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suicide... help me please
I feel incredibly suicidal, and I am so close I can taste it. I can't TELL anyone. HELP ME PLEASE.
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Since you are here asking for help, it doesn't seem like you really want to do this. You know that there is so much for you to live for even though life may be tough right now. It's not as tough as you are. Call a hotline and remember that there are so many people out there that care a lot about you. Even complete strangers care about you enough to try to help. If I found out that you went through with this I would cry and I don't even know who you are. I think that proves that the world isn't such a bad place.
The people at these numbers are professionals and they'll be able to help you the most. Much more than I, or others on this website can. It's completely confidential, so no worries. Good luck.
Suicide & Crisis Hotline
1-800-999-9999
Suicide Hotline - (National Adolescent)
800-621-4000
Suicide Prevention - The Trevor HelpLine - (Specializing in gay and lesbian youth suicide prevention).
1-800-850-8078
If you want to find a different one, here's the website where I got the numbers from.
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ive had feelings like that too,
just dont do it.
imagine life without you,
theres someone out there that really loves&cares about you.
just dont(:
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I don't think I can help you in one advice column SO PLEASE! email me as soon as possible. We'll talk, and I promise you'll feel atleast a little better afterward.
please talk to someone before making any desicions that could alter your life completely, or end it. i am here for you, and i hope you take advantage of that.
love,
-Abby
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--Edit: Well. I was a cutter also, for 5 years so I know where you are coming from but that isnt a healthy alternative. If you have AIM, we could exchange screen names, and we could talk on here so this isnt as public?
Well you just told everyone here on advicenators so thats a good first step. Suicide is a horrible thing for anyone to do and it causes emotional pain to everyone that knows that person and the people who love them. I would suggest visiting this website
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It has helped me and my friends many times when we felt that we were at our wits end.
Dont make any spur of the moment decisions, if you are contemplating it I would sleep on it and chances are you'll feel better in the morning. The most common times to think of suicide are when things are unseemingly unbearable. That is generally when our adreneline is pumping and we dont think before our actions. If you take time to think it through and write down the reasons that you feel you want to commit suicide, you can help yourself understand ways to fix them.
Try keeping a journal and record your thoughts from day to day to see when the feelings seem most strong. If they seem stronger around times where something big happened that day (fight with a friend, parents fighting, bad day @ school) then chances are you just dont know how to deal and need to find a release.
Music is always good. Running/exercising/smoking(if you smoke cigarettes. If not I dont suggest it.) Screaming into a pillow, punching a pillow, calling a close friend and talking about what happened. Or if you dont want to tell people exactly whats going on you can talk to a counselor and tell her that you are stressed and ask if she knows any counselors or psychologists that she could recomend you go see to have someone to vent to. everything that goes on between you and the shrink will remain confidential.
If you need anything further - Message me.
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first off, find someone that you can talk to. a teacher, a trusted adult, a couselor, ANYONE! or even someone on here like you are now.
what all is going on to make you feel this way?
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well what you are going through happens to a lot of people. trust me. I've been there. you feel like you have no one there for you anymore, losing both of your friends at the same time. But i doubt that your best friend that quit speaking to you will stay that way. I've been in a ton of fights with my best friends, and a couple were realllly bad. but over time it got better. Sometimes thats the best thing for any relationship is time. Best friends fight. a lot. it wouldn't be normal if you didn't. so don't give up on life. There ARE better things in store for you. i promise!
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