okaii... i have a boiifriend and he lives far awaii and i really like him and im going to visit and then comeing bak and i dont even kno if the relationship will work i have mii douts but then i really like him and i dont care where he lives and sometimes people tell me i shouldnt be with him because he lives so far awaii but i start crying when they tell me that because i dont wanna lose him... what sould i do?
Sigened,
wOrRiEd!
TO: wOrRiEd!
gib it a try...dunt gib up just yet..i mean theres nothin rong with a long distance relationship er anything...just coz ppl dunt think ya can make it dunt mean thah you shouldnt at least gib it a try er anything...ya noe?
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i really like this guy but when ever i tell him how im feelin about something he gets really mad (like he friends were tellin me all i said to the guy i like is its getin to my head its like messin with me and he blow up in my face and said so u beleive them not me and got pissed i dont know what 2 do i try to tell him how i feel and he just gets mad what should i do???
female/13 almost 14
he is 15 almost 16 (( male lol))
TO: relationship
risk it...if this is as worth the shot as you make it seem then risk him blowing fire and breathing smoke...i mean after he cools down hell prolly say how he feels about ya too and onie then can you noe...ya noe?
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My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say?
TO: How can I get her approval?
tell your frend thah you totally need some distance some times...i mean so wat if your out having sex...you shouldnt be stopped just coz she dunt like it...tell her straite and let the reqacotion go and cool off...ya noe?
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ok well theres this guy and way back around the middle of the school year i found out he liked me. Let's call him Bob. Well Bob was very very annoying! He sat in front of me and all he did was turn around and get in the middle of my conversations with my friends. I even got my boyfriend at the time to warn him about his behavior...well it worked and he moved his seat. He wound up finding out my s/n and he turned out to be a pretty nice and sweet guy and after a while we became really close and we even went out for like an hour! lol ( I realized he wasn't my time) He's that type of guy that is totally nerdy and dorky but cutte at the same time that all the desperate girls go out with and since I was on the rebound I fell for him for a little while ...I told him that going out with him was a huge mistake and since i asked him out online i told him that it was my cousin on my screen-name! I feel sooo bad! Well now it's gotten to the pont where he is totally in love with me and threatens to kill himself b/c I still love my ex... I really like being his friend but he just keeps saying all these things to make me feel bad. What do I do with him?
TO: (blank)
theres not much you can realie DO with him...just tell him thah you want some space and thah its either you guys are frends er nuthin..i mean i dont think hes serious about suicide...ya noe?
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well theres this boy that i really really like and i have for a long time....alomst a year now and we dated for about a week and i dont exactly remember why we broke up...but anyways i think im in love with him he is like my best friend we hang out alot and hes kinda like a friend with benifits cuz we kiss and everything...well now he has a girlfriend and shes one of my good friends and i know they will go out for a long tim but i rally love him and i cant tell him and i dont know what to do :( help plez
TO: I LOVE HIM!!!!!
well youll just hab to talk to him about it..i mean he wont noe and he prolly wont change his mind about his girlfrend buh at least he noes and IF he dusnt like the grl hes going out with like THAH much then hell noe thah your there waiting...ya noe?
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im 12 and my parents wont let me go out with guys yet cuz im supposedly too young, but i go out with them secretly and now more guys are starting to ask me out, but they want to actually take me somewhere like dinner or a movie and stuff, but my parents wont let me go anywhere unless they kno my "friends" parents!!!!!!
TO: notfair!!!!!!!
you gotta talk to your parents and tell them to back off eben just a lil bit...i mean tell them thah you hab guy frends and thah its NORMAL and stuff...if they hab to noe all the parents of all your frends then intro your boyfrends' parents and tell them thah if they wanna go out with you then their parents hab to talk to yours...er sumthing like thah...ya noe?
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I have a guy friend who acts in movies. (no names) and he asked me out. I don't know if I should, I like him but I am just don't want to be known as HIS girlfriend instead of my name. I don't know if too many celebs date normal people like me and how people take and what the press and whatnot would say. What should I tell him?
TO: Should I?
totallie go for it and not care wat anybody else says..i mean if you like him why turn him down becoz of publicity...just make soore to talk to him first and like explain to him thah you dont want anybody all up in your face/business just coz your his grilfrend...ya noe?
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Hi my name is Brandon I like this girl she is fine ok and so I asked her out she said yes and her mom said I was to old for her what should I do??
TO: Love
theres not much to do to change a mothers mind...just show her mom thah you can do tha job of an awesome boyfrend and make soore you dont do anythin thah mite offend her in any way...i mean the best you can do is show her how happie you make her daughter rite?
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One of my best friends is about to throw her life away by dating the schools pimp, im not joking, he has cheated on everygf he has had including me, but every time i tried to explain that to her she just doesnt listen.. Please hel me help her
TO: Help me Help her
its not like you can stop her from dating the doode...the best thing you can do is just help her realize thah the guy is gonna hert her...explaining anything wont reallie help and stuff buh just find a way fer her to realize thah...ya noe?
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ok when i go out to eat with my sister and her boyfriend he boyfriend always makes my sis pay shouldnt he pay now my sis has like no money so what should she do or i do?
TO: my sisters boyfriend is cheap
well ya cant reallie do anything since hes not YOUR boyfrend buh mehbe you should talk to your sis about it and tell her to talk to him saying stuff like "how bout you pay every now and then coz im runnin outta money payin fer you all the time and stuff" er sumthin like thah...i mean she cant pay ALL the time...ya noe?
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there is this guy and he likes me he is really weird but his parents are friends with my parents so he always comes over!! he bugs me so much but i dont want to be mean so how should i deal with him?
TO: wierdo in my house all the time
all i can tell you is thah you should just tell him straite..i mean you shouldnt hab to keep pretending to be his frend if ya dunt want to and just coz his and yor parents are frends dunt meant thah you guys hab to be frends too...ya noe?
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what does cybering mean?
TO: Cybering?
having sex online...or just spacing out...
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Hello. I'm Angie. For a few months now, I've been trying to decide whether or not I want to move with my father. I obviously live with my mom, then. And I've finally came down to my decision and I do in fact want to live with him. My mommy has known for awhile now that I've been thinking of moving with him... she doesn't mind it. My dad knows I've been wanting to too and he doesn't mind it one bit, so I'm finally going to talk to him about moving in this weekend when I visit him, but I don't know how to break it to my mom that I want to move with him.... What should I say?
TO: Moving?
the onie way i can think of is just to tell her straite..i mean as you sed she kinda new fer a wile so tellin her straite would be the fastest way and stuff...and i mean just coz you move out dosnt mean shell stopp loving you er anything..ya noe?
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hey i am a 13 year old female and i have been going out with this guy for about 6 months and we have made out and basically had dry sex, but ive always asked him if i could see his penis and he would always be too shy to show it. i was over at his house yesturday and i asked him if i could see it and he un-zippered his pants and almost brought it out. i wasnt sure that he would do that and now im worried that he might catch me by surprise again. im thinking that he would try to make me have sex with him, but i dont know what to expect, b/c he talks about it all the time, but im not sure what to do if he tried it. i mean i havent done and i think its too young...what should i do about it?
TO: worried things will go too far
ok if you dontwanna hab sex then why do you keep askin to see his penis? just outta random curiosity...anyways if ya think your too young and ya dunt want to yet then wait it off...ya noe?
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hey
i was at the movies with this guy who i like..and well i wasn't shure if he liked me before..but when we were at the movies he jus put his arm around me and we were leanin our heads on each other and then he wanted to kiss me(my first kiss!) It was great..what do u think? also...do u think he likes me ?! Thanks!!
TO: kissing
uh YA i think he likes you!! lolz totally ask him to be your b/f and stuf...no harm...ya noe?
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My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how!
TO: SO CONFUSED!
all im sayin is dont make out till your ready... peer oressure is kill pressure esp if you fall in it..i mean so wat if (quote unquote) "everyone" has made out?dosnt mean you hab to too..and beginners nebe noe buh youll experience it latta on...(hehe ima beginner to just so ya noe thah your not alone) ya noe?
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im 14 almost 15 and i have never had like a real boyfriend should i be worried that im going to go to prom alone because i think about it a lot
TO: (blank)
no i dunt think you should be worried..i mean prom year isnt till like wat..two or three years from now...my sis and i hab NEVER had a boyfrend either so dont feel lonely about it...its k... just wait till its time and mean wile sit back and relax..ya noe?
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I want someone to talk to during the summer while im away from my friends. I have a pen pal but I would like another one. I am a 13 year old female.
TO: pen pals
hey im open fer conversation...my info:
ADDRESS- ill gib it to ya through the fone...
FONE#- 1-949-429-3736
EMAIL: xmasshotty@hotmail.com
AIM SN: my identity 1990
dont stay too lonely!!
btw im a 14 yr old female...just turned fourteen too
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write me about em...
ugahottie321 on AIM and Advicenators
okie well i completely love the last two buh tha first one dint hit me quite as hard...buh it was k all the same...ya noe?
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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
signed
***/confuzzzed/***
TO: ***/confuzzled/***
treat her the same..theres nothin rong with being a lesbian! (eben tho im not one)...buh i mean lesbias are ppl too and just coz she likes grls dosnt mean she cant be your frend...ya noe?
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