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Show him I'm mature


Question Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 5:35 pm

Hes 16. I'm 14. I really like him. He thinks of me more as a little sister. What can I say for him to get me to like me.. as in girlfriend material.

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kimberlygal answered Thursday December 7 2006, 10:04 pm:
well, he is probably going to look at you as a little sister but try not to become his best friend that is the worst thing to do because then he will think you are really his sister. hang out with him like go to movies an stuff, then start showing him you like him. like,call him on the phone
hang out with him
talk to him about stuff
talk about what you guys have in common
mainly just talk to him
an then when you no the moment is right tell him you like
him because if you dont you'll never Know what would happen.

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Short_N_Punky answered Thursday December 7 2006, 10:04 pm:
You cant make anyone love you or want to be with you thats against there free will. If hes going to fall in love with you or even in like with you as a girlfriend then he has to make that decision himself. You can try to wear skimpy clothes and shit but that would just make you look like a slut and he def. wouldnt wana date you at least for the right reasons. Hope iv helped a little write me back id love to find out how it went.

Short N Punky

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Xenolan answered Thursday December 7 2006, 10:03 pm:
Not much you can say. The only thing you can do is wait a while, because he may simply view you as too young (and to be honest, if I were your dad, I'd agree with that). As time goes on, that two-year gap will become less of an issue.

It's also possible that he will simply never see you as girlfriend material, because the feelings just aren't there. You can't make someone love you; you can only be who you are and hope they love you for it. Best of luck to you, but don't get your hopes up too high for this guy.

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