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I had a very werd dream about him.
I was just woken up by a very werd dream about this guy in my class.I am 13 and so is he.he is always whispering in my ears "Me and you tonight during class."Well yestared he tolled me that he had a desire for me and I had a desire for him. I said no and he said we could use a condum if I wanted.During a video about birth in science class.well I just had a dream that I was pregant with his baby.I love this boy but I am afaid that he only wants to have sex with me. Or get me pregant.Do you think he likes me and wants me to get pregant with his baby.I am confused can people help me.please.
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He does only want sex from you. If he wanted to be with you, he would have already been with you a long time ago. Your 13 years old, you aren't ready for sex, body wise.
YOu do know that this boy can watch as many videos as he wants; but I can probably tell you right now, he doesn't know how to put on a condom correctly. Which means, you will get pregnant.
How would you feel having sex with him for the first time, and getting pregnant? Could you imagine how your parents would feel? How people in your class would look at you and say?
If you do get pregnant, you better NOT consider abortion. Your the one that was being irresponsible and naive and got pregnant. Don't kill an innocent baby just because you were being pathetic, and stupid.
If you really want sex, than I suggest you do some masterbation, or you ask your parents to be put on birth control. If your too afraid to ask, than once again-shows you aren't old enoough.
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If this boy is about your same age it is a pretty good bet he primary interest in you is sex. Boys ages from the start of puberty into their early 20's, this diminishes as they get older, confuse lust and love. Boys are hard wired to seek sex relief from the start of puberty until they mature enough to understand the difference between lust and love. Until then they will confuse the two.
In the case of this young man, from what you have written, he is not confused he wants sex from you. I don't think it is his desire to get you pregnant, he just wants sex. As to giving him sex you and he are way to young to be having adult type sexual relationships.
Neither of you have the maturity to fully understand the act. Neither are your bodies mature enough, particularly your body is not ready for sexual intercourse. Sure you can do it but you are really not ready for it. I can assure you that you will not enjoy it. As for him he will think he enjoyed it as he will get relief, but that's all. You will,if you do have sex with him, most likely have regrets and live in fear until your next period. Its not worth it.
Ignore him, tell him no or whatever is necessary to let him know that you may be interested in him but it is a non sexual interest.
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it's perfectly normal for someone of your age weather they're a boy or girl to have disiers for the opersit sex. also to become atracted to their personality. however 13 is to yung to have inticorce. your boddy isn't reddy to hold a child and your vagina is narower and not yet fully divelopt. it doesn't sound to me like you're in a relationship with this boy and it's never a good idear to have sex with someone casularly. you've got a long time yet to fined love and have children. when you do fined love the person wont just want sex.
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