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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
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What songs are easy to start singing with? People tell me to sing whatever song I want but it's not helping, because I don't sound like the person and it makes me try harder[it messes up my voice]. So any suggestions?
I'm working with "My heart will go on"
Any more songs?
wow. thts a tough one to start out with, dont ya think? well, id start out with slow ones- ones that dont take a lot of breathing- so tht you can get used to getting in tune instead. i sang to alanis morrisette all the time growing up. but you might need someone different. just keep your ears open, and try out different songs.
I like to play pranks on my brother but there all geting old do you know any real good ones?
um- use a packet of ketchup thats torn open on the top and place it under the edge of the toilet seat- the only thing that sucks about this one is that hes a guy- and most of the time he more than likely stands up. but if he ever does sit down- he'll have ktchup all over his legs. soy sauce might work good too. it'd get good distance.
I'm planing on making a small slide show.
I was wondering if anyone knew any good love songs?
If so thanks a bunch.
you might not like country music- but tim mcgraw has alot of love songs he duets with his wife, faith hill. hope i helped. IM me if you need more help with this.
ok..so..i like this guy..we'll call him kv. well he turns out to be my brothers best friend..i eventually told him, and it didn't bother him at all. i told my friend jordan, who was kv's age (they r 2 years older then me)and kv's friend, and asked her if i should ask him out. she told me no, because he had a girlfriend, and his grifriend was her best friend. i had absolutly NO clue kv had a girlfriend. i immeadiatly felt emmbaresed. i remembered his old girlfriend (lets call her dee)dee, and wondered if they were still together. she moved to florida. i found out they were still together... a couple days after i told kv, he IM'd me and told me he needed to tell me something that was private, and not to be said to anyone else. he told me that he really liked me, and his girfriend, and he was confused. he told me that she would be coming back to where we live on june 21st to visit. he said they would probobly break up...but i'm not sure if i believe him...what do i do???
-conufsed..
just keep things on a friendly basis. it'll be real hard especially when you see him in person- but as long as you stand your ground- he'll know that its wrong to be wanting two girls at once. let him know(without telling him, of course)- tht he needs to choose- you or her. hope i helped./ IM me ifyou need more help on this.
well i really like this guy and he is real nice including really HOTT. Well i want to do some thing with him because ive not got to hang out with him out of shcool. but im not alowd to have him over. eny ideas were we could hang
go see a movie- go out to eat- play mini golf- go roller skating (or ice skating)- go to a mutual friend's house to hang out- a local swimming pool- theres so many options for you two. just be creative and find out what he likes to do.dont worry- as soon as you find that out- everything will seem a whole lot easier. hope i helped. IM me if you need more help on this.
hello, this is Jackie here. I have a problem. I am confused... there is this boy, I like him and from what I can tell, he likes me. I am 14 and he is a little older. This weekend this boy, my sister and another boy went to a community swimming pool. We sat next to eachother, he put his arm around me, and we held hands. after that I went home and soon I got a call from some girl saying that she was the boys new girl friend and that I need to stay away from him now. and I'm not sure if she's for real, or just being mean? I think that it could be this girl who's friends with him, that I made a comment about me not liking. So maybe she found out and knows that I like him, and wanted to get me back. I'm not sure. what do you think? Please help i rate well
*jackie*
i think you need to confront the guy- not this bimbo girl. she very well might have no idea what it is that shes talking about. at such a young age as yours though, she might for real think that shes going out with him when shes really not. just check it out with him- i doubt hes playin you for another girl, or vice versa- but honey if he is- you need to drop him as quick as you can. sorry to be negative- just tryin to help. good luck and IM me if you need more help on this.
well the ppl who i thought were my friends always go put and never bother to call me to ever go but then when they need a ride home they always seem to call me cause i can drive i cant stand it what should i do ? should i get new friends and let them know how i ffeel ....Ill rate!!!
i would suggest doing both od those things. tell them how you feel, then get new friends. i know its harsh- but you asked. its wrong of them to do tht to you- and i know for a second i wouldnt put up with it. hope i helped. IM me if you need more help on this.
ok, I've been goin out with this guy for a little over 3 months, he's 16 and he can drive and I'm 15. It's summer so he's always tellin me how he's really buisy, I never see him anymore b/c he says he's always gone... in someways he sounds a little "overly" buisy. He lives like 8 minutes away from me, and he's only come to see me one time ALL summer. When we first started goin out I liked him sooo much that I made the mistake of telling him i would never break up with him... Things aren't working out and I don't feel the same about him, but I don't want to hurt him and I don't know how to break up with him in the right way. I don't want him to think I'm a liar and I regret tellin him that cuz I should have known it wouldn't last forever... What should I do?
well, you cant help it if things didnt work out. thats neither of you guys's fault- from what i can see. just tell him how it is- but let him know that youre not trying to hurt him. no offense to you in any way- but who knows- he may even end up having the same diffeerent feelings about you as well!
good luck- and lots o luv
All these girls in my school wear low cut shirts, and short short skirts. My school dosen't enforce the dress code at all. What bothers me is when I'm caught looking at some girl's clevage they say things like, "Hey!" I just get kinda angry because why do all these girls wear clothes like that then not like it when people stare at there ass n' stuff. I just don't get it. They get all upset when guys try to touch them and stuff. That I can understand. But they have to understand that gusy act like that becaues they dress the way they do. My question is: Why do girls dress like that, then be mad at everyone for acting the way that they do?
the only reason i can think of why they dress like tha is because they have very very low self- esteem. they feel that by dressing almost naked- that theyll GET guys' attention- but at the same time, by tellnig a guy to 'watch it' when hes looking at her- she feels like not such a big whore. its kind of blunt, and real hard to explain- but its the cold hard truth.
Is there anywhere else I can get indoor tanning bed lotion/moisturizer other than at the tanning salon itself? If so, where? Thanks.
lol. walmart. walgreens. any big store like that. you just have to read the back labels. if they say they are good to use indoor or outdoors- then youre all good.
Hey, i'm looking for a digital camera, small, not over 200. any suggestions on some good ones? thanks.
funny thing you should ask this. i saw a commercial for best buy the other day- and they have myt digital camera on sale for 89.00/ its regularly 140.- sumwhere around there. i got it this past christmas, and i love it- its awesome. clear pictures- it records video with sound, and its compact- so its super- cute. straight off the box- its an 'HP Photosmart E317.' AWESOME, AWESOME camera. really hope i helped.
How do you decide whether its love or lust?
Or seven years over 7 months?
I'm caught between a long standing relationship and a hot crush?
What should i do ?
How can I decide?
the love or lust thing could be determined by the simple idea of- wht if his manhood got cut off in a tragic accident, and he could never have sex with you?- would you love him still, or would you break up with him?- break up- lust
stay together- love.
I really like my boyfriend of a little over a month, however, my friends don't. Also, summer is coming up and I'm a big enough flirt in school, but out of school I want to be able to hang out (and hook up) with my guy friends guilt-free. I really really like my boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt him by cheating on him. What should I do?
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well, i dont know about your version of 'hooking up' - but myne can never be 'guilt free'. you make it sound like you want a boyfriend- but that you want to play him for a fool and be with other guys. he doent deserve that, just because youre a slut.
Ok I know smoking is bad for you and that I shouldn't do it. Im a 15/f and been smoking for I would say bout 2 maybe 3 yrs. I have tried to quit before and I can't.Now I'm trying to lose weight and I have heard it helps keep off the pounds. Is it true?(please don't lie so I will quit I want a honest answer.)
i dont think ive ever heard that before. if you think logically about it- it cant be true. because most people say that they need a cigarette so that they can be calm. but nicotine is a stimulant- meaning it enhances energy believe it or not. so i dont see why gaining more energy for every cigarette you smoke would makeyou gain weight.
If you were to ask 10 people in the United States if they went to college, probably 8 or 9 would say yes. What do you think it is like in the following countries?
-Argentina
-Chile
-Brazil
-Venezuela
-Spain
Thank you! All answers get a 5.
that sounds like an economics question for homework that you dont want to do, so you ask people on here so they can do it for you.
Hey, I'm 17 and have been with my bf for just over 6 months...about a month ago he asked me to move in with him, and i really want to but i dont no how to ask my parents cus i dont think they will approve... how do i tell them that i think its the right thing to do???
thers no way in the world that you can convince them its the right thing to do. until youre 18, or until your parents go completely brain-dead- theyre more thn likely NOT gonna let you go. you say youre seventeen- and depending on your bday- youve got, at the most, a year- probably sooner than that to turn 18. jsut wait it out, and if your boyfriend loves you, he'll wait.
Hi, i am 15 nearly 16 and my teenage years which i should be enjoying are being ruined. ever since i was young i have had an obsession with babies and at one point i almost slept with someone i had only just met, to get pregnant. luckily i couldn't go through with it and after a while and a great deal of thinking i managed to bottle these feelings up and get on with my life and hopefully get a degree to become a high school teacher. Since i have entered year 10 i have been taking child development which is 90% about babies, also a girl in the year below me is pregnant and is really excited and I'm just so jealous! everyone i have talked to said "it just my hormones" or "its just a faze" but its not, its more than that. it is making me depressed and my GCSE's are suffering because i cant tell the teachers why i am always so down and moody so they just assume i am being immature, then cocky when i say that I'm not being immature. I'm not a big clubbing fan so if i did get pregnant that wouldn't bother me and my best mate had a child at 16 (she is now 19) and she says its great and she hasn't missed out anything she wouldn't sacrifice anyway. please help me, i just don't no what to do!
this is a phase i myself, went through. i would see girsl at school pregnant all the time and be jealous of them. i mean, i knew my guardians would never aprove, and that was the only downside of it- but i wanted a baby soooooo bad. well, come to find out, about2 weeks ago, i found out i was pregnant, and am now scared for my baby's life, because of all the stress im going through for it. people everywhere are trying to tel me that i made a mistake- but i dont see it as a mistake. its another human life!- how could it be a mistake!- regardless, i realize now that life was so much easier before i got pregnant, and im only about 3 or 4 weeks along! this is jsut the beginning, and things arent going to get better. i really dont know how to stress it to you that getting pregnant at a young age is NOT all fun and games . you will lose major respect, and the people who you think love you the most will turn around. me and my boyfriend of over a year have come across more arguments and fights since all this happened than ever before. just be careful, and if a baby is really wat you want- i cant stop you from having one- although i wish i could.
It's kinda annoying about my younger sister.(We have an age gap of seven years) Back when I was her age, our family didnt have that much money. And I only attented a decent school that's close to our rented house.When I was in nursery and kindergarten,I had to use a trycicle to get to school. When my sister was born, we moved to a new house--that we owned. And we earned a lot more money too.This year,my sister started kindergarten. And she's enrolled to a big private chinese school.(we're part chinese)And her classes start in the afternoon!When I was in kindergarten.I had to wake up earlier before the sun does!And now that we can afford a car,my family can just take her and pick her up from school. I just thought about it now. I just wanna stop feeling sorry for myself.I don't think I'm envious cause I'm not the jealous type.I just thought that maybe she has a better childhood than I did. I don't wanna think that way, but how do i stop? please help...
well, its nothing you can really help.i mean, im sure your parents didnt just make money all of a sudden, just to ruin your childhood. its normal to feel kind of envious, but at the same time youve got to realize that wether she tells you or not later on in life, she is going to envy you because youre older than her, and have more privileges than her, and that will make you feel good. its jut a part of growing up. no big deal. hope i helped!
Well how to make a long story short? OK first.. Yesterday was my boyfriend’s birthday, all his friends including me and my best friend went out for drinks to celebrate with him. When my best friend (it’s a girl) left for a different club, I went after her, because she was a bit tipsy and I didn’t want her to be on her own.
Then when my boyfriend arrived, he came up to me and just told me that I picked my friend over him and that it is over (he stated it MUCH worse). Yeah I know it was his Birthday, but he was busy with his friends. Should I just let it go? I mean how insecure can someone be if they are jealous of you friend???
did you ever think that he did it out of drunken ness>
thats what it seems like to me, because it seems liek he did it for no reason. he was probably smashed.
Yeah, my granmother just died, we're having a funeral for her on saturday, and I don't want to be there. My dad says "Its not your decision to make" does anyone have some persuasion techniques? Or have you ever heard of a way to convince someone to do something your way?
I don't want to go. What' sthe best way to say it so I get to stay??
get real sappy and tel them that you cant be there bcause it would hurt too much to be there.