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im 12 and i dont know what to do about my sex life
I get horny a lot and nothing can help my needs...there's guys I like and I know they like me or are attracted to me but they won't make a move they stay as friends even though they're single. I know I haven't had a boyfriend before but I do know how to treat a guy right (sexually and non sexually). What do I do?
P.s. I don't want to make the first move.
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You are 12 years old. You are way to young to even want to have sex with the opposite sex. Girls these days are always trying to grow up too fast. You know, there are other ways to please your sexual desires other than getting intimate with a guy.
You can masterbate. If you have no idea what that is, than look it up on google. You wanna know why guys don't want to date you? Because 12 year old boys aren't interested in girls yet. They are still developing. Stop thinkin about sex, and start figuring out ways to actually have friends, focuse on school, ect;
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The best advice given so far is that of Erinn_the_bamf. You are way to young to be thinking of having sex and certainly not mature enough to handle the adult consequences of a sex life.
But let me focus on the teenage consequences of having sex. The one thing that has not changed in the decades since I was a teenager is that boys cannot keep a secret. If a boy has sex with their girlfriend they are going to tell someone. Usually their best friend. That friend tells someone else who tells someone else. Before you know it you have a reputation around school for being easy. This is not a reputation you want as it is one that is extremely hard to live down.
I'm not saying this may happen I'm saying it very well will happen. It happened when I was in school and we didn't have the social medias we have today. You can become extremely popular for all the wrong reasons. Not only in your school but in other schools as well.
My advice for now is to keep your clothes on and your hands to yourself. Stick to kissing boys for the next few years and keep that to boys you really like.
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At 12 years old, you don't need to have a sex life. Yes, this is the time when sexual feelings start to arise. It's natural for you to be sexually excited often, but sex has some consequences you are not ready for. What do you know about safe sex? Are you aware of the prevalence of STDs and how to prevent them? Are you aware of how to prevent pregnancy? You do not want to be a mother at 12. You'd have no way to support a child. To deal with your sexual feelings right now, just masturbate. You can google different types of female masturbation.
There aren't only health risks when having sex. Sex can also be very emotional, especially for a girl so young. What if the boys you have sex with decide to break it off with you after you have sex? You probably won't feel so great. You need to be older to be able to deal with those kind of emotions.
Right now just focus on the boys you're friends with. Continue to hang out with them and share common interests, and you may develop a relationship. It's definitely OK to flirt a little and smile at boys and laugh at their joke at your age, but DO NOT engage in sexual contact until you are of consenting age, which is generally either 16 or 18 depending on what state you live in. Remember that you can't make a boy ask you out, but if you're a cool, laid back girl who practices good personal hygiene and flirts just a tiny bit, I'm sure you could have a relationship soon. Also remember that relationships at 12 are not built to last. Have fun, but don't come too attached.
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Chill the fuck out, you are 12. that is a concern you should not have in mind. have a boy friend but dont go around getting his juices.
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ok keep in mind that sex is 20 min. but can has huge impact. i think you should think about having sex with someone you really like
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