I am head over heels in luv with a boy in my class Problem. I want to have sex with him SOOOOOOOO bad , and he kisses me and dry humps me and luv it but I wanna go ALL the with him, but we are both 11 what should I do?
SwimxRun answered Thursday January 5 2012, 7:27 pm: At first, i thought wow! Maybe he's there for the fun and you are there to be serious in a relationship and go all the way
and then i saw that YOU ARE BOTH 11! At 11 i didnt know or ever hear of sex or kissing or humping till i was 13! At 11 i thought boys had cooties and i still don't like them enough to date! But you are different and i respect that. But i think you should wait till your a little older to be doing that. Do you know what it all means and are you aware of the dangers? Do your parents know? Ask yourself questions about what could happen, how it started. Take your time. You're way too young for a baby. I would just hold back and just look at the big picture, you have a bright future ahead of you(: [ SwimxRun's advice column | Ask SwimxRun A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Thursday January 5 2012, 10:38 am: I'll just add this to what the others have said. If you have to ask if something is right; then it is probably wrong.
lightoftruth923 answered Thursday January 5 2012, 2:50 am: Having sex at 11 is really not good. So many problems can happen that you are not ready for. You could get pregnant, you'd need to get on birth control and I doubt your parents will be ok with that, you could get STDs, then you'll have your emotional weight to carry.
It is tough having sex when you're an older teenager and an adult with all the emotional baggage. There is no way an 11 year old could handle it.
You shouldn't even be dry humping..you're only 11.
Just try to control yourself and not have sex till you are older. [ lightoftruth923's advice column | Ask lightoftruth923 A Question ]
nascarfan1987 answered Thursday January 5 2012, 1:58 am: Like I always say, If your age is on the clock, your too young for a cock.
Talk to your parents about sex, and see how they react. Get on birth control; I guarentee your parents will NOT allow it.
How about you grow up first. What the hell do you know about sex, except what you see in porn??????
God forbid you get pregnant.
Thats just what an 11 year old girl needs.
missyumxp answered Wednesday January 4 2012, 11:53 pm: I recommend you put off sex until you are much older. Wait until you know more about sex and what could happen if you weren't not safe and the physical consequences aren't the only thing you should worry about. Sex also comes with emotional connections. I can;t convince you to wait til marriage but just wait. I'm sure you'll be more ready and it will be more enjoyable if you wait. Because you may think you "luv" this boy but all he may be looking for is sex. Trust me when I say you can't always count on sex as a solution to keep a boy. SO please wait. [ missyumxp's advice column | Ask missyumxp A Question ]
retry32 answered Wednesday January 4 2012, 7:19 pm: i think you are too young and dont know enough about sex...? anyway if he is std free pl'ying with his dick wont harm... but full sex? meh too young [ retry32's advice column | Ask retry32 A Question ]
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