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It is a racial question
I like a guy he is a blonde surfer type of guy. most of my freinds who are black all tell me that surfer guys only like whit girls with blonde hair and as i am colored they said he would never in a million years go out with me. Are they telling the truth?
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Hey. It really doesn't mean that all surfer guys are into white people with light hair. It depends on the particular guy, not all in general. Well, hope I helped. Good luck! ♥ Kathleen.
P.S. If he likes you, your color won't matter to him.
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They probably aren't. All surfer guyz aren't the same. Some may act like tht but others may be sweet and kind and like you for you. Lets hope you picked that one. Just try it just be you are colored you are probably a really sweet gal inside. It doan matter if you are colored if he doesnt like you because of that reason then he is an a** and he isnt the right guy for you anyways!
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It all depends on the guy and where you live.All guys are different.Don't listen to your friends,just because your friends more than likley don't know him in this situation.So maybe you should talk to him and try to become friends with him.If you need anymore advice,just ask thanks ! - Alex
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Well, look at it this way: To say that all surfer guys only like white chicks with blonde hair is the same globalization as saying all black girls like black guys with droopy drawers and corn rows. So, no, they aren't telling the truth, because this isn't the case. It is called "stereotyping."
Yah, for some, that is their cup of tea, but not for everyone. Every person has their own individual tastes, no matter what their race may be.
Don't let your friends' labels dictate your feelings. If you like him and he likes you, skin color shouldn't be an issue. If you are interested in this guy, go for it.
Don't hold yourself back from the things you want in this life because of fear that you will be judged by the color of your skin. If anyone passes such judgement on you, then they aren't worth your time and effort anyway.
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As far as all guys who are sufers, absolutely not. Unforunately, there are some who do only like those girls, and they're jerks in my opinion. If they're racists, they're jerks.
Luckily, there are many guys who are involved in inter-racial relationships. So please, do not let this discourage you, with this guy. Or any other guy, and remember, if this is true for this one guy -- he's just a jerk. And you deserve better than that, so I wouldn't even worry about it, if that's the case.
Good luck with the guy, I wish you the best of luck!
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inter-racial couples are becoming more common nowadays but sadly there are still instances where they look at that if it was a "sin"
Do NOT listen to your friends. Friends are suppose to make your cheery and support you with whatever decision you make (unless you're making a rash decision to fight with a shark or something)If they think that he'll never go out with you, let them think that but don't let that bring your hopes down.
Every guy is different and you can't count on what others say. Let him decide--not your friends. Be friends with him and just get closer to him and find out what kind of girls he's into for yourself. Who knows, you may even influence his decision [in a good way] =)
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This is what annoys me
A, DONT CARE WHAT THEY THINK.Who are they to judge, they should be happy for you no matter what
B,SO WHAT IF YOU ARE DIFFERENT COLOURS, though it can be hard because of different cultural backgrounds,eg:If he cheats on you your family may do something cultural
Your mates obviously need stop bringing in race into this and no they arent telling the truth, they are telling their OWN OPNION.Which is natrual.If you like him go for it.And it is a bit offensive, because not ALL WHITE people LIKE BLONDES.And what do you have to lose??Your mates obvioulsy have some "sterotyping" problems and need to sort them out because they come across as slightly racial though myself am n ot offened.Have a go, do they know him?NO.So you go girl and win his heart.Dont change youeself for anyone.Dont care what your mates think.
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it really depends on the guy.
i dont think that it's as big of an issue as it has been in the past; but it really depends on the guy and the area you live in...
like where i like; there is a lot of different cultures; and inter-racial couples are perfectly normal and i (15/white girl) have dated black guys; as well as i have white guy friends who have dated black girls; so really it depends on the guy...
if you like him; go for it!
ask back if you need anything :]
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