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well i have only had sex twice.
the second time was last night and we didnt really go all the way.
he was too drunk to..you know.. get hard but we did other stuff.
he put it in me like twice but that was it and it didnt even go all the way in.
he fingered me really hard and since then i have been bleeding a little bit down there.
i know its not my period because i just got off like a week ago.
and im kind of swollen and sore.
and ive had to pee ALOT.
is this normal and do you think that i might be pregnant?
thanks in advance =]
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well i really dont have an answer for that. but i know what you mean bc the same thing had been happenein to me latly. but after a day or two it stops being sore and swollen. does yourS? i think ima ask a doctor about it this week.,., just to make sure and youll be the 1st i tell the answer to hahahaha.
Abby aka Az
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i dont' think your pregant. it was only your second time and usually girls are still sore there second time.. and since he was real agressive when fingering you;; i think it's from that too.. girls usually have to go pee a lot after having sex and or being fingered... i'd wait for like 3 days and if the swelling hasn't gone down and it's still sore see a doctor but it is perfectly normal :)
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no i dont think your pregent if his semen didnt actually go in your virgina than no your not pregnet but about the being sore and fingering thing i would wait until the sore ness clears before you do anything else because you dont want to permetnly damage your virgina you know and make sure he knows what hes doing lol hope i helped
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If you used a condom which you should have the chances of pregnancy is low if condom was used correctly. When using a condom it should be used from start to finish. After the man achieves orgasm he should immediately pull it out. I like to hold the base of the condom while it is still on his penis while he is pulling it out to prevent spillage of semen.
Never have sex with a man who has been drinking because he is unable to preform,there is no satisfaction in it and not worth the effort. A man should be gentle when touching a woman that way. Sounds to me like you were with a disrespectful animal who did not care that he was hurting you.
I'm not an obgyn but it's possible he fingered you to hard. Your next sexual encounter I highly advise you to use a lubricated condom and a lubricant such as ID glide or astroglide both which are available at most drug stores next to the condoms. Never have sex without a condom. If a man can get you pregnant he can give you a STD. Also before a man inserts his finger in you he should wash his hands. Because his finger caused soreness if you choose to allow a man to insert his finger in you again I advise you to use lubricant.
I am an adult who has sex and I always use lubricant.
It doesn't sound to me like you received any pleasure from this experience so think long and hard before you are with this man again.
If I have vaginal pain after sex I like to soak in the bath tub in luke warm water. I was in the room with my mother when she gave birth to my brother. Afterwards the nurse gave my mom an ice pack to put on her vagina. Never allow filth to touch your vagina.
If you think you may be pregnant if you a late for your next cycle get a home pregnancy test from a drug or grocery store. I find it easier to urinate in a disposible cup and dip the stick in there than urinating directly on the stick.
I can not say this strongly enough, use a condom always!!!!!!
No man is worth endangering your health over.
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If you had unprotected sex, even for a moment, then it is possible for you to be pregnant.
It's not normal to let a guy play with you until you are sore, blistering and bleeding. Next time tell the damn fool to stop and play gently. You'll be saving yourself, and any other girl he ever gets his hands on a huge favor if you can teach him that less is more when it comes to stimulating the female.
Having to pee a lot is generally not one of the early symptoms of pregnancy. If urination burns or is painful, then you need to see a doctor because you likely have a painful, but relatively harmless, infection called a UTI. A very easy thing to get if you are sexual active, but it's more likely the whole area is just really sore and sensetive. Give your boy a good talking to!
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