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first move,,,,
me and this guy like eachother.. we met over the internet but we have hung out a few times. well yeah like i said we like eachother and tonight he actually made the first move in putting his arm around me and holding my hand. well as he dropped me off we hugged and i thouhgt id make the first move and kiss him i couldnt really help it, it just happened. well after that he smiled and said that he would call me later. well now its 3 in the morning and i still havent heard from him.. do you think me kissing him was a bad idea? was it too soon? and usually every night we stay up and talk on aim til like 4 and he hasent gotten on and i know hes not sleeping because he doesnt work. and im usually asleep before him.. anyway! did i make the wrong move in making the first move?
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wait till tomorrwo or call him
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its only 3 in the freaking morning!!!
give him until the afternoon at least.
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Probably not. In my experience most guys love it when a girl makes the first move. So why not make another and call him yourself.
You are really putting too much stock into this "I'll call you." line. Everyone says it, the people who will call you after they've been away from you for less then an hour, and the people who never call agian.
So talk to him, maybe something came up, maybe he was worry about looking too desperate. It certainly doesn't sound like he is trying to brush you off.
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You're worrying too much.
If he likes you, he won't be pushed away because you kissed him first. Believe me, even a VERY shy guy would be extremely unlikely to be bothered by that!
Guys say "I'll call you" a lot. Don't put a lot of meaning on that. There could be all sorts of reasons why he didn't call. Give him a day or two.
Since this is bothering you so much, though, it would probably be good - in a day or two - to IM him or give him a call. Be casual, but if you really want to talk to him about the kiss, do. If you're planning a continuing relationship with him (and it sounds as if you're at least thinking about it seriously), it would be a good idea if you two were able to talk to each other and feel comfortable about it.
A kiss alone would not drive him away, not unless you had the worst breath in the world. So try not to stress out.
Good luck!
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