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i'm kathleen.i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
get to know me: kathleenxsaidd- AIM.
advice
Is it normal for the guy who loves u to check out other girls? because i find it sorta disrespectful but i also hear its normal and im confused..
Hey. Well, there's a difference between an innocent look and a guy actually checking another girl out. It's perfectly fine for a guy to think other people are attractive besides you, but it's also perfectly normal for you to get jealous. If you think that the guy you're with would possibly have more of an interest in the girl than looking at her, you should deffinatly talk to him about it becuase that's not okay. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
well like my upperstomach is fine but my lower stomach has alot of fat, how can i get rid of it quickly.
&my inner thighs have fat and its gross.
&my like arms, theyre like flabby.
how can i get rid of my fat quickly.
pls help, i wanna look nice for summer.
Hey. I have the same problem, you could join a gym and work out lifting weights and running on treadmills and crunches and such, but the best exersize for your whole body is swimming. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen
How do you cheer up a friend when shes sad? because when my friend comes to me for advice i really get speachless and stuff please tell me how and thank you =]
Hey. You can always make someone feel better by getting their mind off of the depressing subject.
Also, you can crack jokes about it, like "wow, what kind of loser would do something like that..." and you know, just make something about the situation funny. Like, "You don't need him, he wears tight pants and talks like a girl" haha or something like that. As for advice, just be honest and tell your friend what you seriously think she should do about the subject, even if your advice is kind of mean. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
Sorry, i didnt know what catagory to put this under. im getting tested for ADD soon. they said itd be like 3 hours for two days. whats the ytest like? and whats the difference between ADD and ADHD?
Hey. ADHD is when you are uncontrolably hyper either all the time or it can come in little "hyper spells" is what I call them. ADD is when you can't pay attention to one this for very long and you just randomly trail off in the middle of a conversation to something totally different without even finishing the previous conversation. Like this: if you were talking about shoes or something..
"I think I want the black ones because...did you know that I will be 20 in March?"
see how the conversation just trails randomly into something different?
Well, hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
P.S. Goood luck with the ADD test :]
HELP
tomorrow
i have a date type thing with my friends
and like yeahh
i have black slacks [pants]
and black flats [shoes]
WHAT COLOR SHIRT DO I WEAR
without looking weird
like gothish
Hey. You can wear any color you want. but try to wear like white or something becuase I can't imagine bold colors looking very good. You might want to just wear jeans and a nice, any colored shirt. That might be better. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
I am 13 and I am old enough to babysit something i have always wanted to do for a little extra cash!! But i have no clue how to get started how do i get to babysit i have no clue can anyone give me advice?
Hey. You can start by putting up/giving out flyers to people in your neighborhood or people you know. Also, you want to take classes either at your library or the YMCA or something like that, teaching you CPR and stuff like that.
Hope I helped ♥Kathleen.
What does exactly good listener means? example please? and how do you know if you're friend is a good listener? thank you =]
Hey. My oppinion of a good listener is someone that gets really into the convorsation you are having, not just a "yeah" or "mhm" every once in a while. You can tell if your friend is a good listener by haveing a conversations and observe if they are looking at you when you are talking and it looks like you have their interest. Also, bring up the convorsation a little while or a day later and see if they know what your talking about
hi, well im 15, and my sisters 18. Well she's really annoying, and it really pisses me off. She acts like a kid when she wants to be treated like an adult, and she's really like, bossy. the other day, she was all "come in here when you're done, i need your help" then she tells me to help her pick out an outfit, and when im all "um i dont know..." she gets angry, like its my job. then she tells me to clean her room while she hangs up her clothes, and if i tell her to do it her self, shes all "you know you're attitude really stinks" and she keeps complaining, even though she's worse. is this normal? or is she just wierd. i think the second one but ide like someone elses opinion. thanks in advance :)
Hey. Well my sister's exactly the same way, except im 13 and shes 21, she's just wicked immature, which might be the case with your sister. Just don't do what she says, and tell her to do it herself, it works for me :]. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
13/f ~ misused and abused ~ im a screw up ~ im a freak a goth a punk a emo ~ i have only 3 friends that i love so much but were not that close ~ 2 girls and a guy ~ were very mixed personalities ~ i very depressed group ~ we go to a fucked up catholic school ~ i never try to get in trouble im not even the kind of person to talk out ~ every1 hates us even the teachers and kids ~ in catholic schools you can have no personality no colored anything or even peirced ~ im unwanted at school and at home ~ im not gunna see a phsycycatrist psycoligist or watever ~ i can never show emotion ive never cried when something happened or someone died ~ im used to it ~ theres about a funeral i go to every week ~ no tears when even my sib died ~ i have a very cold dark heart ~ unwanted everywhere ~ thats my life story i wana change ~ i will not try adoption or police or anyone like that ~ i only will use advice ~ i need advice
Hey. I bet you are wanted at home, you just don't realize it. As for school, no one is wanted at school becuase no one wants to be there. My advice to you is to do what you want, be who you want, wear what you want, and talk to whoever you want to. You might have a bad relationsships with parents and teachers, but that doesn't mean you have to have bad relatioships with potential friends. Just be nice and open-minded and try to let go of the bad things in your home/school life and try to be colorful and have a postive outlook on most things, such as "well, this isn't that bad, this could have happened and that's great that it didn't." Try to be more friendly with teachers, your family members, and other students. I hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
Other than limewire...Which i have...
Where can you download free movies???
Thanks
Hey. I don't exactly know where you can download the movies, but I know on this webiste, www.peekvid.com, you can whatch all the movies for free, right on your computer screen. ♥ Kathleen.
Lately my three brothers and I keep getting sick. And my parents to. Honestly it's kind of annoying me. Between my bros and I, we have either come home sick or have been sick from school on the last 9 school days. That's kinda sad. This weekend we were all getting sick, including my dad. My brothers are on round two of strep, and I got it about two weeks ago. I've had bronchitis that I can't seem to get rid of after 2 doctor visits in the last 2 weeks, including a chest x-ray. Is there anyway to avoid getting sick and get better sooner?
Hey. Well, eat a lot of soup and drink orange juice. Also, eat alot and sleep all day to make sure you rest and all the vitamins from the soup and juice can work. To avoid getting sick, clean and air out our house, and keep warm. Also, wash your hands a lot and clean stuff like doorknobs and sink handles, ect., you know,things that get touched a lot but barely ever cleaned, with disinfeting stuff such as lysol or clorox. Most importantly, remind everyone not to put their hands near their mouth when they are at school/work. Good luck. Hope you feel better! ♥ Kathleen
I'm in a school pageant. We will be judged on our talent, evening wear, and answering of a question. Can someone please give me some advice on pageants. Some do's and dont's thanks
Hey. Well, first off, smile all the time and make expressional faces when modeling, in cheerleading, we always mouth all the vowels, becuase it helps you to not make the same face a million times. second, try not to look nervous and pretend you're really full of yourself becuase judges like confidence. MOST IMPORTANTLY..
ALWAYS make eye contact with the judges, and act like they dont make you nervous, they absolutley love that. Always show attitude and never drop your smile. last, be cute ;].
lol hope i helped ♥ Kathleen.
i personally dont see what is so bad about drugs! maruana(sp) and weed and everything. i would never try it because my parents would freak out, but why is it illegal? all it really does is make you high, which is exactly what alchahol does! if drugs are illegal, alchahol should be aalso!w/ what is the difference? someone please explain to me and why drugs are so bad?
Hey. Drugs are worse than alchahol(sp) becuase drugs can like mess up the whole inside of your body, what with your lungs and stuff. Also, there's some theory that like every cigarette you smoke takes 20 minutes off your life. And, alchahol can deffinatly make you addicted to it, but it takes a lot longer to die of alchahol than drugs, unless of course you get alchahol poisoning. And, just listen, I've seen people that don't think drugs are that bad, then they try it and get addicted. I know, I know, everyone tells everyone drugs are bad, but I've seen some pretty bad drug addicts before, and it's not..just no. Don't try them, I'm warning you, they're really really bad.
Today I was hangin' out at Taco Bell w/ a bunch of my friends, who were all guys. They claimed that men were better than women at pretty much everything. Then when I disagreed, they said to me, "Ok, name one thing that women are better at than men." I was stuck. Then they started laughing 'cause I didn't say anything. They were like, "Yeah, all these great geniuses and inventors, like Einstein and all, all men." It made me so mad, and embarassed. They said they were just messin' with me, but I somehow can't believe that. I feel like they meant what they were saying. Should I confront them again? Or should I just let it slide and hope it doesn't come up again(maybe they were just kidding after all).
Hey. Honestly, if I were you, I would let it slide. If it happens again, though, I would confront them about it. Good luck! ♥ Kathleen.
I like a guy he is a blonde surfer type of guy. most of my freinds who are black all tell me that surfer guys only like whit girls with blonde hair and as i am colored they said he would never in a million years go out with me. Are they telling the truth?
Hey. It really doesn't mean that all surfer guys are into white people with light hair. It depends on the particular guy, not all in general. Well, hope I helped. Good luck! ♥ Kathleen.
P.S. If he likes you, your color won't matter to him.
theres this girl i like and i think she likes me too but she said she cant have a boyfreind till shes 16, i want to ask her out but shes a realy nice girl and i am kinda shy what do i do?
Hey. Well, like I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until I'm sixteen but I think her parents might mean that she isn't allowed to have a very serious boyfriend, such as going out on dates with them, like one on one dates, not double until she's sixteen. The easies way to ask someone else is to have a friend do it for you. If you aren't interested in having other people do it, you could ask her online or in a text message. Plus, you can always call her and ask her in person if you're confident enough. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
Me and a friend saw eachother at a dance last friday and there was a lot of flirting. This friday we're seeing eachother again. Last friday he said he was going to dance with me at the dance this coming friday. The thing is he has a girlfriend and when it comes to dancing i freak dance. I told him "yea ill dance with u....but what about ur....nevermind?"...then he said "Girlfriend?"...i said "yea!"....he told me "dancing is dancing". So i don't know if its going to be wrong to freak with him while he has a girlfriend?...also i can't stop flirting with him because he flirts with me....What should i do???
Hey. I was just recently in the same situation, except that went way out of perportion. K, so here's what you do:
You could either tell him you don't want to dance with him becuase you're afraid the danceing will elevate from there, and you don't want to be the reason he cheats on his girlfriend, so he can either dump her or not dance with you.
Or you can just dance with him, but do your very best not do let the bond grow from there.
And of course you could always just let whatever happens, happen.
Hope I helped, good luck ♥ Kathleen.
ok well i'm skinny...i weigh like 100 pounds but anywayss my friend said i had cankles...not to be rude but isnt that what overweight people have? I dont get how i can have cankles if im not overweight...do you have to be overweight to have cankles (sp)
Hey. To answer that question flat out, no, you don't have to be overwieght to have cankles. Some people just, have them, regardless of their weight. However, I think you'd probably get them worse if you were in fact overwieght, but weighing 100 lbs, I can asure you that you are deffinatly not overweight. You may also have stressed or swollen muscles(sp) in your ankles, but that's really easy to get rid of. All you have to do is like massage them kinda. K, hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
ok haha this sounds so weird but i dont know the title to this song and i cant find a search engine tht you can just type in lyrics so here are some of the wrds haha this is funny:
i see this lady, this lady walkin, becuz shes a foxy foxy lady and shes walkin.
becuz shes a foxy mama jama! WOO WOO!
haha i told you its funny. i think its 70's disco. but haha any answers greatly appreciated!
Hey. You can go to letssingit.com and they have a searchbar with the option of searching by some of the words in the song. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
i'm not fat, but like when i wake up in the morning my stomach is somewhat flat. but as i eat throughout the day, my stomach kind of grows! at the end of the day, my stomach is pretty big. even if i eat 1 bowl of chicken noodle soup my stomach is huge! i really hate when this happens. like in school right after lunch when i only eat a salad my stomach is pretty big and it's really embarassing, i usually suck in to keep anyone from seeing my big stomach. what can i do to keep my stomach from doing this?
Hey. My stomach does the same thing, but probably not for the reason yours does.
Uhm, it happens becuase you don't eat a lot, so your stomach gets wicked stretched out when you eat becuase it got smaller than the size its supposed to be and has trouble fitting in a lot of food. That might not be true but it's all I can think of. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
P.S.the only way to help it [if what i think i right] is to eat a lot on sort of a regular basis.