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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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Hi ladies, I'm really curious to get the perspective of women on penis size. I measured mine hard and found that it was 3.7 inches long, 0.8 inches wide and 0.4 inches thick with a measured circumference of 2.7 inches. Is that normal, small or big. Also I have major right curve in my penis that's shaped like a u-turn. I mean it curves directly to the right and points at my right arm, not straight at all. Is that normal and if I jerk off with the left hand will that straighten it. My last 3 girlfriends said my penis was pathetic and they would get more pleasure from a toothpick. I assume that means that I'm skinny, but I don't know. Please write back with answers as I would love to know where I stand with other men. One more thing. Does anyone else have trouble with regular condoms. Every package i buy seems to be too big. I put them on hard and they just slide right off. They feel like there about 3 inches too long and way to big around. I don't even need to stretch them out to put my penis in them erect. I'm not buying the magnums either. I'm just getting the regular average ones. I'm open to suggestions.

' it's not the size of the ship it's the motion in the ocean' and one day you will find a girl who won't care the size because she will like you for you. =]

Hey. Well, I'm 13, if that will help.

So I have a screenname[AIM] and a myspace and stuff, and I'm absolutely addicted. More to AIM then to myspace, though. I go on AIM every single day, no matter where I am or who I'm with. I go on it for atleast an hour and a half and if it were up to me, I'd never get off.

So, my question is, is there any way I can like less addict myself to the computer, is it a phase?

Thankss

lol i'm the same way; if i have nothign to do i'm on the computer or just go on to talk to my boyfriend instead of claling eachother we talk on here which is pretty gayy but w.e hahah

to make yourself less addicted you should get out of the house and maybe go to the mall or the movies or something. or when you hang out with your friends; you could go for a walk instead of being in the house. maybe watch tv? but usually that never works for me because i'd rather be on here. but there are some suggestions so good luck!

ok im 16/f and my bf 16 we have been going out for almost two years..ok well when he fingers me i cant seem to umm well moan i guess. I know he kinda wants me to and i want to too i just cant like how do i make it more pleasureable to myself? is there anything he can do to make it better? and what can i do to make myslef moan?

thanks

lol i'm the complete opposite of you; i make my self not moan. but since you want to;; your going to need to guide him through it and show him what feels good and what doesn't make sure he's not just putting his finger in your vagina. make sure he comes out and rubs a little and maybe have him variate. like have him go up your shirt at some points and curess your breasts for you to make it more pleasureable yourself you need to relax (don't know if you are or not) but if you don't relax then your muscles will tense up and it won't feel as good

all the sadness turns to rage'til everything's bloodstained.I will not be the victim.I will not play your games.it makes me sick to my stomach I'll turn it around and you will fear my fucking face

what song is this?

it's called born from misery and by the band death before dishonor

what is some fun stuff that I can do to my boyfriend to make him feel good

he should feel good being around you lol

what does fingering mean? and dome?

fingering is a term used for when guys touch girls down below and dome is when a girl sticks a guys weiner in her mouth. another name for that is oral sex. =]

well i have only had sex twice.
the second time was last night and we didnt really go all the way.
he was too drunk to..you know.. get hard but we did other stuff.
he put it in me like twice but that was it and it didnt even go all the way in.
he fingered me really hard and since then i have been bleeding a little bit down there.
i know its not my period because i just got off like a week ago.
and im kind of swollen and sore.
and ive had to pee ALOT.
is this normal and do you think that i might be pregnant?

thanks in advance =]

i dont' think your pregant. it was only your second time and usually girls are still sore there second time.. and since he was real agressive when fingering you;; i think it's from that too.. girls usually have to go pee a lot after having sex and or being fingered... i'd wait for like 3 days and if the swelling hasn't gone down and it's still sore see a doctor but it is perfectly normal :)

16/f, my friend, 16/m and I used to be best friends. Then we just stopped talking for awhile, now we're trying to mend our friendship and get back to our bestfriend status. He has come over the past two nights, which is what he used to do when we were best friends. What are some things we could do, I always feel like he gets bored and won't want to come over one day? Anything except sexual things, thank you.

all best friends have indepth conversations about their problems/past etc. watch movies. making likee brownies/cakes/cookies etc. is fun =] listen to music and just be retards. just be yourself around eachother. that's what friends do. i'm sure you'll find something to do =] maybe go over his house because then if you get bored then it would be okay =]

Well...I shave my legs and arm pits...I have shaved " down there " Twice but its really weird cuz you can see the hair under the skin and it pokes and pinches and gets itchy what am I doing wrong ? Oh ya I have a lot of dark hair down there...but I'm blonde ?? WHAT THE HELL ? lol

right when your done;; put lotion on it;; it will soathe it and make it not get itchy. lol yeah it sucks to have a lot even if you blonde;; but girls body's are different some have a lot;; some have none;; some have very little. all depends on genetics

I like this boy soo much, im always thinking about him and i always had a crush on him for like , 3 years?
We used to live near eachother and at that point, we
had sex and all that stuff.
Then i moved and things changed, we didnt talk as much and so on,so yeah i thought he used me.
Because he would act soo mean to me and be rude and call me fat and ugly and all that stuff.
But alllll the guys do that to me, all of his friends.
and he would never be mean to me unless his friends were around.
And then his BEST friend told me that he liked me and he just does that as a cover up to make himself look cool.
And i think his friend is telling the truth because he wouldnt randomly say that.
So then i thought he was just mean to me to get my attention, so sometimes I would ignore it.
Lately we had to be around eachother alot for certain reasons and he kept doing little stuff to me trying to get my attention like throw little things at me, pull my hair, take some of my stuff,say little comments, and he would do the same stuff i would do.
And he always tends to remember exactly what i say and bring up fun times we used to have , but he only does that stuff if we are around eachother and in front of his friends he doesnt really tak to me and if he does , he tries to be mean.But he has a girlfriend, bu t his best friend said he liked me and his girlfriend[obviously lol] and i dont act like i like him, i just like him sooo much.
And In your opinion do you think he likes me?
Or am i crazy?
and when and how should i tell him i like him, or should i keep it a secret?

never keep it a secret;; if you do then ntohign gets done; maybe he feels the same way maybe he doesn't you'll only find out if you ask him yourselff

his friend could have been saying that to make you happyy;; sometimes guys don't know how to flirt so they are mean.. to get your attention

but i honestly don't think he does. i don't want to get your hopes down but i think the way you are explaining it is more of a friendship then him having a crush because he does have a girlfriend and i'm sure he woudlnt' have one if he liked you. but i could be wrongg..

sorryyy =/ and hopefully he does and everything work out good for you =]

i really wanna sing this song for my talent competition called "fly like a bird" by mariah carey. but i cant get the really high notes that she does. would it be okay to like make them like kinda less high? without totally screwing the song. thanks.

i think that would be fine. just as long as you make the lower notes even lower so everything is equal

Ok soo me and my ex are so over like we made if perfectlyclear to each toher that we can't stand each other. soo i totaly moved on and i started talking to this really nice guy and we talk like every day but i get really stressed out if he doesn't call for some reason i feel like he should be. but like i'm starting to realize how great of a guy he is. when i call and he picks up hes always like hey beautiful and is like ur soo damn hot blah blah and i'm like aww thanks. and i told him i was starting to fall for him and he didn't take it as a big deal soo i'm trying to let it go and just be friends and see where that goes. but i'm back with another ex his nams mike and he HATED each other for along time and now we're friends again and oo god we have missed each other sooo much. soo basicaly my question is, am i gunna start falling for both of them? or if that happens what should i do!?
thanks much love

you already answered your question =] you said you were starting to fall for the guy who is nice. and you said your back with your other ex. so i think that you like them both right now;; and what i woudl do is figure out who you like more;; and be wise with your decicion. bc if you date your ex again (or if you already are) you might be loosing your spark iwth the nice guy and or he might get mad because maybe he's falling for you too

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time now and out of nowhere he starting bringing up the fact that we havn't had sex. I mean, it's not like i havn't thought about it because a 15 year old girl with a boyfriend two years older than her is obviously going to think about the possibilities, but I never actually brought it up or anything. Yes, I am a virgin but I have done other things with him. I just don't know if I'm actually ready to have sex with him. Like, I want to but I don't know if it's because he keeps bringing it up and I'll feel guilty if I don't or if it's because I really want to. And I know that if I'm even questioning it that I shouldn't but there is part of me that wants to. I Don't know what to do. Please help.

if you don't think your ready;; don't do it simple as that.. i had the same problem. you want to do it because you want to make him happy; but then you also want to do it for yourself.. it's kind of like taking out the trash to make your parents happy

1. don't do it for anyone BUT yourself
2. make sure you want to loose it to him

good luck

what should i do if i find my teacher sexually atractive

theres nothign you can do but fantisize.. there are laws against dating your teacher you and them would get into ALOT of trouble iwth the law

what are speed bumps. i think they have something to do with breasts?

very small boobs. (aka mosiquito bites) like speedbumps really small humps on the road but there big enough to know that they are there

i am 15 and its getting to that time where im feeling pressured to loose my virginity i feel that i have to loose before all the girls get to expeirenced what should i do?

you shouldn't just do it to do it;; guys respect virgins more anyway.. you shoudln't feel pressured to have sex. it should be something you want to do;; and it should just be like a 'lets do it and get it over with' kind of a deal because it's not something y ou just want to give away. you need to make sure you TRULY care about the person before you do it with them because your not goign to want to regret it

Hey, I really like this guy, sometime he flirt with me but, he told one of my guy friends that he didn't like black like that, that he just want to be thier friends but I don't get it because he flirts with me. And I just need advice how to flirt back with him but sometime make him confusse do I like him or not.

well;; as much as it sucks you can't change his racial status. but who knows. try to flirt with him back and stuff because maybe you can somehow trigger some type of a feeling to get him to like you.. so just flirt back with him. joke around with him. and look at him when he's talking but sometimes you should ignore him. kind of push him away and not talk to him. but just look at him and smile.. do what you can and good luck

ok i wanna go on the pill for my period because it HORRIBLE.but i kinda wanna be on it so that when it comes time to have sex i can just use a condom too and then ill be set.
my question.
do i have to go to the gyno or can i just get a perscription from my doctor?

yes you do

I got my period, but I havent told my mom. Im shy and its weird talking to her. How should I tell her?

instead of coming out and just telling her;; tell her that you've become a woman now and she'll know what your talking about

what is your opinion on shaving down there?

16 female

and should i let my boyfriend finger me?

all boys think different. i'm sure if he really likes you he's not going to think of you any different if you don't lol

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