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want to break up
I really like my boyfriend of a little over a month, however, my friends don't. Also, summer is coming up and I'm a big enough flirt in school, but out of school I want to be able to hang out (and hook up) with my guy friends guilt-free. I really really like my boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt him by cheating on him. What should I do?
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If you don't want to hurt him, you could stay loyal over the summer. But if that's too hard I think breaking up with him is less hurtful than cheating.
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well, i'm taking it you really don't like your boyfriend that much if over the summer you want to go and "hook-up" with other guys.
relationships are when you care about one another, and don't care for anyone else like that.
you're not supposed to be thinking about hooking up with other guys.
i would say that you should break up with him, you're only leading a heartache for the both of you in the near future.
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well, i dont know about your version of 'hooking up' - but myne can never be 'guilt free'. you make it sound like you want a boyfriend- but that you want to play him for a fool and be with other guys. he doent deserve that, just because youre a slut.
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if you feel the need to hook up with other guys then you obviosly don't like him very much. if you don't want to hurt him by cheating on him then don't cheat on him.
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If you don't really want to settle down for more than a month, then just try sticking around with flings and weekly guys instead of having just a boyfriend.
It wouldn't be fair to your current boyfriend to go around hooking up and constantly flirting with other guys. So you should let every guy you hook up with know that you are a girl who is having fun with guys instead of trying to have something meaningful if that's true.
Whatever you do, don't cheat. It's emotionally damaging to people even if it's not a serious relationship. Consider other people's feelings when it comes to all of this.
-TheTeenGirl
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Is a relationship really that care free to you, that you want to be able to hook up with guys guilt free over the summer, and yet not cheat on your boyfriend.
To be quite honest, I don't think he really deserves you if your going to be like that. Sure you like him alot, but your also willing to hook up with other guys over your boyfriend? What does that tell you?
If you were smart you would stay with your boyfriend and give him your attention, and not let it go to other guys over the summer. Why would you even consider it?
A relationship is alot more than petty summer hook ups and flings, it goes deeper and you would do well to realize that. Sadly, the image of a "relationship" has been lost to society in recent times.
I hope I helped, and please just stay with your boyfriend and don't even consider other guys.
-Ryan
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