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not ready?
Ok, i am in 8th grade and will be going to high school next year. I went to one of their games(high school) and all the people who actually go to that school look so big and experienced(sp). I am small and i am not expeirienced. All the guys were holding on thier girlfriends and i know i won't get a boyfriend and i am really scared to go there next year becuase they are really grown up. Everyone is more expeirienced than me and i cant go to high school like that. Please help.
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i feel the same way. i am going to be a freshmen next year and i thought the same thing. dont let having a boyfriend be your first priority.just go to school, make new friends and laugh with your buds.
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jaime
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i'm a freshman this year, and its a whole lot easier than it seems.
my best advice regarding boyfriends is to not worry about it. don't let it be a goal to get a boyfriend, or a setback to not have one.
you'll be fine, don't worry!
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Don't worry about what you see. As long as you are yourself you might find a boy friend. DON'T just date to date, make sure you really like that person.
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What's with the experienced thing?
High school will seem scary but there are really nice people there and there's nothing to fear. I started high school and as long as you're not screaming down the hallways acting like idiots, people are nice. Like 70% of my friends are in grades higher than mine which is sad..and awesome at the same time.
Also not everyone has a gf/bf and you'll realize that and you shouldn't fear it because you aren't experienced. I mean who's gonna know about it? Seriously unless you go out there and say "I'm not experienced!!!"
So just chillax and have fun =]
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hey, trust me, it always seems worse then it is. i recently went through the same experience, and thier only like that because they have already been were you are about to go. alot of things will change for you as you get into highschool, and that includes the guys you hang out with. you'll get to know alot of the older kids, but even though they do that stuff with thier current girlfriends, don't mean they will try it with you. get to know them, chances are thier nice guys and will only do what YOU want. relax, just take it all in, and a month into it, your gonna look back and realize how much you've grown in such a short period of time.
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