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hey am lesty from massachussettes.i love talking to people and getting to know them.ihave short black hair with big hershey kisses brown eyes.am 5'2 and lovin it.lets say i love to have lots of fun unlimited.i dont smoke ,drink or do drugs.but the rest am there.the reason i dont smoke is cause i play sports and it kinda slows me down.
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when i asked my mom if we could go to the doctor she said if i had hormonel problems i'd have other syptoms, like not growing. can someone please be more spacific on what problem i'd have and what syptoms i'd have. please aswer as fast as you can. im extreamly worryed.
maybe you need to relax and let your body change at its own pace.you dont have to grow like everyone else
omg..everytime i ask this question, people are like i dont get it..it's so easy...okay let me explain more...i have a windows XP so sometimes when im on my screenname i leave an away message!(if u dont get that than stop reading this) anyways so i leave an away message and switch users however when i go to check my away message and its a has been a long period of time the computer some how returned me from away and like some how signed me on...so i have all these conversations of people who are like hello are you there.?....what should i do
ill rate high for a good answer that works..and if you dont get it dont bother
hey maybe you should you on sn at a time then people wont be like that cause they fell ignored.or u should keep checking your messages.and how do u switch users.
ok so i have this friend that i know loves me like a sister but doesnt act like it. when were always talking, she blows things out of porportion. and i feel bad b/c sometimes i make it seem like i'm mad at her even though i am but i dont want it to seem like that. it really sucks because shes a sister i never had and i dont want it to be like this. i'm so sick and tired of her doing the things she does and it sucks! ugh...! help
♥ much
CRaZy OuT Of MY MinD
hey maybe you should talk to you friend/sister about how you feel and you can work on your relationship
I was wondering if you can help me about my problem. I really like this boy, Nic at school. I think he likes me too but the problem is is that he has a girlfriend.Nic is also trying to set me up with his best friend Mark. Mark is really nice and everything but i dont like him like i do Nic. What should i do?
Singed,
Confused
maybe nic doesnt like you or he wouldnt have set you up with mark.and if he liked you he would also dump hisgirlfriend.and did nic tell u that he likes you .maybe its all in your mind.if he doesnt like you give mark a chance.
ok..does anyone have any good themes for homecoming? were up for anything..something funny would be great though. any ideas for a skit, hall decorations, or window painting would be amazing! thanks so much! oh & were the cyclones playing the Rebels..were up for ANYTHING!! tahnks SOO much
maybe you should try and african home coming ,with qoutes,trees jungle stuff and trible themed.i think it would be great cause am african and if you need help .just write to me.
Does anyone know how to get the font "Terminal" to work on AIM? I try and it says there's no such thing. I know I have the font terminal on my computer though.
Thanks in advance!
try this:
go to set up
then preferences
then font
then get the font.
so i have a low confindence level.its like am afraid of popular kids in my school and i kind of want to be one .but i dont think i belong with tem .i like to watch them and know wats going on in their lives.what is wrong here.
get tour own click
i have this friend and we get in fights all the time and i love her to death but it seems like were no supposed to be friends but i really want to be friends with her...whast should i do
-to hate or not to hate-
13/f
maybe you should tell her how you feel and find out what the fights about maybe there is your answer .
me and this guy like eachother.. we met over the internet but we have hung out a few times. well yeah like i said we like eachother and tonight he actually made the first move in putting his arm around me and holding my hand. well as he dropped me off we hugged and i thouhgt id make the first move and kiss him i couldnt really help it, it just happened. well after that he smiled and said that he would call me later. well now its 3 in the morning and i still havent heard from him.. do you think me kissing him was a bad idea? was it too soon? and usually every night we stay up and talk on aim til like 4 and he hasent gotten on and i know hes not sleeping because he doesnt work. and im usually asleep before him.. anyway! did i make the wrong move in making the first move?
wait till tomorrwo or call him
I could probably answer my own advice, but I want someone else's opinion.It started 3 years ago when I was 16. After my boyfriend and I broke up I started downing myself alot. I felt I let the situation go out of control and I had always since my childhood let others get the best of me and control me, I think around the time my boyfriend and I broke up I developed my eating disorder. I have also had other problems like with cutting, trichillomania, anxiety, and depression. I am like a VERY nervous person and it's hard to control my moods and all. Everyday is a struggle to be perfect sometimes i just wish i could cure this disorder and move on and know that being thin isnt everything, but when I see someone thinner than me or someone on tv I am triggered and feel so bad whenever I do eat. I will literally starve for 5 days, then binge the next two days and then starve again then binge and purge and the cycle continues. My question is I feel worthless and like I have lost all hope on getting better, my boyfriend that I broke up with 3 years ago well we are back together and he knows about me being bulimic and anorexic, he yells at me because he hates that I do that to myself and he has even said 'you either choose me or the disorder.' he doesnt understand, i love him so much and i would do anything for him but i cant stop doing this too myself, it is so much in my head to stop. He always says Im too skinny but never really tried to help me, sometimes he even makes negative comments to me even when he knows that makes it worse. What can I say to make him understand? Its so awkward that he knows my biggest secret.
hey if oyu love your boyfriend and his the reason you do this maybe you need a break.anywaymaybe you need serious help like going to rehab and taking a break from your life until you get better.if yourr boyfriend cared he would try to help you.also do this for yourself.
A couple weeks ago we went out for the day with a friend of my parents' who had a son. I never really met the son before that day and I really started to like him. He was so funny and made me laugh and smile! He was even (i think) checking out my body. I actually started to love him! The thing is...he lives far away and we don't see his family that much. I know it would never work out between us and I don't even know if he likes me. How can I stop this longing? I don't have his contacts and i did leave my AIM on his computer (you know the pull down window) and his sis has my AIM.
if he didnt imyou that means he doesnt like you so plz ,move on.
iwent rollerskating one night and i met this guy. he asked me my name and then i asked him his. the next time i saw aat skating he gave me a hug and said hi. then my friend said she had his number and that she would give it to me. i called him and he said he couldnt talk. then i called him the next day and he didnt answer. then from then on everytime i called him he wouldnt answer. on the first day of school i saw him i went up to him and he said he didnt know me and then just walked away. i saw him at a party recently and i said hi and he just shrugged his shoulders and walked away. what is his deal and why is he being such a jerk. i know that he knows who i am, but hes being such ajerk to me. please guys and girls help me out!!!
hey maybe you should stop saying hi to him and showing that you care what he thinks.maybe he just doesnt want to talk to him and wants you to live him alone.
ok well school jsut started and there is this boy i liked during the summer right after i broke up wiht one of his friends had we went out but he broke up wiht me cause he said he couldn't do that to his friend (cause his friend still liked me).Well now that school has started the boy (david) is like flirting alot but then again he flirts wiht other girls too and he sits by me in class.He like really flirts wiht me alot but i dont kno if he likes me.Sry so long!
i think that if he flirts with other girls and you are not sure,but you really like him then be brave and make a move and see if he makes one back.and do you show him that you are interested in him.try that.
Ok so i heard that you stop your period as soon as your like at the age of 50. Is that true? And at what age should you stop having your period?
when you hit menopose
Okay so all the guys that i seem to like or might be interested in only seee me as a friend. I'm kind of sick of being the "friends only" kinda girl. I want to meet new guys, but i'm kinda shy and don't really go too many places to meet new guys all that much...does anyone have any ideas as to what i can do? Anything would be really helpful. Please and Thank you!
~Kiwi
PS: I'm 17 and i'm beginning my senior year of high school. I want a guy for senior year and maybe longer. Thanks again!
maybe you sdhould try showing guys that you can be friends and girlfriend material too.
well in 2 weeks its my boyfriends birthday
and i dont know what to get him. he loves
baseball and hes really into his heritage
of being fully sicilian. im in a $20 budget
and i dont know what to do? any ideas?
maybe u could but a plain shirt and write on it baseball stuff with permanent markers.like a number of his favorite player with hsi name on it.be creative.
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 15 months and we are completely in love. We still act like we did the first month we started dating, we're inseperable. His dog has grown very ill, diabetic, blind in one eye and going blind in the other.. He is the one that has to give his dog his shots twice a day and his dog will refuse to take the shot. Whenever he tries to give him the shot and he starts growling at him he keeps being reminded of when his dog was a little puppy, in a little cardboard box that would cry everytime he'd turn the lights out and start wagging his tail and barking when he'd turn them back on and pick him up. If his dog won't let him get the shots, he could die. He's been so stressed out about his dog, he's taking out on me. His attitude has changed around me... He seems so distant. He gets mad about every little thing. I've talked to him about it that it's really upsetting me that he's acting that way. I tell him that I'll be there for him no matter what, but the way he's treating me is becoming unbearable. I really want to help him... but I feel like I'm losing him. I've gotten to the point where I wanted to break up with him because of all this. I can't think of anything to do for him... he's just so depressed. I need help. How do I get him to feel better? I don't want him to be so depresed anymore... and I don't want him to be treating me like he's been.
well maybe you need some time apart aor you need to give him some space.oyu could help him by showing that you care about his dog too.like when his giving him shots,you could try to help out,give him some ideas on how to do it.
Well, things at home are not good for me. They haven't been for years, no I don't get abused or anything but I'm just not happy living here. I hate my living enviroment, and I really want to move out. I talked to my two best friends about it and they're really not happy with their familes either so we want to work as much as we can all of this school year and then next summer move in together (we have all of money problems figured out). Two of us would be 16 and one 17. My question is, what is the law for teenagers living together by themselves? We live in NJ and someone told me that you just need an adult to sign for you. Is that true? Anything is appreacited! Thanks.
well ,i think that you can move in together but you have to show your land lord that you will be able to pay the money and you have reliable jobs.also you have to be 18 toget a house anywhere.