so i have a boyfriend, but he might not be the right guy for me
Question Posted Saturday January 7 2012, 12:44 pm
I have a boyfriend, but I'm starting to have doubts on him.he might not be the right guy for me. A: he's not popular. B: sadly he smells. C: he's started to call me his girlfriend i don't really care about that part... so anyway, should i break up with him?
nascarfan1987 answered Sunday January 8 2012, 12:49 pm: You need to do him a favor and break up with him. He deserves a lot better than you.
What kind of person cares if someone is 'popular' or not? Are you scared its going to ruin your reputation? Stop being so shallow and look deeper than that. You know, if you are going to judge someone on the fact that they aren't 'popular', than maybe you shouldn't even be dating. You must either be in middle school, or high school. Wanna know how I know? Because thats the only time stupid people use labels. Hunnie, let me tell you something- When you become older, and a lot more MATURE, that shit doesn't even matter. When you come into the real world, who you were in high school,doesn't matter. NO ONE CARES!
Your going to have a lot of regrets when you break up with this dude because he wasn't 'popular' and than 15 years down the road, he's a doctor, making good money, and absolutely adorable. While you stuck with the popular guy who didn't amount to anything, is over weight, and butt-ass ugly.
Xui answered Saturday January 7 2012, 4:41 pm: Maybe he isn't the right one for you but I'm going to point a few things out.
A, When you are with someone it shouldn't matter how "popular" someone is, That is a very shallow way to think about someone.
B, Maybe he does smell but have you tried to be nice about it and maybe explain to him in a gentle way that he needs to clean himself up? Sounds like you are judging him?....
C, If this is your train of thought on finding someone your expectations are way to high because nobody is perfect and if you want to be shallow about it then good luck finding a guy that will stick around.
SwimxRun answered Saturday January 7 2012, 2:28 pm: You will know when the right guy comes your way, you will feet it<3 Plus you have more things you dont like than you do with this guy. i love using this when knowing your in love:
Here are 12 ways you know your in love:
TWELVE :
> You walk really slow when you're with them.
>
> ELEVEN:
> You feel shy whenever they're around.
>
> TEN:
> You smile when you hear their voice.
>
>
> NINE:
> When you look at them, you can't see the other
> people around you, you just see him/her.
>
> SEVEN:
> They're all you think about.
>
> SIX:
> You realize you're always smiling when
> you're
> looking at them..
>
> FIVE:
> You would do anything just to see them.
>
> FOUR:
> While reading this, there was one person on your
> mind this whole time.
>
> THREE:
> You just smiled because it's true.
>
> TWO:
> You were so busy thinking about that person, you
> didnt notice number eight was missing.
>
> ONE:
> You just scrolled up to check & are now silently
> laughing at yourself.
Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday January 7 2012, 1:27 pm: If you're having reservations, he probably isn't the right guy for you. Break up with him. Just remember one day, a guy being popular won't matter to you. However, clearly it does now, so if you feel the need to break things off, do it. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday January 7 2012, 1:17 pm: DO what you feel right, if you still kinda like him then tell him to get good friends and have a shower. He obviously likes you if he is calling you his girlfriend and if you choose to break up with him, then you need to do so gently. hope this helped :) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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