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should i believe my bestfriend?
so me and my bestfriend kinda had an argument about this guy...cuz apperently she dont like it when i talk to her ex now bestguyfriend. and according to him he has been having some feelings for me...and i started liking him too..and i think my bestfriend somehow heard people said that we were flirting so since then we havnt talk much..but two days ago me and him had an argument and a day later my bestfriend and him hanged out and according to her they kissed and they r gonna be back together in 2 months when he gets his license..but he told me that he was get his license to be with me...cuz we live far away from him..and his not a player when hes single he flirts but when his in a relationship hes always loyal..now idont knw what to do...ithink that he wants her back but i also think she lying to me
please help idont know what to do.
HES 18 AND WE ARE 15 THANKYOU PLEASE HELP ME :(
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You both are being played and no guy is worth losing A FRIENDSHIP OVER! yOUR 15 AND i WILL TELL YOU BOTH THAT NO MATTER WHO HE GOES OUT WITH YOU IT WON'T LAST AND IF HE PLAYING WITH YOUR HEADS THERE ARE PROBABLY MORE. wHY IS AN 18 YR OLD WANT TO DATE 15 YR OLDS? iS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM? sTEP OUT OF THE BOX AND BOTH THINK ABOUT IT RATIONALLY. dON'T DATE EX'S OF BESTFRIENDS UNLESS HE'S WORTHY OF YOU HAVING AN EXBESTFRIEND!
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Well, if she was a true best friend, she wouldnt lie to you about something like that.. I have a thing with a guy just like that right now, and he is so nice to me, so i guess I know how you feel. If I were you, I would talk to him about it. Just say something like, "Look, I dont know who you like, but if you like me tell, but if you dont, thats fine, im not waiting around and im not going to be played like that," or say something to your best friend, like, "I uderstnad if you and _____ are getting back together, and thats fine with me, but I need to know the truth, because I thought he liked me and and I liked him, but I just need to know before I do anything else," Hope this helped. :)
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First off, he is an adult, and you are a child. If you guys were to do anything, than he could go to jail for being with a minor.
Second off, BESTFRIEND EX'S ARE OFF LIMITS! Thats like rule number one in the book of friendships. For you to even go after your 'bestfriends' boyfriend doesn't make you that great of a friend.
If anything, you should have asked her before you even started talking to him.
Third off, this boy is 18. He's playing BOTH of you. If he really wanted to be with EITHER of you, his license wouldn't hold him back.
Guys come and go, but real friends are always there. I suggest, you mend things with your bestfriend, and forget about this 18 years old; she had him first. If they get back together, than you can't get mad. He was her's first. Not yours.
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