okay well my name is Kimberly a future model therapist here!!! i love helping people with there problems or helping them solve there own problems. i am 14 an i live in california
shopping is my life, and when i dont have a alptop i just get on the internet through my sidekick 3 when i am in the car driving to somewhere fab lol.i have long wavy surfer kind of girl red sorta brownish hair. i a skateboard, surf, playsoccer, run track, and im on the swim team. i love abercrombie and fitch, hollister is okay along with american eagle. love old navy's pjs and aeropastles pj's!!! pac suns clothes are awesome(volcom baby)love oversized sunglasses an ripped jeans. i hang out with guys and girls and have a crush on one of my guy friend -winkwink- lol i am very outgoing an random
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So I'm a 17 year old guy and I'm a senior in High School. I also have a good number of friends. I've never been to a party before, or even a party with alochol. Most kids at my school have been to those kinds of parties, and I just feel left out and "Un-cool". Is it bad that I've never been to that kind of party, cuz I feel really stupid and anti-social and I feel that If I don't go to one I'll be hated by the people I like or looked bad apon.
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ant thoughts..??? (link)
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DON'T GO TO THAT PARTY!!!!! YOU COULD GET DRUNK AND ARRESTED OR GET IN A CAR ACCIDENT!! YOU WILL DISAPOINT YOUR PARENTS!! DO NOT WORRY ABOUT WHAT THE OTHER KIDS ARE SAYING , DON'T RUIN YOUR LIFE YOUR ONLY 17!!!! YOU CAN RUIN THE REST OF YOUR LIFE(I'M ONLY 11 AND I KNOW MORE THAN YOU!!!)
ok don't just do what ever one else is doing, i mean why would you do something so stupid just because of popularity, i mean come on can someone be any lamer. because once people start drinking then smoking then blah.... your going to be doing all that just because all the so called cool guys are doing your gonna do it to fit in. i mean you won't be a highschool outcast if you don't do those things. really you will be smart and all those other people would be in jail,broke,dead,life ruined because of drugs,or have no jobs because of when you wer 17 you did some pretty dumb things an went to jail or got involved with drugs, etc.
DON'T IGNORE THIS!!!TRUST ME, IF YOU DO YOU ARE REALLY STUPID, YAH THATS RIGHT I JUST CALLED YOU STUPID AND EVEN MORE PEOPLE WILL CALL YOU STUPID IF YOU GO TO THAT PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I really like high jump, but Im not that good. I went to nationals this year, but I didnt do so well. Any advice on how to get better?? (link)
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practice!!
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14/m
a pretty good friend of mine told me she loved me last year and kinda asked me out. i told her it would be better if we were just really good friends and she said ok its cool. now im almost positive she moved on because at school dances and stuff shes dancing with other guys and flirting with other guys and she never used to do that when she liked me. but now i realized i have feelings for her and i wish i would've given her a chance. i just don't know what to do. i really really like her. any advice? like anything im so desperate. (link)
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first off that is so cute!!! oh my gosh im almost crying!!! oh my that is adorable!!!!!
almost as cute as puppies and as sweet as cake but you no cake is on the top lol!!!
ask her out, maybe she is just hiding her feeling towards you. sometimes when girls flirt in front of guys they are just trying to make the guys jealous. I should know, i've tried.
but oh my gosh that is soooooooo sweet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hope you enjoyed mostly my advice my friend here is crying over how sweet that was!i'm the one that is giving you all the real advice, she is just writing about how sweet and cute it is.
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okay so my best friend likes this guy in our school and i like him to but he likes both of us and im scared shell get mad at me if i make a move help!! (link)
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if she ws your real friend she would be happy for you, shur she will be mad at you for a little while but she will get overit, unless she is like the kindof friend i have who never just lets things go. if she is like that then don't use my advice.or secrectly go out with him if you feel like being sneaky like i am always!!! lol hope you enjoyed my friend and i's advice!!!!
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hi. i have been recently talking to this guy that i met of some dating website. hes really nice we have soo much in common and after a week or two we met up. hes good looking and has a charming personality. he tells me after meeting that he has fallen for me and that he loves me. I think that is way too quick really. but my thing is if someone loves youu like they say they do they would call you more often, but the thing is, he hardly calls me. and he insists that I come down to see him. he won't come down to my area. he lives in scarborough and me in brampton. so the first time we met, was half way sort of. I didnt mind it and i made it a point to him that next time we meet up he should come down to my area and he agreed, then he said 2 days ago. he wants to meet at the same place we met before.. I got upset and said u promised etc to come to my area and he kept telling me that its too far etc.. I said that to him...(via txt msg) neways to cut things short,it has been two days since iv heard from him.. and I sent him a txt msg today saying i havent heard from you in 2 days hope all is well, pls call me today and let me know when u wanna meet up and if you don't pls let me know that to.. i gave him two options. but my question to you is wat do you make out of that situation.. wats your thoughts and advice to me. id really appreciate it if you would get back to me. by the way i'm 26 and hes gonna be 27 in january.
thanks
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Maybe he doesn't really like you, if he really liked you he would call you more often and if he really loved you he wouldn't care how long it actually took to get to you as long as he will see you now tht is love! start to see other people, and if he reacts in a "I don't care" kindof way then keep on dating, if he doesn't react well the just tell him you wanted to see if he really liked you. an obviously you can't trust him if you get in a relationship with him he might be busy all the time and never have time for you and cant see you because your to far away. that is no excuse if he so calls love you. i mean how does you think if you go out ur suppose to see him??? ya he might move in with you or vise versa but who is going to do the driving???
hope my friend and i helped you notice some things
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Okay, so about 6 months ago I got my cartiledge done at Wal-Mart. (big mistake) Anyways, I want to get a body bar to put in it. Does anyone know what size Wal-Mart uses in their piercings?
I thought the smallest possible was 20ga but I have found some 22ga. Thanks. (link)
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first of all if you didn't like having your cartalige done how do you think this is any different??
well, that's my only advice.
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what are some of the pros and cons about wearing thongs? thanks!
ps: pro = good thing ; con = bad thing .. incase you didn't know haha. (link)
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first of all its stuck up your butt, and second of all you'll get a major weggie(if your going to try one for the first time see if you like it at home without going in public, if you go in public and you don't like it you will walk like barney.)my advice is not to try it, my sister wears one and when she squats down you can see it and it would be really embarssing if someone said something about it.on the other hand nobody would see your pantie lines when your wearing galchoes or leggings.(its pretty tacky when you see someone with pantie lines walking around all over the place.)
ok i hope you take my friend and i's advice!!!
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14/f in love with 16/m
okay so ive loved this guy since i was like 5.
[i know it sounds kinda weird but like it was an instant knowing that i loved him] but he lives 12 hours away [by car] i used to see him every summer and every break i had. but then my parents got divorced so we stopped going. and now i just saw him for the first time in 4 years and i fell in love with him all over again. but im not sure if he feels the same way. i mean hes given some hints towards it but nothing straight forward. i could picture myself being with him for the rest of my life but i hate living so far away. im not sure if i should just ask him how he feels or if i should just get over him ? [oh yah he doesnt have long distance calling so its like i have to call him but hes always busy and i dnt want it to seem like im obsessed with him]
help . advice please :] oxxx (link)
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send him a card, tell him how you feel and hope he likes you too because you will never know how he actually feels if you don't ask and you'd be living the rest of your life without knowing with some old rich guy lol. it is much eaiser telling him by a card than in person because He can't tell you right away, he won't give you a look, or see you cry.
or if he has a cell the best way is to text an keep it simple like:
hey (his name)well i know i am a bit younger then you but i've liked you ever since i first laid eyes on you. ya i know i sound a bit dorky but, its true. and i wanted to know if you'd like to give me a chance with you?
you know something liek that
i hope you try me and my friends advice!!
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God, I have a huge prob right now....
I have A LOT of friends, and I mean REALLY alot, and they're mostly girls.
Our party is nearing and that's the only time I can give them gifts cuz we won't be seeing each other from then on cuz it's our Christmas break.
The party's already next week and here's the prob--I haven't bought anything yet! As in I haven't bought a single damn thing.
Please give me gift ideas that are cheap becuase I'm on a really tight budget. (link)
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Make your own cd's or buy some for them. no one can go wrong with cds. also the classic get girls some fuzzy socks especially since its getting really cold. maybe add a card to go along but don't make it cheap like hair pieces i mean all girls already have enough of them from their mom!!! ask them what they would like that way you won't go wrong.
hope it works!!
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Ok, i am in 8th grade and will be going to high school next year. I went to one of their games(high school) and all the people who actually go to that school look so big and experienced(sp). I am small and i am not expeirienced. All the guys were holding on thier girlfriends and i know i won't get a boyfriend and i am really scared to go there next year becuase they are really grown up. Everyone is more expeirienced than me and i cant go to high school like that. Please help. (link)
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Don't worry about what you see. As long as you are yourself you might find a boy friend. DON'T just date to date, make sure you really like that person.
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. About a year ago I found that he had a profile set up on yahoo personals. I had a suspicion that he was messing around because he was always on his computer. I found out too much, chat rooms, web cams, women online, porn sites and profiles on sexually explicit finders sites. I still can't trust him, he said he stopped. I don't know what to do. (link)
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ew dump him right now this instint!
first of all he is imature
an second when guys do that it is as bad as cheating.
it is like your not showing him orgiving him enough so he goes to porn to see what he is missing out on.
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15/f.
first off i'd like to say that im not like those girls that look for guys online that say they love them but only want one thing.. sex.
k so i have a major problem. theres this guy i love sooo much.. his names Robin. well Robin and i haven't met.. yet. he was gonna come down not to long ago but family stuff came up. but now.. a new guy named Marc has came into my life but i havent met him yet either.. but i met him through a friend.. and him and i are hanging out during the week. well Marc said that he could see himself with me in the future.. i said that exact same thing. but like i love Robin so much and i dont know what to do.
but heres the scoop:
ROBIN - i've known him(online and telephone) for over 3 years now. he loves me. i love him. we say we're gonna marry one anotehr lol. i dont want to break his heart... again.. by being with someone else.
MARC - ive know him for not even a month. he says im amazing and that he could see himself with me. but i dont want his heart broken either.
PLEASE HELP ME!
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ok all i have to say is meet them first they might turn out to be nothing you thought they were all i got to say
they might be some fat old purverts trying to get some okay lol
you never know because there are alot of sick men and woman out there today
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I really want to talk to guys more, make more guy friends and get them to like me. How should I act/dress, etc to do this? Esp. get them to like me and make more guy friends. It's really important and I need to know ASAP! Like at parties and in school, too. Don't say be yourself, just answer my question! Thanks a load!!! (link)
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ok there is nothing to it, just hang around with them but if you get the vibe fromthem they don't want to hang out with you then back off. but just talk about stuff that girls and guys like when you are with them. and laugh at some of there gross jokes or they will think youre lame.
i hav tons of male friends but all i do is be myself ya know so yeah an when i got a party i dont act weird but i act different from everyone else like i am the center of attetion, make a grand interest but not unless you don't know alot of people there then they will just think you're a fool
but if u don't know alot of people dont be that gay party pooper girl tht sits on the couch with punch in her hand all shy, talk to people!!!!! get to know people an some guys an you might get some phone numbers to lol
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14/female
well me and my friend who is 15/female are entering our schools talent show. shes a really good singer and shes a saparno (she can hit higher notes) and i'm a secound (can hit some high and some low notes). i'm trying to find a song that we can sing. i want the song to be sang by a girl thats kindof of fast and pop. but it cant have any really high notes cause i cant hit them. anyone got song ideas. thanks alot.
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well this isnt really a pop song but this is an amazing song:
my lack of skill by the early november
and another song that i know that is good is,
Goodbye to you by michelle branch
or breathe by michelle branch
an if that isnt your style then check out some natasha bedingfield songs
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Here's my situation..I went out with my ex for almost year (we even went to college together freshman year) but things didnt go as well as I planned and I broke up with him bc I wanted to "experience" college. I dated another guy, which was a disaster, and he dated another girl. The whole time I was in a relationship with another guy, my ex would constantly call me and write me letters about how much he stilled loved me and how I was the best thing that ever happened to him, but I just kinda ignored them bc I was "head over heels" for the new guy..Well the new guy and I broke up bc he cheated on me and a few months later my ex and I started talking and hanging out again and Im starting to have strong feelings for him again, so now I am stuck. Now he doesnt act as interested as he used to be and I told him how I feel about him and how we should try again but he keeps changing the subject. The thing is, he still claims hes in love with me and tells me that everyday and we hang out all the time so I dont know what his deal is..I feel like if I keep bugging him about it, he's gonna think im really annoying. And it seems like I am always the initiator...is he just giving me a taste of my own medicine (the fact that I acted that way when he tried getting back together) or is it somethng else? Has anyone been through the same situation?? (link)
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ok,well you should invite him for a talk over dinner at your place. just you and him.
and get to talking and stuff dont just blirt it out as soon as he sits down. then look him in the eye and say,"(his name), i have known you quite a while. and i know the first time we tried to get together it didn't really work out, but i am interested in having another go and i wanted to know if you felt the same way." if he tries to change the subject just say simply is that a no because if it is i understand your not ready, and finish your dinner.
but if he says he is seeing someone then dont get super dramatic about like,"Oh my gosh i loved you so much and then you just lead me on an drop kick me to the curb!!!!!!"
no no no don't do that it is all about keeping your cool. just be simple
an i hope my advice works out!
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Hes 16. I'm 14. I really like him. He thinks of me more as a little sister. What can I say for him to get me to like me.. as in girlfriend material. (link)
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well, he is probably going to look at you as a little sister but try not to become his best friend that is the worst thing to do because then he will think you are really his sister. hang out with him like go to movies an stuff, then start showing him you like him. like,call him on the phone
hang out with him
talk to him about stuff
talk about what you guys have in common
mainly just talk to him
an then when you no the moment is right tell him you like
him because if you dont you'll never Know what would happen.
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