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friends situation
umm ok, me and this girl got in a fight about a year ago (im in 8th grade) and we used to be like best friends, but now that we got in the huggeeeeee fight, i just want it all to be over. i still lke her as a friend, like well not really. but shes friends with all my other friends.
i have heard that she has been talking about me behind my back, and now its all really akward between us. what can i do so we can just be friends?
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Well I am not sure what the fight is about. Just tell her I don't really like that you are talking about me behind my back. I just want this fight to be over with. I am sorry for the fight that we got into the year before. I think it is stupid we are still fighting and are not friends because of it.
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Hey there,
okay i feel i can relate to this because im actually in a really similar situation.. i wont go into great detail but basicly i fell out with this girl over the stupidest reason ever..she gets under my skin so much but yet i still miss how we used to be. anyway what you need to do is figure out first of all is this girl worth trying to get back friends with if shes going to be talking behind your back?and not even have the courage to do it to your face?
be the bigger person in all this, be civilased you can get past the awkwardness by doing just that. the girl i fell out with is friends with all my other friends too but whenever shes around i dont leave i contribute as much to the convirsation as she does we just dont speak directly if you get me.
you dont have to put on this fake friendlyness and pretend like nothing ever happend just dont be bitchy say hello and stuff,she will be dumbfounded and wont know how to react.
talk to her even and say you just want to be civilised and get all get along to some extent.
Hope I made some sense and helped,anymore questions please inbox me :)
much <3
Jess 16/f x
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Alright, im in 9th grade and ive been through stuff like this in my life....the best option is just to come up to her and apologize for everything that youve done in the past and say you want a fresh start.....if she gives you the cold shoulder or still is mean then you cant feel guilty....you tried to make it work but she just acted rudely....good luck..
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