Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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My girlfriend bought me a watch for my birthday and told me it was really expensive. I am really into watches and I do like the watch itself.
However she eventually told me it was limited edition and it was worth £800. I've recently found out that the watch is actually only worth £250.
Should I be upset about this? I know its the thought that counts and I'm still chuffed about her buying me this watch but why has she lied to me? (link)
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Getting mad about her lying to you about a price of a gift she got you, is SILLY. It's immature, and very very very selfish. Who cares if she lied? It's a price, its not like she cheated on you, or was out with another dude.
If my boyfriend got me a ring, and I loved it and he told me it was $800; I'd tell him thank you, but he shouldn't have spent that much; than if I found out that it was only $100 or whatever, I wouldn't be MAD at all! I fell in love with the RING itself, not the price. It seems like you liked the watch more because you thought it cost more, but when you found out it was cheaper, you wanna get a pissed.
Who gives a damn!
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First off call me ice. Ok so today i broke up with my bf,nathen, and he actually seemed HAPPY about it! And plus i think he was flirting with my ARCH ENEMY, a lying mean girl! Ok so maybe he doesnt know that im arch enemies with the girl he was flirting with. But ive warned him about my enemy a lot... WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!
From a grieving Ice (link)
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Who cares? Your the one that let him go. So what does it matter who he's flirting with, who he is talking to, or even how he feels about it?? Obviously, you didn't want to be with him because you weren't happy, therefore, why would he care?
Plus, he's young. Guys that age don't care about girls; they just want a girlfriend to have one, and than move on to the next.
I suggest, you get over it.
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so me and my bestfriend kinda had an argument about this guy...cuz apperently she dont like it when i talk to her ex now bestguyfriend. and according to him he has been having some feelings for me...and i started liking him too..and i think my bestfriend somehow heard people said that we were flirting so since then we havnt talk much..but two days ago me and him had an argument and a day later my bestfriend and him hanged out and according to her they kissed and they r gonna be back together in 2 months when he gets his license..but he told me that he was get his license to be with me...cuz we live far away from him..and his not a player when hes single he flirts but when his in a relationship hes always loyal..now idont knw what to do...ithink that he wants her back but i also think she lying to me
please help idont know what to do.
HES 18 AND WE ARE 15 THANKYOU PLEASE HELP ME :( (link)
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First off, he is an adult, and you are a child. If you guys were to do anything, than he could go to jail for being with a minor.
Second off, BESTFRIEND EX'S ARE OFF LIMITS! Thats like rule number one in the book of friendships. For you to even go after your 'bestfriends' boyfriend doesn't make you that great of a friend.
If anything, you should have asked her before you even started talking to him.
Third off, this boy is 18. He's playing BOTH of you. If he really wanted to be with EITHER of you, his license wouldn't hold him back.
Guys come and go, but real friends are always there. I suggest, you mend things with your bestfriend, and forget about this 18 years old; she had him first. If they get back together, than you can't get mad. He was her's first. Not yours.
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I feel like I'm missing out on sex because I've never had a vaginal orgasm. I had an orgasm through clit rubbing but never during sex. Why is this? and how can i make it happen? (link)
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Sadly, if you can only reach orgasm through clitorial stymulation than you will never be able to have an orgasm without it.
It sucks, I know, I am one of the millions of women who need a little help with reaching my big 'O'; I thought something was wrong with me, so I went to my doctor and she said what I told you above.
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thank you so much and you didn't bore me with your story it helps to get different aspects but the thing is i moved about 20 minutes away from him about 5 months ago, so i only see him maybe twice a week. it's only been recently that we're beginning to have these feelings, so spending time apart? i think we do enough of that, so what exactly do i do and what does this mean, i asked myself those questions and i really can't be without him, i asked him as well he says he still loves me but he doesn't know what causes this tension (link)
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Oh I see what you are saying. In that case I'm not too sure why you guys are being hostile to each other.
Maybe its because you guys aren't seeing each other enough? Or maybe he is doing something he isn't suppose to be doing? I'm not too sure.
You'll have to figure out what is going on. Why you guys are getting so mad at each other when you aren't around each other.
I'll be here to help you every step of the way. I promise. Just do that for me, and that will help us get closer to solving this.
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I have a boyfriend, but I'm starting to have doubts on him.he might not be the right guy for me. A: he's not popular. B: sadly he smells. C: he's started to call me his girlfriend i don't really care about that part... so anyway, should i break up with him? (link)
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You need to do him a favor and break up with him. He deserves a lot better than you.
What kind of person cares if someone is 'popular' or not? Are you scared its going to ruin your reputation? Stop being so shallow and look deeper than that. You know, if you are going to judge someone on the fact that they aren't 'popular', than maybe you shouldn't even be dating. You must either be in middle school, or high school. Wanna know how I know? Because thats the only time stupid people use labels. Hunnie, let me tell you something- When you become older, and a lot more MATURE, that shit doesn't even matter. When you come into the real world, who you were in high school,doesn't matter. NO ONE CARES!
Your going to have a lot of regrets when you break up with this dude because he wasn't 'popular' and than 15 years down the road, he's a doctor, making good money, and absolutely adorable. While you stuck with the popular guy who didn't amount to anything, is over weight, and butt-ass ugly.
Break up with him, HE deserves BETTER!
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im an 18 year old female and have been with my boyfriend for 18 months, but recently we have been fighting a lot for silly reasons, and he told me today that he is constantly angry and frustrated with me and i feel the same way, i don't know why we feel this way is this normal, or the beginning of the end? (link)
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The next couple of things i'm going to tell you, you may not have interest in, and you may think "Why is she telling me this? I don't care about her relationships, I need help with mine!" But if you read it, you will find it helpfull. I promise.
I was kind of in the same boat you are in. I'm 19, and my boyfriend is 18. We've been together for almost a year and a half. He lives with me and my parents since his mama left him homeless. Before he moved in with me, I worked all the time and I was in my senior year of high school (he went to the same school as well), whichs means I only saw him for 30 minutes a day, before I'd go into work, because I got off late.
One my days off, we'd spend together. We never really fought as much as we do now. Since he's been living with me for the past 6 months, we fight over anything, everything and anything he does irriates the hell out of me, I get so angry and mad at him, ect.
I don't even like cuddling with him, or really kissing him. He's really affectionate with me and whatnot, but when he tries I just back away, or get irriatated.
I thought my relationship was doomed. I thought it was a sign we weren't meant for each other, or that I was losing feelings for him.
I got on here and asked, and a lot of people gave me some help. All said the same. I even asked my parents, the two people, who were around us all the time; they said the same.
It's because we are spending too much time together; I took this as a bad thing.
*If we act like this because we spend too much time together; how the hell are we supposed to get married and start our future together??*
Honestly, I think its because of our ages. We aren't mature, or ready for marriage. So the day you spend alot of time together and the reaction isn't like that, than thats how you know.
But girl, your relationship isn't falling apart. You need to look at every aspect of your relationship. You need to figure out why you guys feel that negativity towards each other. You need to take a step back, when your alone by yourself and ask yourself,
"Do I really love him? How would my life be, if I wasn't with him? Would I even care if I lost him?"
Those questions really helped me. When I think about losing my boyfriend, it hurts me, so much. I just couldn't imagine spending my life without him.
You could have a different reaction. But if any part of you is directing you to staying with him, than don't leave him.
Communication is the main key. Instead of getting angry with him and frustrated, be calm. Especially if it's something so little and foolish.
Try spending time apart. Distances makes the heart grow. Seriously! One thing that really helped my relationship, is that I told Riley, (my bf) that I needed to go stay with my Nana for a while; I stayed there for a week, and I didn't talk to him. I told him why I was doing this, and it wasn't my way of leaving him. He understood.
If you guys don't live together, than simply go a week without seeing or talking to him.
The day that marks a week, plan a cute little date. I took mine out to eat, and than to see a movie he's been wanting to see; I got butterflies, I got nervous when I saw him; I felt like just like I did when we first started dating. I was kissing him, hugging him, ect.
It's been almost a month, and we haven't had a silly agruement, I haven't got annoyed with him, and I've been more affectionate.
Sorry if my advice bored you, but I really hope it helped. I wanted to just let you know, that you aren't going through this alone, and that it's normal. You will get through it, and everything will be fine.
But you need to also sit down with your boyfriend, and ask him why he feels that way; because my boyfriend never felt angry or frustrated with me; so maybe its more him than you? Find out what his views are on why he feels that way, and help him with it.
Good Luck. If you ever need anything else, please don't heistate to inbox me.
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I was just woken up by a very werd dream about this guy in my class.I am 13 and so is he.he is always whispering in my ears "Me and you tonight during class."Well yestared he tolled me that he had a desire for me and I had a desire for him. I said no and he said we could use a condum if I wanted.During a video about birth in science class.well I just had a dream that I was pregant with his baby.I love this boy but I am afaid that he only wants to have sex with me. Or get me pregant.Do you think he likes me and wants me to get pregant with his baby.I am confused can people help me.please. (link)
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He does only want sex from you. If he wanted to be with you, he would have already been with you a long time ago. Your 13 years old, you aren't ready for sex, body wise.
YOu do know that this boy can watch as many videos as he wants; but I can probably tell you right now, he doesn't know how to put on a condom correctly. Which means, you will get pregnant.
How would you feel having sex with him for the first time, and getting pregnant? Could you imagine how your parents would feel? How people in your class would look at you and say?
If you do get pregnant, you better NOT consider abortion. Your the one that was being irresponsible and naive and got pregnant. Don't kill an innocent baby just because you were being pathetic, and stupid.
If you really want sex, than I suggest you do some masterbation, or you ask your parents to be put on birth control. If your too afraid to ask, than once again-shows you aren't old enoough.
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I am head over heels in luv with a boy in my class Problem. I want to have sex with him SOOOOOOOO bad , and he kisses me and dry humps me and luv it but I wanna go ALL the with him, but we are both 11 what should I do?
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Like I always say, If your age is on the clock, your too young for a cock.
Talk to your parents about sex, and see how they react. Get on birth control; I guarentee your parents will NOT allow it.
How about you grow up first. What the hell do you know about sex, except what you see in porn??????
God forbid you get pregnant.
Thats just what an 11 year old girl needs.
Don't have sex. Plain and Simple.
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Hello I am 13 and this other guy is 13. We are both in the same class. He said he wants to have sex with me. I love him so much but he said he would date me only to have sex with him.I would do any thing to make him happen should I do it. Maybe he would want to date me after. I don't know can you help I am only 13 and do not know a lot about boys. Please help me. I need help. (link)
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First off, your too young to be having sex. Like you said you don't know alot about boys, so what do you know about sex? You do know that it only takes one time and you could get pregnant? People think, "Oh it will never happen to me" and it ususally does. Do you know that somtimes condoms aren't as affective as they claim to be? They can rip, or bust. More than likely, this little boy doesn't know alot about sex either. He must watch porn alot. Chances are he doesn't even know how to put on a condom correctly and that can cause you to get pregnant.
This is how I see it. If you cannot talk to your parents comfortably about sex or getting put on birth control, than you aren't ready to have sex to begin with.
Second off, this boy doesn't like you. He doesn't love you. He doesn't want to be with you. He wants pussy and thats all. You are 13, people your age don't know a thing about love. In a couple of weeks you'll be 'in love' with someone else. Watch.
Third off, ANY time a guy says, any of the things listed below means he is only using you for sex.
-If you love me, you'll have sex with me.
-He won't love you. He just wants sex. A guy will tell a girl anything to get her where he wants her.
-If you have sex with me, I'll date you.
-You can sleep with him, and yes he may date you, but I can promise you it won't be for long. I'm sure he's used that line to plenty of young and naive little girls.
-If you don't have sex with me, I won't be with you anymore/ love you anymore.
-He NEVER loved you to begin with. Let him leave.
If you ever come across any of the above, LEAVE HIM ALONE! HE IS NO GOOD!
And it looks like you have already came across the second one. Leave this boy alone. He doesn't like you, or love you. He just wants your goodies.
Forth off,
He wouldn't date you after. Why would he? He already got what he wanted, so he wouldn't see any more need in being with you. Unless he was only with you for sex, and the second you said No to having sex with him, he will leave.
I'm not meaning to be harsh with you, but I was 16 when I lost my virginity, and the guy manipulated me like this boy is doing you. I just hate seeing younger girls go through this, and thinking 'oh he really cares about me. I'll do anything for him because I love him'
Never ever ever ever ever ever give in to a guy unless you know his intentions are more than just sex. You need to be a chase. If he isn't around for the chase, than that means he won't be there after everything is said and done.
Please keep your virginity. I'm 20 now and the man I'm with was a virgin when he got with me. We've been together for almost 3 years, and he is my fiance. I feel so bad that I didn't save myself for him, like he did for me.
There isn't anything 'cool' about losing your viriginity. It makes guys look at you like your easy, and makes your classmates talk dirty behind your back. It's not worth it. YOu don't want to be older and your soul mate comes to you and askes how many sexual partners have you had and you said "18" or whatever;
Save yourself. It's precious not something you give away to ONE special person; but sometimes that doesn't happen. YOu think 'Oh he's the one' than something happens and you guys break up, and it just contines to happen. In love, sex, break up, and its a repeated pattern.
Just be smart.
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hi
im james
i wanna ask u something tht im verymuch attracted towards my elder sis so is it ok to have fun with her is incest sex is right or not ? plz reply me fast thanks.
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Personally, I don't think its a good idea. Incest sex isn't right. It will cause alot of family drama. I'd stay away. She is your sister, and sister only.
Your a guy, you'll do as you please. Youjust have to worry about how your sister feels. If she isn't attracted to you in that way, than it will ruin you guys relationship.
Just talk to her about it. See what she thinks. If you chose to go through with it, than use protection, and keep it a secret.
But I advise you that you don't.
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Is it slutty to send pictures of you in your underwear and bra to guys? I'm not fully naked so it has to be classy, right? What do guys think of girls who send them pictures? And is it cheating if the guy is in a relationship but I'm sending him pictures still? (link)
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Slutty? No. Degrading? Yes. Yes. Yes.
Like the other users said below if you are under the age 18 than you can get in serious trouble. Your parents can go through your cell phone provider and get all your information regarding pictures and text messages. Yes, it cost money. But if your parents get suspicious than they will do it.
Just because you aren't fully naked doesn't make it classy. Nothing about a bra and panty picture is classy. It would be different if you were dating the guy, but I doubt you are. And even then, you shouldn't send them.
If a guy isn't dating a girl and she is sending him degrading pictures like you are than she comes across as 'easy'. It gives you a bad name and reputation. This guy could get mad at you and post it all over the internet. People your age believe in the word 'slutty' and that word will probably be used numerous times.
You need to gain some respect for yourself. Why in the hell would you be sending a guy that HAS a GIRLFRIEND personal pictures like that anyway? Are you that desperate for attention??
I mean, I don't believe that, but that is what it will come off as to other people who may know the boy, or if his girlfriend found out.
Anything a guy doesn't want his girlfriend to know that he does, or says is CHEATING.
Hm, let me ask you this. If you had a boyfriend, and some chick was sending him pictures of her in her panties and bra, would you consider it cheating? What would you think of that girl?
This kind of situation will make HIM, HIS FRIENDS, AND ANYONE ELSE WHO FINDS OUT, not look at you as 'girlfriend' material, but someone easy that they can sleep with. They will use you.
Quit sending pictures now, before you lose the little respect that people do have for you.
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hi i m 20 year old/m i like a girl i think she also like me my question is how to turn her on sexually mean which position girl like most and which area for touching girl prefer (link)
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Its different with every girl.
Personally, I like it when my boyfriend kisses on my neck, nibbles on my lower lip, and nibbles on my earlobe.
Touching wise, it drive me crazy when we are making out and his hands are roaming all over my body. When he touches in between my thighs.
I like it when my boyfriend takes control. When he uses his manlyness and sits me on his lap.
When he whispers sweet things in my ears.
ect.
If you and this girl aren't there yet with the phsyical attraction. I'd take it slow. Take her on some dates, but don't force her into anything.
Let her know you like her, and show her. Not just tell her.
When you guys get to that special point. Let her know you know what your doing. Girls love confidence just like guys do.
If you guys have sex, let her do what she wants. I like it from behind, but she could be different. If you finger her, make sure you do lots of clit stimulation.
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I have the opportunity to sleep with a guy, but there are a couple things that Should keep me away from him (he's married and my boss) but at the same time, I'm running out of reasons not to go through with it. What are the pros and cons of doing so? (link)
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Lets start with the cons.
Cons:
He is married. That alone should be enough reason not too. Why would you want to sleep with someone who is married? He isn't yours, and he will never be fully yours. Your just 'that' girl to him. You don't want that.
He is your boss. If you have sex with him, and the sex is bad, or you grow feelings for him you will lose your drop. He has your job in his hands. He can do whatever he pleases, when he pleases. If his wife was to find out, and cause problems- he would take it out on you.
Your job is on the line. You do realize that if you got fired from that job or quit because you wouldn't feel comfortable around him- that when you do get a new job, you have to put him down as a reference or past job history. Your new job could call him and he could say, "Don't hire her, she slept with me, blah blah blah"
That'll ruin any chance of getting a new job.
You will be looked at as pathetic from co-workers.
Your running out of reasons to NOT go through with it? Are you being serious? You should be running out of reasons TO go through with it.
You wanna know what the pro's are?
NOTHING! NOTHING! NOTHING!
You should have some self respect for yourself, your morals, and your bosses relationship with his wife.
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Okay well i'm a 13/f and i'm in 7th grade and i was wondering how to tell a guy you like them w/o getting your feelings hurt? I have already went to a guy and told him through text messages straight up i like you and it was really awkward and now we barely talk especially bc i only have his number and hes a grade older in a different school. An I would also like to know if a guy likes me because (i warn you this may be long) one day i got called to the Guidance counselors office and we were almost about to switch classes and i walked down and the bell rang and the guy i liked brought my stuff to my next class for me without me telling him to. he just went up to me and asked what my next class was, and took it there. (link)
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The only way you can tell a guy you like him without getting your feelings hurt is by actually getting to know him and seeing how he reacts around you. You don't want to go up to a guy who barely knows you and tell him you like him; that may scare him away because you caught him off guard.
If there is a particular guy you like, focuse on him. Talk to him at school, build a friendship first. Exchange numbers, and than talk as friends.
Start to flirt with him, and if he flirts back than you can see yourself if he likes you or not.
Honestly though, there isn't a way to prevent yourself from getting rejected. It's just something you have to be prepared for no matter what. You'll never know, if you don't try.
As of the guy who took your stuff to your next class, I wouldn't think too much into it.
I've done it for plenty of guys before because I'm a nice person, and/or the teacher asked me to do it.
If you believe this situation is different and his intentions weren't those than I'd definietly try to grow a connection with him.
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Hi! uhm.. so.. I've only been with my boyfriend for 3 days now, but I don't really feel.. right... around him.. He's really a sweet guy though... I guess what I'm asking, is should I wait for awhile to see if maybe I will feel better later, or if I should tell him how I feel..... (P.S. I am a girl, 16 years old.) (link)
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Been there done that. There wasn't any spark. I stayed with him becuse I thought things would change with how I felt. It only caused me to have mixed emotions a couple of months later.
I'd let him know how you felt, and tell him "Look, you are a great guy and I don't even know why I feel this way, but I wanna take some time apart, to see how I really feel for you"
That way if you start to miss him, or you feel like you made a mistake, you can always get back with him; but if you realize you did the right thing, you ended it on a positive note,and youd on't lose a friend.
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my boyfriend is having child from a divorcée women but i cannot live without him then he said i love you jaan (link)
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Like I said on the last one. MOVE ON. DUMP HIM. LEAVE HIM. FORGET ABOUT HIM. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!
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what i have to do my boyfriend is having a child from his school mate but he said i love you & also he wants this child but i cannot live without him (link)
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He doessn't love you. If he truly loved you he wouldn't have got another girl pregnant to begin with. You should have been the only girl he was intimate with. That is something for people who are in love. You will always be that 'other girl' you'll have his baby mama always in your life because of the child.
Move on now, before things get worse. This man will never change.
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I get horny a lot and nothing can help my needs...there's guys I like and I know they like me or are attracted to me but they won't make a move they stay as friends even though they're single. I know I haven't had a boyfriend before but I do know how to treat a guy right (sexually and non sexually). What do I do?
P.s. I don't want to make the first move. (link)
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You are 12 years old. You are way to young to even want to have sex with the opposite sex. Girls these days are always trying to grow up too fast. You know, there are other ways to please your sexual desires other than getting intimate with a guy.
You can masterbate. If you have no idea what that is, than look it up on google. You wanna know why guys don't want to date you? Because 12 year old boys aren't interested in girls yet. They are still developing. Stop thinkin about sex, and start figuring out ways to actually have friends, focuse on school, ect;
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Okay so im writting a story where the main characters have a child. He is a little boy and i cant seem to name him. So does anyone have any suggestions.
The name has to have:
- four part (first, two middles, last)
- one of the middle names has to be celeste
- and the last name is richards
Id prefer a long first name but anything works. THANKS!!! (link)
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Chaseton Tray Celeste Richards.
Sounds cute to me. Lol
Trayston Clay Celeste Richards
that way you could call him
TC for short.
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