Its is so anoying so pam always says WHY THE HECK SHOULD I LISTEN TO YOU? and they always say WHY THE HELL SHOULD WE LISTEN TO YOU! really pisses me off!They always get on my case!
PLease help!

~*~BratTina~*~

i would just ignore them or move to the fornt of the bus...or just start sayin stuff right back to them! haha guys are soo imature lol good luck

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Okay.. I'm in love with my best friend whom i've known since kindergarten..but my best friend is also in love with him and she doesnt know i love him too. and he's been giving me these signals..but i have no idea wut to do..i dont wanna tell my friend b/c she'll get all mad at me and stuff..but i dont wanna ruin my relationshop w/ the guy..wut should i do?

hmm ive been in the same situation....but if i was RELE good friends with the person i would just back off...but thats just how i am...maybe u and your friends should all talk about it maybe just decide to STAY friends! good luck hun!

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i have a bad self esteem issue and i want to fix it. how do i convince myself that i am not fat and ugly? i really think i am, and i dont ever say anything about it, but my friends always call me pretty and stuff, i want to be confident in myslef.

lol well i guess if u try to say everyones right i am pretty then u start believing more and more....its all about confidence! if everyone says your pretty then obviously you are! hope i helped!

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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha

aww wel ltry to get your dad to talk to you boyfriend maybe invite him over to dinner...tell your dad how much he means to you... and if you really love him MARRY HIM... your dad will still love you no matter what!

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I'm like, OMG, in LOVE with this guy, but like, he is just a FRIEND, and I have a boyfriend, but this guy is like THE ONE!!

yeah i kno how u feel....but there isnt rele anyhting we can do but wait till they realize how much we love them lol!

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